Iingcamango malunga nokubeletha ziyakubonwa ngabani na abantu, kungakhathaliseki ukuba besini kunye nobudala. Ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubakho okulungileyo. Ukuchazwa kwamaphupha kuyimfuneko ukuzama ukukhumbula iinkcukacha eziphambili zesalathisi kunye nomthwalo wemvakalelo ukuze ungeze umfanekiso opheleleyo. Kwakhona kubalulekile ukuqhathanisa ukugqitywa kweempembelelo kunye neemeko ezenzeka kwindawo eqhelekileyo.
Iyiphi indima yokuzalwa?
Iphupha elinjalo livame ukuthembisa utshintsho lwekhadi ebomini, mhlawumbi lixesha lokulahla izinto ezingadingekile. Ukuba bebuhlungu, ngoko ukufezekisa le njongo kuya kufuneka benze umgudu omkhulu. Iphupha apho umntu efa ngexesha lokubeletha kubonisa ukuba awuyi kukwazi ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye nezihlobo. Ukubona ukuzalwa kwamawele kuthetha ukuba ukuvisisana kuya kuphila, kwaye umntu unokulindela ukuzaliseka komnqweno onqwenelayo. Kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba kukho ukukhetha okunzima okufuneka kwenziwe kungekudala. Ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuqala kukubonakalisa inhlanhla okanye inzuzo engalindelekanga, eya kuvela ngaphandle kwengxaki. Kukhona olunye ukutolika, ngokubhekiselele kuloo phupha elithembisa ukulahlekelwa. Ukuba ukuzalwa kuhamba kakuhle-oku kubonisa iziphumo zentlekele.
Yintoni iphupha lokuzalwa komnye umntu?
Ukuze sibone indlela enye intombi ebeletha ngayo, ngoko, ngokuvakala komhlobo othile osenyongweni kufuneka bancede kunye nenkxaso. Kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba neengxaki zokudandatheka. Ukubeletha ngumqondiso obonakalisa ukuqala kwe "bendi emhlophe" ebomini. Kungaba ngumqondiso wokuba neengxaki phakathi kwakho. Ukutolika kwephupha, into yokuzalwa kwentombazana ephuphayo, ukutolika, njengentambo yeengxaki. Kungekudala unokuziva uninzi lweembopheleleko ezongezelelweyo. Ukuba udade uyazala, ngoko, kungekudala uza kuba nexesha elitsha lobomi. Iingcamango zephupha zicebisa ukuba zithinte ngokuzenzekelayo naziphi na izigqibo.
Kutheni sifuna ukuzala?
Ukuba ububele, kuthetha ukuba kungekudala uza kufuneka ube nxaxheba kwimeko encinane ekuqalekeni, kodwa iziphumo ziya kukumangazela. Kusenokuba ngumqondiso wokuba uza kuziva unyuke. Kukho ulwazi malunga nokulala, apho kwakudingeka ukuba kuzalwe khona, kubonisa ithuba lokubonisa iimpawu ezingcono zendalo. Ukuba uthabathe ukuhambisa kwaye unomntwana ezandleni zakho, ngoko ke, kungekudala, iingxaki zemali ezinokuvela, eziza kubangela iingxaki ebomini bentsapho. Umtoliki weliphu, ukuba yintoni iphupha lokubeletha kwizilwanyana liphupha, litsholwa njengempumelelo engalindelekanga okanye isimanga. Ukuzalelwa kwikati kukubonakalisa ukuba umntu uzama ukutshintsha iingxaki zabo kuwe. Umbono ebusuku, apho kwakufuneka ukuba uzalwe kwinja, isilumkiso sokuba unokwenza umonakalo wakho.
Kutheni intombazana iphupha ngokubeletha?
Iphupha elinjalo likwazi ukuqikelela ukukhulelwa kwangaphambili, kwaye amantombazana aseburhulumenteni athembisa ukuzalwa okulula. Kwezinye iincwadi zephupha lo mbono wasukuhlwa uyisilumkiso esingathandekiyo
Yiyiphi imbangela yokuchasana okanye yokubeletha?
Kule meko, umbono wobusuku ubonisa ukuba unako ukufumana isigqibo esifanelekileyo kwaye uphumelele ukufezekisa injongo yakho. Ezi zimpawu zikunceda ukuba ufumane ulwimi oluqhelekileyo kunye nezihlobo kwaye usombulule imiba ebalulekileyo emsebenzini. Iintlukwano ezibuhlungu - oku kuyisixwayiso sokuba kulungelelanisa ngokunyamekela impilo yakho. Iphupha leemfazwe ibonisa ukuphumelela kwendlela yokujonga ngayo injongo, owachitha ixesha elininzi kunye namandla.