Ixesha alisimi, kwaye abaninzi ababaziyo sele befumene amadoda nabantwana, kwaye awukwazi ukufumana yakho kuphela? Mhlawumbi sele usenalo isoka, kodwa ingxaki kukuba nguye kuphela onokukuthanda, kwaye awunayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, oku kuyimvakalelo emangalisayo xa uyathandwa, kwaye kwenye ufuna ukufumana le mvakalelo ephefumlelweyo. Ukuba uziva ubuncinane kumvakalelo kumntu, ngoko yonke into ayilahlekanga. Iingcali zengqondo zithi uthando luqala ngobuhlobo bokwenene. Kwaye ezinye iintsebenziswano, ezakhiwe kuphela ngothando, azihlali ixesha elide. Kule nqaku, uya kufunda ukuba ungathanda njani umfana othanda wena.
Ngaba ungamthanda umntu ngexesha?
Njengoko uyazi, uthando luye, ngaphezu kwakho konke, ukuvakalelwa. Ukufumana uthando, siyavuya. Kwaye ukuphuhliswa kwesi sivakalelo, ngokuqinisekileyo uthathe ixesha. Ndikholelwe, ngokukhawuleza xa uthanda, uya kuziva ngokukhawuleza. Musa ukuziphosa, bonisa umonde kwaye okokuqala ujongele uthando lomhlobo. Into eyona nto kukuba nothando, ke ukuwa nothando akunakunzima.
Zama ukuchitha ixesha kunye naye kangangoko kunokwenzeka. Ngoko unokukhawuleza uqaphele umdla oqhelekileyo kunye nexesha lokudibanisa ngokukhawuleza unokukhawuleza uhlakulele ingqondo yakho engaziwayo. Kodwa ungayisebenzisi kakubi, uluncedo ngamanye amaxesha luncedo. Mhlawumbi uya kuziva udibene nomlingane wakho, uze uphumle uze uchithe ixesha elilodwa. Ukuba awunalo ithuba lokuhlala ungahoywa ngumntu okhethiweyo, oko kuya kuphelisa kakubi, kwaye uya kuqala ukuziva ungathandeki kuye. Umzekelo, oku kusebenza kubafazi abatshatileyo. Kwaye baxhatshazwa kakhulu ngumbuzo wendlela yokuwa ngothando nomyeni onithandayo.
Ukuphikisana ngesihloko, nokuba umntu unokuthanda umntu ngexesha, sithemba ngokuqinisekileyo!
Ndingathanda njani umntu othanda wena?
Ukuphendula umbuzo wokuthanda umntu othanda wena, okokuqala kufuneka uqonde ukuba uthando lunoyolo, olufanele lulethe uvuyo, kwaye aluyi kubuhlungu kunye nokuhlupheka.
Amantombazana kufuneka abonise ingqalelo ephezulu kwikhethiweyo. Zama ukuphulaphula indoda, zama ukuqonda iingcamango zakhe, zonke iingxaki kwaye ungayihoyi imbono yakhe. Kufuneka ufunde ngokusemandleni akhe, mhlawumbi awukwazi kakuhle? Emva koko, akunakwenzeka ukuba umntu avulwe ngokukhawuleza.
Gwema ukugxeka! Musa ukunxulumanisa ukubaluleka okukhulu kwezinye izenzo ezingalunganga kunye namazwi. Nangona wenza into ethile, akulungile, musa ukuthukuthela, zama ukuthetha ngokuthula naye. Oku kuyinyani ngokukodwa
Abasetyhini, ukuze nithande umntu othandayo, zama ukuthetha naye kunye nexesha lakho elivuyayo nelibuhlungu. Kodwa ngexesha elifanayo musa ukulibala malunga nexesha lakhe lobomi, nabani na, naye ufuna ukuwabelana nawe. Ingxoxo enjalo inyanisekileyo iya kuzisa ezimbini. Yinyaniseka kakhulu, kuba nokuba amanga amancinci anakho ukunikezela ngokukhulula ubudlelwane obuqinileyo.