Abantwana abancinci baninzi babangela uthando kunye neengqondo ezintle. Ngoko ke, amaphupha abonakala kuwo, ngokuqhelekileyo bashiya imvakalelo emihle emva kwabo. Ukufumana ulwazi oluchanekileyo kuyafaneleka ukuqwalasela indlela inkwenkwe ekhangele ngayo, oko wakwenzayo kunye nezinye, iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo ezilinganayo. Ukongezelela, ukuchazwa kwamaphupha, kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iziganeko ezenzeka kuwe ebomini.
Kutheni umfana ephupha?
Umntwana ephupheni uyisimboli sokuthi unokukwazi ukujamelana nengxaki ekhoyo ngaphandle koluncedo lwabantu. Ukuba uthe wagubungela inkwenkwe encinane, ngoko ubomi boqobo unemionde eninzi, kwaye unokukwazi ukuphumeza ngokucwangcisa izicwangciso zakho. Ukuba ephupheni kwakufuneka uwangaze inkwenkwe encinane, ngoko uphumelele ekusebenzeni nasebudlelwaneni beentsapho phambi kwakho. Kwindoda, iphupha apho wayezibona eyinkwenkwana, ibonisa umzuzu ebomini, oya kuguqula ubomi bakhe. Ukuba umntwana omncinane uphupha inkwenkwe ekhalayo, ngokukhawuleza uya kuguquka kwinto ethile. Oku kunokuthi kuqwalaselwe njengesilumkiso sokuba umntu ovela kwimeko yongqongileyo kwaye ukholelwa ekunyameni. Ukubona indlela umntwana egijima ngayo kwiintlanganiso kuthetha ukuba unokufumana i-destiny yakho ebomini.
Iphupha, apho le nkwenkwe yayisemandleni, iqikelela iingxaki kunye namava ahlukeneyo aya kudibana neemeko ezilungileyo. Ukuba ukhulise umntwana ongaqhelekanga, othukile ezandleni zakho - oku kuwuphawu lokuba ungumntu onelanelekileyo onokukhusela umbono wakhe. Yabona indlela inkwenkwana efa ngayo ezandleni zayo,
Ukuze ibhinqa libone inkwenkwana ephupha, ithetha ukuba, ngokwenene, kufuneka ufunde indlela yokulawula iimvakalelo zakho. Ukuba umntwana uhleka ngokuvuya - oku kukuphawu lolwalamano olutsha. Kwinye yeencwadi zokuphupha kukho ulwazi lokuba amaphupha endodana encinane ibonisa impumelelo emsebenzini nasemashishini. Ukuba uphupha inkwenkwe encinci ephupheni, unokufumana into engalindelekanga okanye uyimangaliswe.