Ukuzalwa kwentombazana imnandi kakhulu kwintsapho. Umama kunye nogogo sele bexubusha ngohlobo luni loncedo abanalo. Kwaye ubaba kunye noomkhulu baba sele belibale ukuba babelindele ngokungapheliyo kwenkwenkwe. Wonke umhlobo nesihlobo ufuna ukuba yintsapho kunye nabazali abancinane. Ngoko ke, ukuba liholide yentsapho yonke, ke wonke umntu kufuneka akhululwe. Ngoko, phawula ngakumbi ukuba kuvuyiswa njani intombazana esandula kuzalwa (eyenziwe) kumama, uyise kunye nogogo.
Ndiyakuvuyela intombazana esandula kuzalwa
Ukuze uncoma izihlobo malunga nokuzalwa kwentombazana encinci, akudingekile ukuba ubhale izibongo okanye izibongo, uwanele ukuthetha oko ucingayo. Ukuvuyisana ngentombazana esandula kuzalwa kunokuthiwa ngamazwi akhe, kuphela ukuba bavela entliziyweni entliziyweni.
Yintoni evame ukufunwa ngumncinci? Ngokuqinisekileyo, impilo, ubumnandi bomama ubumnandi, ukukhula kakuhle, ukuthobela, ukwenzela ukuba konke kwenzeke ebomini, ukukholisa abazali bakho kunye nogogo nomkhulu, kwaye okubaluleke kakhulu - ulonwabo olukhulu nenhlanhla. Kakade ke, ukuthelekiswa kwentombazana encinane njengengelosi, ifu elibomvu, i-ray yelanga, i-princess encane kunye nabanye bayamkelekile ngokuvuyisana.
Akuyimfuneko ukuza yonke inkampani ngezipho kwaye uyathokozele ukuvuyisana nosapho ngokuzaliswa. Emva koko, ngokuzalwa komntwana, abazali abatsha baya kunika lonke ixesha labo, kunye nelo nxalenye encinci yexesha apho intombi ilele, kwaye yonke imicimbi ibuyiselwa kwakhona, iya kufuna ukuphumla, kwaye ingayi kuhlangana neenkampani ezinomsindo. Ukuvakalisa uvuyo kubazali abancinci ngokuthumela ikhadi lokubulisa, ukubiza okanye ukuthumela i-SMS.
Ngokuphathelele izipho, ndingathanda ukuphawula ukuba abazali abatsha bakhetha ukhetho lwemali. Ekubeni bakholelwa ukuba bayazi bhetele kunezinye izinto abantwana babo abaluxabayo abayidingayo. Emva koko, andifuni ukufumana izinto eziphathekayo zepinki ezifanayo okanye ezimbini iimboli ezifanayo.
Ndiyakuvuyela intombazana esandula kuzalwa kwivesi
Ewe, ukuba ufuna ukwahlukanisa phakathi kwabantu abancomayo, unokubhala ukubhalaliswa kwifom yeenkondlo. Okanye ukuba awunayo italente enjalo, ngoko unokuyilungisa ingcali yenkondlo okanye ufumane i-Intanethi.
Njengoko, umzekelo:
Kukho abathathu kuni namhlanje,
Uvuyo lukhulu kwaye lukhulu.
Isitratshi esivela ezulwini
Kwimaphiko enothando aziswayo
Iphasela elixabisekileyo
Uthando olusenyongweni, oluthandayo.
Yinakekele umntwana,
Yaye ungacingi!
Vumela impilo ibe namandla
Intsana yakho enhle!
Ngoko bekusoloko bekukho inhlanhla!
Uvuyo, Uthando Nolonwabo!
Umama omncinci kunye nobawo baya kuvuyela kakhulu ukufunda amagama anomvuzo kwikhadi lokubulisa, kunye neeplaskdi ezikhethiweyo ezikhethiweyo kunye neengoma ezibhaliweyo.
Ungayincoma njani ugogo ngokuzalwa komzukulwana wakhe?
Kukho ilizwi lokuba oogogo bazalwa ngumntwana wokuqala, kwaye nangona kunjalo umzukulwana omdala olindelwe kwiiebhanki zepinki. Enyanisweni, ugogo uyavuma ukunyanzela kubahlobo bakhe kunye nabasebenzi.
Ixesha liza kukhawuleza,
Lo mntwana ukhula,
Ngenye imini ngokucacileyo,
Uya kuthiwa "ngumfazi"
Kuya kuba caleni ngeenxa zonke,
Ngumshanelo wempindezelo,
Kuya kuba nezitya ezingcolileyo,
Kwisitya esivela kwitafile ukuthwala,
Ukulindela ulwandle lwakhe lonwabo,
Ufanelekile,
Masibe nomhle,
Ngoko ukuba unethamsanqa ebomini!
Kanye kunye neepastadi kunye neendinyana, ummangaliso omncinci ugqithiselwa izambatho ezintle ngokuqhelekileyo, imidlalo ephathekayo (ezithambileyo, eziphuhlisayo kunye namadonki), kunye neyona nto imfuneko kwintambo encinci (iibhotile, izitya). Kubalandeli bokuqala, imarike yeempahla kunye neenkonzo zinikezelwa: iilwimi zeetweets, izipho ezivela kwi-diapers nokunye okuninzi.
Ngaloo ndlela, ukuvuyisana nabo bonke (kunye ngamnye okanye ngokwahlukileyo) amalungu entsapho kunye nentombazana esandula kuzalwa inokubonakala ngathi iyinto eqhelekileyo, kwaye ingaba yinto yobugcisa obuninzi, eya kubazali, oogogo nomkhulu baya kumangaliswa. Into ephambili kukuba ukuvuyela umntwana kwaye isipho sasinyanisekileyo kwaye sinyanisekileyo.