Ngokuzalwa komntwana, izinto ezintsha zefenitshala zivela endlwini - ikotini, isihlalo esiphezulu, ukulala kunye nokunye okuninzi. Kodwa ukuthuthuzelwa nokulula akufunwa ngumntwana kuphela, akusayi kuba ngunyameko ukunyamekela unina.
Ukugqithisa kakhulu phakathi kwefenitshala yabamama abahlengikazi, banezitulo ezikhethekileyo. Ziyakhutshwa ngokuhambelana nazo zonke iimfuno kunye nemigangatho yokuthuthuzela nokulula. Kwaye kunjalo, kuyimfuneko ukuba sisondele kunye novelwano olukhethekileyo ekukhethweni kwesihlalo sokugungqa kumama onesiko.
Yintoni endimele ndiyifunayo xa ndikhetha isihlalo somama onesiko?
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukuvavanya isihlalo esitolo. Hlala kuyo, zama ukuzamazama, ukuphulaphula iimvakalelo zakho. Qikelela ukuba kuya kuba lula kuwe kule sihlalo ukuba ube nosana okanye uxinzelelekile, ungakhathazeki kwaye ngokubanzi awuhambisani nonke kwaye uyayinqanda ukunyakaza.
Inxaxheba ekhethekileyo kwisihlalo sokugungqa oomama abahlengikazi udlalwa kwakhona. Kumele kube phezulu kwaye mhlawumbi ilula. Kubalulekile ukuba iphinda ibuyele yonke imilenze yendalo yakho. Ukuba kulesi sihlalo ungaziphumla ngokupheleleyo kwaye ungayiva naluphi na uxinzelelo lwemisipha, ngoko luyakufanelana nawe.
Okwesibini, qaphela ukukwazi ukulungelelanisa oku okanye ezinye iiparitha zesihlalo sokugungqa. Ukuba zikhoyo, oku kuza kukunika ithuba lokulungisa yonke into kwiimfuno zakho: lungisa utshintsho, ukuphakama nobubanzi besihlalo.
Okwesithathu, thobela ingqalelo yokungabikho kosihlalo. Emva kwakho konke, ukuba i-creaks ngexesha lokuguqula, ayiyi kuvumela ukuba umntwana wakho alale kwaye uya kuhlala ekhathaza. Ukongezelela, usihlalo kufuneka ugijime ngaphandle kokugubha, ngokukhawuleza.
Ngokuphathelele umgangatho wezitulo zokugungqa oomama abanonsalela
Njengomthetho, ifenitshala yabantwana kunye noomama abangabongikazi bayenziwe ngezinto eziphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, ngaphambi kokuthenga, kufuneka uqinisekise ukuba ngexesha lokusebenza isihlalo asiyi kuba yingozi - zonke iindawo ezicatshulwa kakuhle, akukho
Ngokuphathelele izixhobo zokuvelisa, kungcono ukukhetha izinto eziphathekayo zeenkuni zokhuni. I-Wood ayiyikukhupha izinto ezinobungozi, ayibangeli ubundlobongela kwaye iphephile kubantwana. Kwaye ngaphakathi kwiphina indlu okanye indlu, ifenitshala yokhuni iya kudala intuthuzelo ekhethekileyo kunye nobuhle.
Ungathenga isihlalo okanye usihlalo kumama onesihlengikazi phantse nasiphi na isitolo esikhulu senitshala. Ukuba ufuna, unokwenza umyalelo kwisitoreji se-intanethi. Into ephambili akuyiyo ukuyigcina kumgangatho kunye nokufunwa kwizatifikethi zokukhusela abathengi.