Uyakhumbula umzekeliso weegundane ezimhlophe? Xa uHaju Nasreddin ebuzwa ukuba yintoni imfihlelo yokungafi, waphendula wathi imfihlelo ilula - ingacingi ngembongolo emhlophe. Akunzima ukuqagela oko umfundi owayenomdla wokubuza umva kamva wacinga ngako.
Ukucela ingcamango yokuba singenzi nto, sigxininisa kule ngqalelo kwaye, ngoko ke, siya kubuya kule nkinga. Masishukumisele ukugxila kwimizamo encinane kwaye sifunde indlela yokuyeka ukucinga malunga nexesha elidlulileyo, malunga nesoka elithile langaphambili (mhlawumbi lisithandwa), litshintsha indlela yobomi.
Inyathelo lokuqala: Ukuxolela kunye nokwamkeleka
Intukuthelo kunye nomsindo kuya kutyhafa intliziyo kunye nokunyanzela yonke imizamo yokuyiphilisa: eyakho kunye nexesha. Qonda ukuba awukwazi ukujezisa umntu kwi-offense eqokelelwayo, njengokuba awukwazi kwaye awukwazi ukuyeka ukucinga ngaye. Ngoko ke, nje wena, mxolele. Ngenxa yoko, akufuneki ukudibana, cinga nje (umfana okanye imeko evela kwixesha elidlulileyo lonke), cela uxolo kwaye uxolele. Yamkela into yokuba okwenzeka ngaphambili. Awukwazi ukuwuguqula, kwaye iingcamango neemvakalelo ezimbi ziyi-anchor kuloo ndawo ephosakeleyo apho kwenzeka khona yonke into. Akayi kukuvumela ukuba uqhubeke. Kwaye sinezinto ezininzi ezinomdla!
Inyathelo lesibini: Ukususa izikhumbuzi
Ungayiyeka njani ukucinga ngomntu onesithombeni sakhe esilenga kwi desktop yakho? Xa "ingoma yakho" idlala ngokuphindwe ngama-100 ngosuku ngosuku lwakho lokudlalwayo. Ukuba ulala, ufihla emva kombhoxo, unikele kubo ngomhla wokuzalwa. Ixesha lokuba ulungele umoya, uqokelele zonke izikhumbuzo ngaye kwaye uzifihla. Abayi kuphina naphi na (ngaphandle kokuba, ngokuqinisekileyo, unquma ukutshisa okanye ukulahla kude). Kodwa baya kushiya isicwangciso sokuqala. Kwaye, ndikholelwe, ukudibanisa nokungabikho kwabo kuya kuba lula kunokuba kunikezele ixesha elixabisekileyo lemihla ngemihla ebuhlungu.
Inyathelo lesithathu: Ukutshintsha ubomi
Ixesha lokutshintsha ubomi bakho, ukusukela kwixesha elidlulileyo ukuya kutsho. Ukwenza oku:
- ukushiya ixesha elingaphantsi. Sizinika ixesha elithile lokusebenza, ukufunda, iintlanganiso ezinomsindo kunye nabahlobo (gwema ukuhlala ngeenxa zonke kwinkampani encinci apho iingxoxo kunye nenkumbulo ezingenakunzima kulula ukuza nazo). Ngokufanelekileyo, imbono "yokuyeka ukucinga ngendoda ethandekayo" kufuneka ithathe indawo yendawo "apho ungathatha iiyure ezimbalwa ngosuku";
- zifumane iholide. Awuyazi indlela yokwenza isiphambano, uboya okanye upheke isepha? Ngethamsanqa, ehlabathini kunomdla wokuba wonke umntu. Umzekelo, ukudansa okanye ukufunda ulwimi lwangaphandle. Ungesabi ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimincintiswano, ukunxibelelana nehlabathi lonke. Kubalulekile ukuba uzive likhulu kangakanani eli lizwe kwaye linomdla gqitha kulo;
- Sihamba. Emva kokuba uvuselele umkhosi wakho, unako ukuhamba uhambo olude (mhlawumbi - thatha ikhefu uze uhlale kwelinye ilizwe), nangona kunjalo, ungaqala ngokufunda ngokubanzi malunga nommandla ojikelezayo. Nomaphi ohlala khona, uya kuhlala ufumana indawo ezithakazelisayo kunye neengqiniso ongaziqhelanga ngazo. Akusiyo ingcinga embi ukumema abavela kwezinye iindawo ukuba bafunde umhlaba wakho kunye;
- sizitshintsha. Ngaba utshintshile isitayela sakho seenwele ixesha elide? Ngaba usebenzise isitayela?
Uthenge amanzi amancinci amatsha? Ixesha lokuba unike uthando ngakumbi, ukufumana uvuyo kunye nenhle "mna"; - banakekele abanye. Ububele obuqokelelwa ngexesha leentsuku zokubandezeleka kunokutshaywa ngokunyamekela abanye. Umzekelo, isilwanyana. Okanye abantu abadinga ukufudumala kwakho. Uthando luvakalelwa kukuba ihlabathi lifuna kwaye liya kufuna ngonaphakade. Kulungile ukuba unamandla omthando, kuphela ufuna ukuwuhambisa kwelinye ishaneli. Ufanele uzive uvuyo olufunekayo, kwaye ezinye iintliziyo zixhamla nazo. Ukuba kunzima kuwe ukunxibelelana nabanye abantu, zinike uthando kubathandekayo bakho. Ndikholelwe, oku kutyalo-mali olumnandi lwakho, oluya kuzisa umdla omkhulu.