Ukuba unqwenela ukuthunga, ukuguqula okanye ukudibanisa, ngokuqinisekileyo, ufuna ukubonelela ngemveliso eyenziwe ngesandla kunye nosana lwakho oluzayo. Ukongezelela, kwindawo 'enomdla' abaninzi oomama banexesha elongezelelweyo, ngoko ukukhwabanisa ngexesha lokukhulelwa kungenza enye yezinto zokuzonwabisa ezizithandayo. Kodwa kungekhona apha. Ngokukhawuleza xa uthatha intambo kunye nenaliti, uya kuva kwidilesi yakho ininzi yokuhlambalaza kumakhulukazi, umama kunye nentombi intlanzi ekhanda, ukuthunga kunye nokudibana ngexesha lokukhulelwa kukubi.
Imbali yeenkolelo
Umbuzo, ingaba kunokwenzeka ukuthunga kunye nokufakela emakhayeni kwabasetyhini abakhulelweyo, abaninzi oomama baya kuphazamiseka. Ngethamsanqa, iyeza lendabuko kule nkcazo linika impendulo engalunganga. Imbali yenkolelo-ze, kutheni kungenakwenzeka ukumbathisa abafazi abakhulelweyo, ivela kwixesha elidlulileyo, xa ulwazi lwezokwelapha lungafanelekanga, iziqinisekiso zoogqirha zincinci, kwaye yonke into embi eyenzeka ngexesha lokukhulelwa nomntwana yayidibaniswe nento eyenziwa ngumfazi.
Oogogo bethu babekholelwa ukuba ukudibanisa, ukugaya kunye nokuthunga "ukuthungatha" indlela yomntwana kulo mhlaba, kwaye kunceda ukumbamba umntwana kumkhonto . Akukho zizathu zeli gama phantsi kwalo, ngoko ke kunokwenzeka ukuba udibanise nomsetyenzana womfazi okhulelweyo njengoko kubalulekile.
Iimpawu zentshukumo yabamama abanomdla
Ngoko ke, xa ufumene impendulo enhle kumbuzo ukuba ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba udibanise abafazi abakhulelweyo , ukumbamba ngomnqamlezo, ubuhlalu, ukuthunga, unokuthatha ngokukhuselekileyo ishishini lakho ozithandayo. Ungakulibali ukuvuka kwaye uhambe yonke imizuzu engama-30-40, njengokuba nayiphi na indlela yokuthunga ngumsebenzi ohlala phantsi onokubangela ukunyuka kwegazi, ngoko thabatha umgaqo-ngamanye amaxesha wenze ukuqeqeshwa okufutshane. Ukuba usebenzela umatshini wokuthunga, jonga ukuziphatha komntwana, akanakukuthanda ukutshintsha. Ngaphazamisekanga, gqiba usebenze okanye utshintshe isikhundla.