Sonke kufuneka senze ukhetho ebomini yonke ixesha, ngamanye amaxesha kufuneka sikwenze emininzi imizuzu. Umzekelo, uthenge iingubo okanye i-blouse nge-trousers, uye kwindawo yokuzivocavoca okanye ngosuku, bhala ingxelo okanye ukhangele ibhalansi? Kukho ukhetho kwaye luyinkimbinkimbi, ukulungiselela kwangaphambili ubomi obuninzi-ukhetho lomyeni, indawo yomsebenzi , indawo yokuphumla. Ebomini, yonke into iyangcola, kwaye kaninzi silahleka, siyanqikaza, singayazi indlela yokwenza okulungileyo.
Abaninzi bethu kwinkqubo yokukhetha ukusebenzisa iindlela ezingaqhelekanga - bazama ukubona "iimpawu zexesha elibi", bajike ekuncedeni amakhadi, ukuxoxwa ngenhlanhla , kodwa abazi ukuba bangakhetha njani. Ngethamsanqa, kwengqondo, kukho iindlela ezizodwa ezikunceda ukwenza izigqibo ezifanelekileyo.
Indlela yokwenza okulungileyo?
- Zama ukucinga indlela yokutshintsha ubomi bakho kwixesha elizayo ngayo yonke into enokwenzeka, ujonge phambili kwiminyaka emininzi okanye amashumi eminyaka. Chaza izinto eziphambili kwixesha elizayo, kwaye ukhethe oko kuza kukukhokelela. Ngaba ukhetho lwakho luyakunikela kude nephupha elixabisekileyo, kwizinto ezibaluleke kakhulu kuwe ebomini?
- Faka isicelo semali endala, evivinyweyo kunye novavanyo: uthathe icwecwe lephepha uze ubhale kuyo i-pros and cons of each option, kwaye uvavanye nganye into ngokubaluleka kwayo kuwe, kwisikali seshumi. Bala iziphumo uze ukhethe.
- Ngamanye amaxesha umele uzibuze-ngaba kunokwenzeka ukuba ugweme ukhetho lwezinto ezimbini okwangoku? Ukuba unganqikazi kwaye ukhathazekile, oku kungabonakalisa ukuba akukho nanye yeziphakamiso ezikhethiweyo.
- Amantombazana, ukwenza ukhetho olufanelekileyo, ngamanye amaxesha bathanda ukubonisana nabahlobo kunye nosapho. Khetha kwiindawo ezikufutshane nabantu abahlanu. Kufuneka babe ngabantu abazizilumko, obahlonelayo, oba thembileyo. Kakade, akufanele babandakanyeke kweli bali nangaliphi na indlela. Chaza imeko kubo, cela icebiso.
Imiva ezayo emva kokwenza isigqibo esifanelekileyo:
- Unenene ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukhetho owenzayo kwixesha elizayo luza kuzisa iingeniso, inzuzo kunye nolonwabo;
- nangona ngoku kunzima kuwe, amandla aya kubuyela ngokukhawuleza, kwaye uya kuziva uzilile kwaye uxolo lwengqondo.
Ukuba wenze ukhetho olubi, uya kuba nesifiso esinamandla sokubuya, kwaye i-alamu iya kwanda kuphela. Yaye khumbula - awukwazi ukulungisa iimpazamo zexesha elidlulileyo, kufuneka nje ufike endleleni efanelekileyo ngoku, okwangoku. Into ephambili kukuba ukhethe ngokufanelekileyo namhlanje.