Ukuzibuza indlela yokwenza umboniso wokuqala kunye nokulungiselela intlanganiso eyigugu, mhlawumbi sele ulungelelanise imigaqo-ntsebenzo yakho emibini kwaye uzama ukuyila ngengqondo kwizwi elithembekileyo. Kodwa ngaphandle kobuqili beengqondo awunakwenzeka ukulawula. Ngoko ke, ngaphambi kokuba uwele umda wekhaya lakho, laphula iingcebiso ezimbalwa.
Yenza impembelelo emhle kumqeshi
Umqeshi onokubona ubona okokuqala ngxo ludliwano-ndlebe. Kuye, ihlabathi lakho langaphakathi (oko, ngokwenene, isityebi kwaye lifanelwe inhlonipho) liyimfihlelo, ukwazi ukuba zeziphi iimeko ezikhoyo, akukho xesha. Ngoko ke, kubaluleke kakhulu ukuba "unike" imbonakalo yakho kumfanekiso ofanelekileyo. Ufuna ukwenza impembelelo yendoda yoshishini kunye nomntu onzulu, akunjalo? Ngoko, gcina le mithetho elandelayo:
- akukho mini, i-neckline enzulu kunye ne-pantyhose kwi-mesh. Ukungabikho kwe-pantyhose yindlela ephosakeleyo;
- ukulibala ngokukhenkceza okukrakra kunye nokuziqhayisa. Ubuso kunye nezandla kufuneka zilungiswe kakuhle. Gxininisa ubuhle kwaye ufihle imiphumo. Yimvelo;
- Ukuphefumula omtsha kukhuthaza ukuqonda. Ukuba utshaya, akukubi ukuba ne-pint candies. Ayikho i-chewing gums, kwaye kungcono ukuba ugweme iigayari ngokupheleleyo ukuphela kwendlebe nodliwano-ndlebe;
- kuphumla. Smile kunye nesimo esihle sengqondo somsebenzi. Musa ukukrazula kwaye ungenzi ukunyakaza kweentlanzi. Zithembele kuwe. Nangona ukuba awuvunyelwanga, ngoko uya kufumana okukhethwa kukho ngakumbi;
- ngokucacileyo nangokucacileyo ukuvakalisa iingcamango zakho. Musa "ukukhawuleza", ungumdala, emva koko;
- ukuba umqulu wakho kwimfundo awukugqibeki, ngoko uthetha ngakumbi nomntu othetha naye. Makube nexesha kwaye anqwenele ukuhlola "amanqaku" akho. Ukuncokola ngcokola nawe, uya kukulibala malunga nezi ziko;
- ziphatha ngokokuba akuyena wena owufunayo (umqeshi nomsebenzi), kodwa bahlala kuwe. Oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka "utyhuse impumlo yakho" kwaye uyigcine. Bonisa iimpawu zakho zobugcisa kwaye ubonise iimfuno zabo. Ukuqamba, ngokuqinisekileyo, akulungile, kodwa unako ukumbumba.
Indlela yokumncedisa umnxibelelwano?
Akubalulekanga kuphela oko uthethayo, kodwa nendlela oyenza ngayo. Ukunxibelelana ngokungabonakali kubaluleke ngaphezu kwamagama. Inyaniso apho sikhundla
- ukuphepha ukuvalela okuvaliweyo;
- uthetha ngendlela efana ne-interlocutor;
- zama ukukopisha izenzo zakhe. Kodwa musa ukunyaniseka;
- Musa ukubheka kude kwaye uphakamise.
Yiba nomdla kuwe, ngoko abanye baya kuvuya ukuthetha nawe.