Ngeli xesha elibunzima lobomi kubamelwane, ootatomkhulu, unokuva iingcebiso ezininzi malunga neengxaki eziyiminyaka emithathu kubantwana, nendlela yokuziphatha kubazali, izihlobo ezifuphi.
Kule minyaka, njengomthetho, abantwana baqala ukunika i-nursergarten. Oku kukunyanzela okongezelelweyo. Emva koko, okokuqala, okokuqala, utshintsho kwiimeko eziqhelekileyo, apho bekuhlala kukho umama osondele. Ngoku umntwana unokujamelana nesisombululo esizimeleyo semicimbi ethile, ukunxibelelana kunye noontanga kunye nokuzama ukukhusela iimfuno zabo.
Kule ngqungquthela igxotha ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo. Musa ukucinga ukuba nomntwana wakho, into ephosakeleyo, ngenxa yenyanga, waphenduka kwintsana enhle kwi-monster eyakhayo. Kuphela nje inkathazo yeminyaka emithathu kwaye ukunika iingcebiso kubazali malunga nendlela yokuziphatha nomntwana kubaluleke ngakumbi.
Iingcebiso kubazali ekunqobeni inkathazo iminyaka emithathu yengane yakho
- Musa ukuhamba malunga neemfuno zomntwana kunye nokunyaniseka kwabanye.
- Qonda imeko nganye, kwaye ungacingi ukuba umntwana enze into efunekayo.
- Ungaqhubeki malunga nomntwana, nokuba uyagxininisa, xa usendaweni ebanzi.
- Yiya kulungelelanisa nomntwana.
Kwenzeka ukuba ukukrokra kunye nokufuna, umzekelo, ice cream. Ugogo, osondeleyo, onesihawu, uthando kunye nje ukuba umntwana angalili, uqala ukukholisa unina ukuba amnike ice cream.
Musa ukuhamba malunga nomntwana nogogo. Kuba ngomso, inkunzi ikwazi ukuphosa umsindo, umzekelo kwivenkile, kunye nemfuneko yokuyithenga. Emva kwayo yonke, kufuphi naye uya kuba ugogo, apho wabona umlingane ngokuzaliseka kweminqweno yakhe. Zama ngomntwana ukuba axoxe ngale meko, apho uchaza ukuba kutheni ngoku akakwazi ukuba ne-ice cream. Ngokomzekelo, uthi kuye: "Awukwazi ukufumana ice cream ngoku, unokufumana umqala, ngenxa yokuba uhlamba kuphela. Ngeyure kuya kwenzeka. "
Masithi imeko xa umntwana wakho, evuka ekuseni, akafuni ukuya enkulisa. Kwaye akukho nto yokukholisa apha ayincedi. Awudingi ukuphakamisa ilizwi lakho kwaye usongela. Zama nje ukufumanisa oko kwenzekayo kwaye kutheni enqaba ukuya kwi-kindergarten. Mhlawumbi, ukhubekiswa ngumntwana oqinileyo okanye wayengenayo ixesha lokucela ibhodlo kwaye utitshala wakhe uyabahlazisa bonke. Kubalulekile ukufumanisa isizathu, kwaye emva kokuthetha notitshala, ukwenzela ukuba ezo zimo zingabi khona.
Abantwana bazivakalelwa kakhulu xa kunokwenzeka ukuba basebenzise abantu abadala. Enye yeemeko ezinzima kakhulu xa kukho "ababukeli".
Ngokomzekelo, wena nomntwana wakho nendawo yokudlala. Njengomthetho, abantwana abaneminyaka emithathu ubudala banengqondo kakhulu kwaye abafuni ukuhamba kwisicelo sokuqala somntu omdala. Yiba nomyalelo wokubiza umntwana wakho ngamaxesha amaninzi kunye nexesha eli-5. Kwaye okokuqala kufuneka utsho ukuba umnike eminye imizuzu engama-5, kodwa emva koko uya kuhamba. Emva kwexesha, kuya kuba ngumkhwa womntwana, kwaye ukuwususa kwindawo yokudlala ngeke kube nzima.
Ekuqaleni, ngelixa engasetyenziswanga, "unokukhweliswa" ngokunikela into enandi, njengeapulo okanye i-candy.
Kukho iimeko xa inkwenkwe ithatha into kwaye ayifuni ukunika nantoni na okanye ifuna ukugqoka impahla ethile kwaye ayikho enye.
Kuyafana nakwezinye iimpahla. Zama ukuthetha nomntwana wakho malunga nemeko yonke, uchaza ukuba kutheni namhlanje kungcono ukugqoka i sweta, kwaye kungekhona ijacket.
Inkxalabo yeminyaka emithathu yinkinga enzima kunye noko abazali bafanele bakwenze kuwe. Kodwa ukuba unamathela kwimigaqo ephambili: ungaqhubeki malunga nomntwana, thola ulungelelaniso kwiimeko, ube nobulungisa kwaye ube nesigulane kunye ne-crumb yakho, ngoko-ke ubunzima beeminyaka emithathu kuya kudlulela kuwe ngokungaqondakali.