I-Syndrome yomfundi ohloniphekileyo (okanye uhlonipha umfundi) -yayifumaneka kwabanye abantwana kunye nabantu abadala, baphakamisa ikhono labo, bazimisele, ngelixa bejolise kwindlela ethile yokuziphatha. Ngamanye amazwi, ubunzima bomfundi ohloniphekileyo bangabizwa ngokuba yi-perfectionism efana nabantwana abaninzi, ingakumbi abaselula bayashintsha.
Ukuziphatha komntwana onesifo esihle somfundi
Umntwana onesifo esihle somfundi womfundi akafuneki ukuba anqunywe ukuba asebenze ixesha elide, afunde iincwadi ezininzi kwaye ahlale efunda izikali ezimiselwe kwisikolo somculo. Ngaphandle kweengcebiso ukusuka kwicala, umntwana onjalo uyaqonda isidingo sokufunda. Akukho mfuneko yokumisa umntwana onjalo njengomzekelo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umntwana ophethe isifo somfundi obalaseleyo unasoloko ephethe phambi kwamehlo akhe kwaye uzama zonke iindlela zokumxelisa. Nangona kunjalo, umdla wokufunda kunye nomnqweno wokuphumeza iziphumo ezingcono zichaphazela kakubi ukukwazi ukuba ngumntwana onjalo. Ngokubhekiselele kwinto yokuba umntwana one-syndrome enomfundi obalaseleyo wenza iimfuno ezigqithiseleyo kwiontanga zakhe, mhlawumbi akaxubushelani nabafundi beklasi nabo bonke, okanye akakwazi ukuthetha nabo ngeenyawo ezilinganayo. Ingxaki ebalulekileyo ngabafundi ababalaseleyo kukuba abakwazi ukuphatha abanye ngokulinganayo.
Unokukunceda njani umntwana ukuba asuse ingxaki / isifo somfundi obalaseleyo?
- Yeka ukuxhasa inkolelo yengane ngokuzikhethela kwayo. (Kwiimeko ezinjalo kuyingozi kakhulu ukuthetha, awunjengomntu wonke, ungowona mhle.)
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ukuba nomntwana kwiinkampani apho kukho oontanga. (Kule meko, kubalulekile ukuba umntwana azi ukuba abazali bakhe baphatha ngokuhlonipha abazali bakhe, ngaphandle koko umphumo wolo lwazi luya kuba lukhulu.)
- Gcina ukunxibelelana komntwana kunye noontanga. (Kodwa kungekhona ngolu hlobo "Nika iincwadi zakho zezifundo, uye egcekeni elungileyo!", Ekubeni kulo mntwana umntwana uya kuhlala kwiincwadi.
Ukuba umntwana akayithandi ukuncedisa imisebenzi yasemakhaya, tshela ukuba ungamvumeli ukuba ahambe kunye neklasi ukutyelela esinye isixeko okanye i-movie ukuba akahlamba izitya emva kokutya kweveki. Kwiloo ngxelo yombuzo, umntwana uya kuthanda ukwenza okanye ukwenza okokuqala kuyo yonke into ayifanelekanga.) - Ungazami ukugubha umntwana ococekileyo, ubonise iimpazamo zakhe. (Ukuba inkwenkwezi engaziwayo isithixo somntwana, rhoqo uzisa ulwazi olutsha malunga nalo, ukuchofoza kumaphephancwadi, ii-posters. Musa ukukhusela umntwana ekudibanisaneni nabantu abanjalo, kungenjalo i-ideal ithole i-aura enkulu yobungcwele.