Ingqina ngumncedisi omkhulu kumyeni kwaye uyamnceda kuyo yonke imizamo yomtshato ngaphambi komtshato. Uqala amandla akhe ukususela kwimeko yokulungiselela iqela le-bachelor kwaye ilungiselela umyeni isicatshulwa sokungahambisani nokuphila kwakhe kwangaphambili.
Indima yobungqina kumtshato
- I-Suit kunye nezixhobo . Ubungqina bujongene nobukho be-boutonniere kumkhwenkwe kunye neentyatyambo zomtshakazi . Ngaphambi kokuya kumyeni, kufuneka ayeke kwivenkile yeentyatyambo aze athathe zonke iimpawu zomtshato eziyimfuneko. Ngethuba elimisiweyo, indoda efanelekileyo ilindele ukuza endlwini yomyeni kwaye inokuyilungiselela umtshato.
- Izindandatho kunye neepassports . Imisebenzi yongqina emtshatweni kufuneka igcine imihlobiso yomtshato kunye namaxwebhu. Ngaphambi kokutshatyalaliswa komtshato, isibini sinokulibala nayiphi na inkcazelo, kodwa "isandla sokunene" sihlale silumkile. Ingqina elilawula umbutho wonke amalungiselelo kwaye ukhumbuze umgwebi wokubhiyozela iinkcukacha ezibalulekileyo.
- Imihlobiso . Ngomhla womtshato, ubungqina banceda umyeni uhombise iimoto. Wonke umntu kufuneka abe ne-champagne okanye iwayini ngeiglasi, i-napkins, i-candy kunye ne-coorkscrew. Ingqina ibeka zonke iindwendwe kwiimoto kunye nokulawula ukuhamba kwabaqhubi.
- Ukuhlawulelwa . Ubungqina buni na umtshato? Kanye kunye nobungqina obuza kunye neskripthi somhlawulelo womtshakazi . Ilungiselela iintlobo zeebhanki ezahlukeneyo, iiskese, iwayini, iziqhamo, izithande ezithandekayo, iingoma okanye iingoma. Ezi zipho ziza kunceda ukuthengisa abaqabane. Kwintlawulelo, ubungqina bendlela yokuziphatha buxhasa umyeni kwaye bazisa iintwendwe.
- ISEBE LOBHALISETHI . Kuqinisekiswa ukuba ukubingelelwa okungumfuziselo nge-champagne kunye neesekese kwenzeke kwiholo yokutya ye-Ofisi ye-Registry. Kwakhona ulungiselela iincinci ezincinci, ii-flower petals, ilayisi, njl. ngenxa yokuhamba kwabasanda kutshata kwiofisi yokubhalisa. Emva koko, uxoxisana nabaqhubi malunga nokuhamba kohambo kwaye ubeka iindwendwe kwiimoto.
Yintoni efunekayo ubungqina emtshatweni?
- Indawo yokutyela . Ingqina kufuneka ihlale kwindawo yokutyela. Zama ukulungisa amacwecwe egama ukuze iindwendwe zikwazi ukuhlala ngokukhawuleza kwaye zingenazo iingxaki. Le ndlela ihlonipha kakhulu abamenywe. Ukuba umntu unenkathazo yokuhlala, ubungqina kufuneka bazinzise ngokukhawuleza.
- Umbutho . Yiyiphi eminye imisebenzi inobungqina obunomtshato? Uhlwaya udlula phantsi kobunkokheli bakhe ngokupheleleyo. Engaziwa wonke umntu, ulahla kwaye unike imiyalelo kubasebenzi.
- Isimo . Ukuba akukho mqhubi wesigqeba kumbhiyozo, a mangqina aqhuba iholide. Lungiselela umxholo kunye nokuzonwabisa okungavamile kwangaphambili. Khumbula ukuba ngexesha lokuhlala kwabo, zonke iindwendwe kufuneka ziziva zikhululekile. Ukuba umntu engakhathazeki, lungisa imeko.
- Uncedo . Ubungqina bomyeni emtshatweni bubheka umfazi olahlekileyo kwaye umkhulule. Uwenza u-80% womsebenzi walo mfana oselula. Kungatsholwa ukuba umsebenzi wokufumana umtshakazi ngokuqinileyo ubuxoki, ekubeni umyeni angadideka. Kwakhona, ubungqina kufuneka bafumane izipho baze bazibeke kwindawo efanelekileyo.
- Ukugqiba . "Isandla sokunene" soloko sishiya ekupheleni.
Abantu abasandula kutshata baya kushiya emva kokutya, kwaye ubungqina bamele banakekele izipho. Injongo yakhe ephambili ekupheleni kokuhlwa: tshela iindwendwe kwaye uqinisekise ukuba ivenkile ayiyilibala. Ubungqina obunokuthi buzalise iholide ngokufanelekileyo kwaye lulungelelanise yonke imiba yentlangano.
Ngethuba lokulungiselela umtshato, usasaze yonke imisebenzi kunye nobungqina. Izambatho zakho mazidibaniswe. Ngelo xesha lomtshato, bekungekho buhlungu ukuba ibe yimbini esitshatileyo kwaye wenze iholidi ingalibaleki.