Ngokuqhelekileyo ephupheni, abantu baya kwizihlobo ezifileyo. Ukuze ukwazi ukucacisa umbono kwaye uqonde oko kukulinda emva kwayo, kubalulekile ukufumanisa oko umgqweno omkhulu osekupheleni. Ukuchazwa ngokuchanekileyo kokulala, khumbula zonke iinkcukacha zayo.
Utata omfi uphupha ntoni ngokuphila?
Ukuba umgca wembali wombono, kukho incoko kwiitoni eziphakamileyo kunye nesihlobo, ngoko ke, kunokwenzeka ukuba ungalindela emva kokuba iphikisana nabantu abakujikelezile. Ngokuqhelekileyo iphupha elinjalo lisitshela ukuba sinzima kakhulu ngabahlobo kunye nezihlobo zethu.
Kwimeko apho intetho ephupheni ithulile, akukho nto imbi engayilindelanga. Ingaba ngumbono othembisa ukutshintsha kwemozulu kuphela. Inokuthi ibe ngumqondiso wokukhusela. Ngokukodwa, ukuba utatomkhulu wayephupha ngelo xesha, xa iingxaki okanye izifo zaqala ukugqitywa kuwo onke macala. Kule meko, kulungile ukulinda isisombululo sokuqala kwimeko, kwaye ngendlela efanelekileyo.
Kutheni umntakwabo osemva ephupha ngomzukulu wakhe?
Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kuyisixwayiso malunga neenguqu ezizayo. Musa ukukhathazeka, mhlawumbi baya kuba ngcono. Ukuba utomkhulu ephupheni wayengavuyiswa ngezenzo zomzukulu, oku kungaba yi-omen yesifo, esingaba yinkathalo okanye isindayo.
Kwakhona, loo mbono ingabonisa ukuxabana kweentsapho zekamva. Kukholelwa ukuba ukuba uMkhulukazi wayesephupha ecaleni kunye nomzukulu wakhe waza wamnika isipho, ngoko kwixesha elizayo simele silinde ukungquzulana nomntu osondeleyo, oya kuthi, nangona kunjalo, uya kugqiba ngokukhawuleza kwaye engenemiphumo emibi.
Kutheni i-late-grandfather ephupha ebhokisini?
Kodwa eli bali lithi kwithuba elizayo kubalulekile ukulindela inkathazo. Ziyakwazi ukuhambelana nemeko kunye nempilo.
Kutheni umama nootata omkhulu baphupha ntoni?
Lo mbono ubonisa ukuba umntu kufuneka a tyelele iindwendwe zakhe ezifile. Ukuba kunokwenzeka, uye emangcwabeni okanye ubuncinci ufake ikhandlela ecaweni. Utatomkhulu nomkhulu-holo banokuthumela ulwazi oluthile. Ngokomzekelo, ukuba bathetha ukuba kufuneka baqhagamshelane nezinye izalamane, ke kwelinye ihlabathi abahlali bavuyiswe kukuba iimbopheleleko zentsapho zomelele.