Izinto ezininzi ezinokuphupha zidibana nabantu ebomini bokwenene. Eminye imilayezo inokuphathwa ngokulinganayo, ezinye zineentsingiselo ezahlukeneyo kuxhomekeke kwimeko okanye umntu.
Kutheni iphupha lokuncelisa?
Oku kufakazela ukubuyela okukhulu kobutyebi kunye namandla okudala. Ukuchazwa kokulala kunokwenzeka kuphela emva kokuqwalasela zonke iinkcukacha ezincinci. Ngokubanzi, eli phupha linemiphumo emihle. Ukuba uphupha ukumncelisa umntwana kumabhinqa anabantwana asebekhulile abaye baba bantwana kwakhona ephupheni, kuthetha ukuhlukana kunye necala, amanxeba akho ahlala ixesha elide, kwaye unokuphinde uthande uze ukholelwe abantu.
Izindlela zokulala kunye nokutolika kwazo
Kumfazi ongumongikazi, eli phupha limela umphumo wokoyiko olujongene nokulahlekelwa ubisi. Ngokuphambene noko, ukuba intombazana engeyonyango ingumthunywa obalulekileyo kwaye ngexesha elifanayo umsebenzi onzima ebomini. Kuya kufuna inkcitho enkulu kwimizamo kunye nexesha, kodwa umphumo uya kubangela udumo lwabantu abajikelezile. Ukuba uphupha iphupha elinjalo - libonisa intliziyo ecocekileyo kunye nenkathalo, ulungele ukunikela okukhulu ngenxa yolonwabo lwabathandekayo bakho.
Xa ukuncelisa kuphupha, kwaye ubisi abukho kwaye iinzame azikho nto, kuthetha ukuba ucinga abantu, kwaye basebenzisa ithemba lakho kunye nobubele ngaphandle kokuzisola. Kwindoda engatshatanga, oku kubonakaliswa komnqweno wokutshata ngokukhawuleza nokufumana inzala. Kanti oku kungabonakalisa ukuqaphela jikelele kunye nokufumana impumelelo.
Ukuba uphupha ukuba uyondla isifuba somnye umntu - ngokuqinisekileyo uya kucinga ukungcatshiswa komntu othandekayo okanye ukungathobeli, ongalungelanga. Unokumangalelwa ngokuziphatha kakubi ngaphandle kwesizathu, esiza kukuphazamisa idumela lakho. Ukuba ephupheni uncelisa umntu omdala-oku kuthetha ukuba ubiza ipropati yakho, qaphela.