Ubudlelwane nabazali besiqingatha sesibini somntu ngamnye sikhula ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Amanye amantombazana ayamthanda umama wesoka lakhe, njengabo, kunye nabanye bacinga ukuba nomsindo kunye nokunyaniseka kuye. Ukuba kubonakala ephupheni, ngoko kukuchazwa kwezinto ezibonwayo, kubalulekile ukukhumbula ezinye iinkcukacha zesalathisi. Umzekelo, oko wayenokwenza, oko wayebukeka ngathi, njl.
Iphi iphupha le nkwenkwe?
Kwiimeko ezininzi, iphupha elinjalo lithembisa izityholo ezinzulu kunye nezihlobo, kodwa ungakhathazeki, kuba kwikamva kuya kuba nako ukuseka uqhagamshelwano. Isalathiso esinjalo sinokubonisa ukuba ngokukhawuleza ubudlelwane nothando luya kuba neenguqu ezinkulu. Siza kuqonda ukuba kuthetha ntoni ukuba umama womntu esathetha naye kwifowuni unomphumo olungileyo, obonisa ukuvela kobudlelwane obusondeleyo naye ebomini bokwenene. Ukuba incoko yayingalunganga, ngoko kuvela ingxabano enkulu nomntu othandekayo. Ukuphikisana nesoka lomfana ephupheni ngumqondiso omhle, uthembisa ukufumana iindaba ezivuyayo. Siza kufumanisa ukuba yintoni iphupha lomama womntu othandekayo ofa. Iphupha elinjalo lithembisa ukuvela kweengxaki emsebenzini okanye ukugula okukhulu. Umbono ebusuku, apho unina wenkwenkwe akhala, uqikelele ukuvela kweengxabano kunye namava angenanto. Hlala nomama womfana ephupheni, ngoko, kungekudala kuya kuba neengxaki kunye nokujongana nabo kuya kuchitha ixesha elide.
Yintoni umama womntu owayengumfana ophuphayo?
Iphupha elinjalo kwiimeko ezininzi libonisa ukuba umthandi wangaphambili ujongene nokuhlukana. Kwamanye amaxesha, umama womntu owayengumntu wokuqala uyayilumkisa ngesityholo kunye nomfazi osemdala.
Kutheni uphupha umama ongaqhelekanga womfana othandayo?
Iphupha elinjalo luphawu olulungileyo, olubhekiselele ekuqiniseni ubudlelwane. Ukuba umphuphi uxabana nomfana, iphupha elinjalo liqikelela ukuxolelana ngokukhawuleza. Isalathiso esinjalo sibonisa ukuba ixesha elininzi ebomini bokwenene lichithelwa kumava othando.