Ngomnyaka ngamnye wobomi, kungekhona nje ukuba zonke izitho zangaphakathi zomzimba womntwana ziphuculwe. Uphuhliso lwenzeka kwinkqubo yokuzala. Ukubunjwa kwalo kuqala kwisibeleko somama. Kukho iimeko xa abazali beqaphela ukulungiswa kunye nendodana yabo ngexesha apho, ngombono wabo, ukuza kuzalwa akuzange kwenzeke. Oku kuyabaxhalabisa, kuba iingcinga ngokukhawuleza zifika engqondweni malunga naluphi na ukugula.
I-Chubby kubantwana abancinci
Ukulungiswa kokuqala kwamakhwenkwe, oko kukuthi, ukwanda kwipenisi, kuya kwenzeka nokuba kusebuntwaneni, iminyaka emi-2-4 okanye kwisikolo esiprayimari. Inyani, kungekhona ngenxa yokuvuswa kwesondo. Unyana wakho unokufumana ukulungiswa kwemishini. Kwenzeka ngokuqhelekileyo ngenxa yeempembelelo ezahlukeneyo: ukuxhatshaza kwepenisi ene-diaper egcweleyo, iipenties eziqinileyo, i-bladder egcweleyo. Isini sesini somntwana sinokunyuka ngenxa yokuvuvukala nezifo. Ngoko, umzekelo, ukulungiswa ngumphumo wesifo se-rectum okanye ukuhlasela kwe-helminthic.
Kwezinye iimeko, ukulungiswa kwabantwana kubonakala kungenasiseko. Kukholelwa ukuba le "inetyala" yento eyenzeka ngokukhawuleza yesikhungo somlanjana sokumiswa.
Ukongezelela, kumakhwenkwe, ngokukodwa umdala oneminyaka elilodwa ubudala, ukulungiswa kuvela kuguqulwa kwe-trunk kwinqanaba le-knee-elbow, elalithatha ngokuthatha ixesha lokulala.
Ukwandiswa kwePenis kwintsapho ngamanye amaxesha kukhuthazwa ngabazali bechukumisa kunye nokubanga ekutshitshiseni kwendawo yesini kunye nezitho ngokwazo.
Ukulungiswa kwamakhwenkwe amantombazana
Uphuhliso olusondeleyo lwezesondo lwesigxina sesintu luqala ngo-10-12 weminyaka. Ngeli xesha, ipenisi iqala ukwandisa kubafana. Ngokukhula kwepeni, umntwana uyavuswa yi-libido. Ngoko ke, iminyaka eyi-12 yimihla apho abafana beqala ukulungiswa ngenxa yesifiso sesini. Ukongezelela, intombazana ibona amaphupha angenangqondo, ngenxa yoko kukho ukungcola - ukungabikho kokuzibandakanya. Ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-12 ukuya kwe-14 kuya kwexesha lokuhlaziya i-masturbation. Abazali noogqirha bakhangele oku ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Abangaphambili baqaphele. Oogqirha bacinga ukuba i-masturbation kwintsholongwane ibe yinto eqhelekileyo. Ukulungiswa ngokuphindaphindiweyo kubakho kubafana ngokukhawuleza, umzekelo, ngenxa yeengubo zangaphantsi eziqinileyo, ijee, ngenxa yokuxubha xa ugibela ibhasikidi, usebenza.
Abazali akufanele bakhathazeke, kuba ukulungiswa kwintsholongwane yinto efanelekileyo yokuqeqesha inkqubo yokuzala yonyana wakhe. Ngokuphambene noko, imeko enjalo yenkwenkwe yenkwenkwezi ebusuku kwaye kusasa, ukunyuka ngokuzenzekelayo kwilungu lezesondo kuyimpawu yokuba konke kuhamba kakuhle.