Khawucinge, uhleli e cafe kwaye ungaboni ngamabomu umntu ohleli etafileni elisondeleyo. Awunomdla nobuntu bakhe. Ngaphandle kokuba uqaphele, ukhangele oko akufundayo, oko akugqokeyo, nokuba izicathulo zakhe zihlambulukile, ingaba izandla zakhe zihlambulukile. Kule meko, ingqalelo yakho ingenangqiqo ngenxa yokuba awuzange uzimisele ukufunda okuninzi malunga nalo mntu. Inomdla kakhulu kukuba le nto imele imzekelo ecacileyo enokunikezwa, ichaza oko kungabonakaliyo okanye ukungacwangcanga. Umzekelo, uhambahamba ngepaki, kwaye kungekude nawe isebe litshintshwe - ngokukhawuleza ujika intloko yakho kwisandi esivela.
Iingcali zikholelwa ukuba ukugqithiswa okunjalo kuvele kwinkqubo yokuziphendukela kwemvelo kwaye injongo yayo ephambili kukunyamekela ukusinda kwakho emhlabeni ogcwele izingozi.
Kunokuba ingqwalasela engathandabuzekiyo ihluke kumntu ongenamdla?
Ukuqala kunye nenye yezona zinto zibaluleke kakhulu ukubonakala kwe-reflex orientation. Ngoqwalaselo olungenakunqwenelekayo, akudingeki ukuba uziphophezele ukuba wenze into ethile. Ngoko, siyavuya xa sicinga incwadi eyintandokazi okanye sigxininise ngakumbi ekuboneni ifilimu enomdla.
Kwimeko xa sifanele sihlale phantsi ngenxa yomsebenzi ongenamthandayo, siyaqonda ukuba asifuni ukwenza oku, kodwa siyaqonda ukuba kuphunyezwe kangakanani ukuphunyezwa kwayo. Inketho yesibini yinto ebizwa ngokuba yingqalelo.
Yintoni ebangela ukuba ingqalelo engathandabuzekiyo?
Okokuqala, kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umthombo oyintloko wolu hlobo luqwalasela izinto ezintsha kunye nezinto. Yintoni echanekileyo kwaye eqhelekileyo ayikwazi ukubangela. Ukongezelela, umbala ogqithiseleyo umthombo wokuqwalaselwa ngokungabandakanyekanga, ngakumbi unxulumene noluntu oludlulileyo, lukhulu kunokuba luyakuthi lukhangele umntu ixesha elide.
Eyona nto inomdla kukuba, ngokuxhomekeke kwimeko yethu, isistim esifanayo sithintela abantu ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Ingqwalasela yokuzibandakanya ngokungenasicatshulwa ibe yinto into ehambelana nolwaneliseko okanye ukunganeliseki kwezidingo zethu. Ezi zilandelayo zingabandakanya izinto eziphathekayo (nayiphi na intengo), i-organic (umnqweno wokutya, ukufudumala), ngokomoya (umnqweno wokuthanda umntu wakho othandekayo, ziqonde zakho "I") iimfuno.