Ukuncelisa isisitshixo ekuphuhliseni umntwana ophilileyo kunye onoyolo. Abamama banamhlanje banomdla kakhulu kwisihloko sokusondeza, ukuvelisa ubisi, iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokusebenzisa kunye nokuzama ukunyusa abantwana kunye nobisi babo ngokukhawuleza. Nangona le nkqubo yendalo, iimeko ezizinzileyo, le mibuzo iphakama ngezikhathi ezithile. Omnye wabo-wenzeni ukuba kungekho ubisi ngokwaneleyo?
Izizathu zeemali ezahlukileyo zobisi
Kufanelekile ukuthetha ukuba iimeko apho ubisi obuncinci buveliswa kwisifuba esisodwa kunezinye, akunjalo. Kukho izizathu ezininzi zezi zinto. Kwiimeko ezinqabileyo kakhulu, isizathu siseziphatheni zomzimba zesakhiwo okanye umsebenzi ohanjiswe ngaphambili ngaphambili. Kodwa ekubeni ezi zinto zingekho, asiyi kugxininisa kubo. Isizathu esona sizathu semali eyahlukeneyo yobisi yintlukwano ekukhuthazeni. Njengoko kuyaziwa, ubisi obuninzi olufunwa ngumntwana, ngokuphindaphindiweyo luyasetyenziswa, ngakumbi luvuselela ingono yomama kwaye kuboniswe ubisi oluninzi. Izizathu zokwahlukana ekuvuseleleni zingabininzi:
- Ingane ayinakulungele ukutsala enye yamabele, umzekelo, ngenxa yesikhumba seplati;
- Umama uvame ukusebenza kwesinye isifuba kunomnye, kuba kulungele ukuba alele kwicala elithile okanye umntwana ulungele ukugqoka kwisalathisi kwicala lasekhohlo kunokuba kunene;
- Umama waphatha i- lactostasis okanye i- mastitis , iyanciphisa umveliso wobisi kwisifuba esithile, ngenxa yento umntwana engafuni ukuyiphula.
Iphutha eliphambili kwimeko yengxaki
Umntwana, nangona uneminyaka emncinci, sele eqonda ukuba ubisi luchithwa sisuka emlonyeni omnye, kwaye ukuze uzuze kwelinye, kufuneka usebenze ngamandla. Kule nqanaba, ezinye iintsana ziqala ukuxhaphaza oomama, zijike amabele amancinci, zidonsa imilenze yazo zifuna zonke iindleko ukuba zinike "isifuba" esihle. Ngelishwa, oomama bahlala beqhubeka becaphukisa baze bahlangabezane neemfuno zomntwana, bamnike ithuba lokufumana ukutya okunomsoco okulula. Ngaloo ndlela, isangqa esilungileyo senziwe, isifuba, esele sekuncinci ubisi oluncinane, sinqatshelwe ukuvuselela, okubangela ukuba ubisi lube luncinci.
Izenzo zokuseka umlinganiselo ofanayo
Izenzo eziphambili zikaMama kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo zobisi kufuneka zibhekiswe kwinto yokuba kukhuthazwe ukulungelelaniswa kwemveliso.
- Ukuqala, ixesha elide ngaphambi kokufikelela kwisiphumo, yenza isifuba nobisi oluncinane "olukhokelayo". Qala kunye nayo yonke ukutya, emva kokunikela emva kwayo ukuze uncelise intsasa yesibini yesana.
- Zama elo xesha, xa umntwana ephuza isifuba sakhe eside kakhulu, umzekelo, ngaphambi kokuba amaphupha okanye ebusuku awanike ibele elincinci kuphela.
- Ukuba ingxaki ingokwakhiwa kweengxowa okanye ukuxhamla okungalunganga kwesinye sezibilini, imizamo ecacileyo yokufundisa umntwana ukuba athathe kwaye afunde indlela yokunika kakuhle. Ukuba awukwazi ukulawula ngokwakho, kungcono udibane nodokotela okanye umcebisi webele.
- Ukuba umntwana ushesha ukuphosa isifuba ngobisi obuncinci, ungayeki kwaye uyinikeze kwakhona. Ukuba iinzame zingasenamsebenzi, kuya kufuneka uvakalise ngokuzenzekelayo ngesandla okanye ipompo yebele. Umsebenzi awulula, kodwa ngokukhawuleza ukwandisa ukuvelisa ubisi kuwo, ngokukhawuleza umntwana uya kuqala ukukunceda,
ukuvuselela isifuba sakho.
Imithetho yokuthintela
Ukukhusela ubisi obuncinane kwelinye lamabele kubulula kakhulu - ukususela ekuqaleni kokuncelisa okanye emva kokusombulula ingxaki yokufumana isixa esahlukileyo, zama ukuhlala utshintshe enye indlela kwisicelo sokunxele nangakwesokudla. Zama ukukhumbula ngokucacileyo, zeziphi izifuba ezondliwa ngexesha lokugqibela. Kwada nasebusuku, musa ukuvumela umntwana ukuba alise inkunzi eyodwa kuphela. Ukuba ufuna ukubonisa, bonisa inani elilinganayo lobisi ukusuka kubini amabele.