Abantu abaninzi banomdla wendlela yokuhlala kweli lizwe ngokuchanekileyo, ukuze kuphepheke ubunzima, ukuba ubomi buzele uvuyo kunye nokunyaniseka, ukuba yonke into iya kuhamba kakuhle kunye nosapho, kwaye yonke imihla izisa ukwaneliseka. Masizame ukuqonda indlela yokuphila ngokwemithetho yendalo yonke kwaye sikwazi ukuzonwabisa ubomi.
Iseluleko silumkileyo malunga nendlela yokuphila ngokufanelekileyo
Ngoko ke, ukuba yonke into ayigqibekanga ebomini bakho, into ayikho "i-glue" kwaye ubomi abuyikukholisa, ke lixesha lokuphinda uphinde ucinge yonke into kwaye uzame ukutshintsha ubomi bakho. Ngokumalunga nendlela yokuphila ngokufanelekileyo kunye novuyo, siya kuxelwa ngala macebiso:
- Yiba njalo, nangona umntu engayithandi. Abantu abalungileyo abakho, kwaye ukulungelelanisa ngamnye kunako ukuhlala "balahleka" ngokwabo kwaye bengayiqondi ukuba ngubani ngokwenene.
- Musa "ukugxotha" ngemali . Ukuba iholo lakho likuvumela ukuba uxhase intsapho yakho, ukuba uhlale ugcwele, njl., Ungakhathazeki ngokwamazamo ekuphuculeni imeko yakho yezemali nangaphezulu, awukwazi ukufumana yonke imali.
- Musa ukukhwele, wonke umntu unobomi bakhe, iingxaki kunye nemihlali kuyo, xabisa oko unakho.
- Ukuba kunokwenzeka, yenza okulungileyo kwaye kuza kubuya kuwe. Emva kokondla i-kitten engenamakhaya, unikele ngemali kwiinkedama, njl. 'ucebisa' umphefumlo wakho.
- Khumbula, yonke into ebomini yakho ixhomekeke kuwe, yiba nethemba kwaye ufunde ukuvuya nanoma yimuphi umzuzu (ukumncoma komntwana, ukusa, ikhephu lokuqala, njl.).
- Zama ukufunda ngaphezulu. Funda iincwadi , ukunxibelelana nabantu abanezilumko, ukuhamba, ebomini kukho izinto ezininzi ezinomdla kwaye ziyamangalisa, konke oku kuya kukunceda ucebise umhlaba wakho wangaphakathi.
- Funda ukuxolela abantu, ngoko uya kuzikhupha izinto ezimbi, ube nolonwabo ngakumbi kwaye unamandla, kuba ngumntu onamandla onokumxolela.