Kwenzeke ukuba kwintlalo yanamhlanje, "uhlala" uxhulumano luya kukhethwa ngokubakho ngeengxoxo zekhompyutha. Ngoko akumangalisi ukuba umbuzo wendlela yokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu luba luyaziwa kakhulu. Enyanisweni, umntu unokubhekisela ekungenisweni komntu, kodwa ngaphandle kokukwazi ukwenza unxibelelwano oluhle kumntu onxibelelana naye, kuya kuba nzima ukuphumelela nantoni na.
Indlela yokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nanoma yimuphi umntu?
- Ngokuqhelekileyo ukwakha unxibelelwano oluqhelekileyo alufumanekanga ngenxa yokukhubazeka ngokuqhelekileyo ukucacisa ngokucacileyo iingcamango zabo. Isizathu esingaba nokungaqiniseki okanye ukunyaniseka okugqithiseleyo, iingxaki ngokuchaneka , ukungabi nalwazi lokufunda nokubhala, isilulumagama esilumkileyo.
- Ukukwazi ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu ngokuxhomekeke ekubeni bakwazi ukuphulaphula. Ngokuvisisana, akunakwenzeka ukuthetha nomntu ophazamisa rhoqo, ukuphulaphula ngokubonakala kobukho okanye ukuvumela ukubukeka.
- Ungayifumana njani ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu abangaboni nje ukuba unxibelelwano olufanelekileyo? Hlaziya isicatshulwa sakho somnxibelelwano, mhlawumbi wenza yonke into yakho ukuze ingxoxo ingenzeki. Yiba nesineke ngombono womnye umntu, nokuba ngaba kukho konke okuphambene neyakho.
- Ukuba awufumani ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabani na, kungaba ngumba wokuzama ukuthetha, kanti imfihlelo yencoko enhle ithule. Yithetha igama elilandelayo kuphela xa lifunwa, unike umnxibelelwano ithuba lokuvakalisa iingcamango zomntu. Oku kuya kumnceda aqiniseke, kwaye uya kufumana ulwazi oluninzi.
- Indlela yokufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nanoma yimuphi umntu? Yonke inzululwazi iza kukuxelela ukuba kulula kakhulu ukuqala incoko ukuba umntu ulungele ukuba yinto. Kwaye ungabonisa isimo sakho ngokumomotheka, nje uzame ukuyenza ibe yinyanisekileyo, i-grimaces ephosakeleyo ayinakukwazi ukunceda umntu ofana naye.
- Indlela yokuxoxisana neqabane lamashishini, ukuba awufumani ulwimi olufanayo nabani na? Ngokuqinisekileyo, mhlawumbi unokungenwabalala okungahambi kakuhle, kodwa mhlawumbi nguwe kubo. Maxa wambi abantu bayenqaba ukudibanisa, kuba abayiboni loo ngongoma. Ungazami ukukrazula ingubo yonke ixesha,
uzama ukufumana ukulungelelanisa okunganelisayo kumacala omabini. - Kunzima kangakanani ukufumana ulwimi oluqhelekileyo nabantu xa bexhomekeke kwimpikiswano, bayigxeke ngokuzithandela zonke izenzo kunye nokuthetha. Ngoko ukuba unjalo nje unxibelelwano, zama ukutshintsha, ufunde ukuthetha amazwi anomusa, ukugxeka kwiimeko ezinqabileyo kwaye kuphela ukufumana isizathu esihle kunye neengxabano.
Ngamanye amaxesha, nangona ukujonga yonke imigaqo yentetho enhle, kunzima ukwakha unxibelelwano , kwenzeka ngenxa yemifanekiso ebonakalayo engabonakaliyo. Ngoko, ukuya kwintlanganiso, zama ukujonga okufanelekileyo.