Inkcubeko yokuthetha

Umgaqo-nkqubo wezemfundo ngoku ngokugqithiseleyo ugxininise ekuphuhliseni ubuchule bokuthetha. Ukukwazi ukuthetha ngokufanelekileyo ngokuqhelekileyo kuthiwa enye yeenjongo zemfundo, kunye nezinye izakhono eziphambili, ezifana nokucinga okucokisekileyo kunye nokukwazi ukulungisa iingxaki ngokufanelekileyo.

Iyintoni inkcubeko yokuthetha?

Enye yeenkcazo zenkcubeko yokuthetha kukukwazi ukukhumbula iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokunxibelelana nokusebenzisa olu lwazi, ukulungelelanisa kwiimeko ezahlukeneyo.

Nolu uluhlu lwezakhono ezenza inkcubeko yokuxhumana:

1. Ukuvakalisa izimvo zabo ngokucacileyo.
2. Gcina unxibelelwano ngokuchanekileyo, ngokuhambelana nemigangatho yokuziphatha.
3. Qonda umzuzu xa uqhagamshelwano lukulungele.
4. Kucacile uqaphele ngenjongo yoqhagamshelwano lwakho.
5. Khetha indlela efanelekileyo kakhulu yokusebenza yonxibelelwano.
6. Bonisa ukuthembela kumnxibelelwano.
7. Ukuchonga nokunciphisa ixesha lokungaqondi.
8. Ukukwazi ukukhusela okanye ukulungisa ingxabano ngokuchanekileyo.
9. Ukuvula ukujonga ngombono womnye umntu.
10. Mamela ngenyameko.

Inkcubeko yokuxhumana yobuntu

Iingcali zengqondo zentlalo zibalaselisa uluhlu lwezakhono ezenza inkcubeko yokuthetha ngokubanzi.

1. Ukukwazi ukucinga nokucinga.
2. Inkcubeko yokuthetha yokuthetha.
3. Amandla okulawula iimvakalelo zakho.
4. Inkcubeko yempawu; iiplastiki ezimnandi, imeko efanelekileyo.
5. Ikhono lokuphulaphula kwaye ngokupheleleyo ngokubanzi ukuqonda amagama omnxibelelwano.

Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba umntu onenkcubeko ekhulumisanayo ayikho "inzululwazi" kunye nekhola. Lo ngumntu obalulekileyo, onokukwazi ukusebenzisana ngokuzibandakanya kunye nokuthetha ngokufanelekileyo nangayiphi na intetho okanye ingxoxo. Ngendlela, ukuba unomdla kumnxibelelwano kwi-diplomacy, sikucebisa ukuba ufunde umsebenzi wamaqhina aseTshayina "ama-stratagems angama-36".