Ukubeka indandatho ngomnwe, umfazi uyaqiniseka ukuba unqobile umntu onokuphila ubomi obude kwaye obonwabileyo. Kwezinye iimeko, umzabalazo womthandi uqala nje, kuba kuya kufuneka ukwabelane nomfazi obaluleke kakhulu ebomini bakhe - unina. Ngokuqhelekileyo ulwalamano phakathi komkhwekazi nomalokazana alongezelelanga, kwaye iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo kwiimeko ezinjalo ziya kwamkeleka. Ukukhetha iindlela ezifanelekileyo zokuziphatha, kuya kubakho ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye nokuphila ngokuvisisana nolonwabo.
Iingcebiso zeengqondo zendlela yokunxibelelana nomkhwekazi
Nangona kukho ukungqubuzana okunjalo kwabesifazana beeminyaka ezahlukeneyo kunye nabalinganiswa abajongene nazo, kukho ezinye iindlela eziza kunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye nokuphepha iingxabano ezinkulu. Ngokuqhelekileyo, kukho ukuxabana ngenxa yomona, izimvo malunga nokugcinwa kwezindlu kunye neemeko zezindlu.
Ingcebiso yesazi sengqondo yendlela yokubeka uninazala kwindawo yakhe:
- Ubudlelwane kufuneka bakhelwe ngokuqwalasela iimpawu ezintathu ezibalulekileyo: inhlonipho, ingqiqo kunye nomonde.
- Kubalulekile ukunyamekela umyeni, njengoko kubalulekile ukuba wonke umama abone ukuba umntwana wakhe ulungele kakuhle, uyondla kwaye uyonwabile. Emva kwexesha elithile, uninazala uya kuqonda ukuba unike unyana wakhe ngezandla ezilungileyo.
- Ukuba umamazana uyamzonda umkhwekazi, isiluleko esilandelayo se-psychologist siya kunceda ukuseka ubudlelwane: unike iimpawu ezinxulumene nazo. Shayela rhoqo ukufumana ngempilo, kukunceda ukuthenga, ukusa esibhedlele, njl njl. Umsebenzi ukuvumela umama-mkhwenkwe azi ukuba akaye yedwa kwaye ibalulekile ebomini bakho.
- Ukuphila nomama kwintsimi enye, kubalulekile ukuqonda ukuba kule ndlu inkosikazi. Ukuba uhlala ngokwahlukileyo, wuthathe njengendwendwe, njengokungathi wayengumntu wasebukhosini.
- Ukuseka ubudlelwane kunye noninazala, sebenzisa le ngcebiso yengcali yengqondo: cela umcebisi wakho kumasipala ukuba ungabikho. Unokuqala ngeengcebiso zokutya kwizinto ezithandwa ngumyeni wakhe.
- Khangela iifowuni eziqhelekileyo zokudibanisa, umzekelo, ukudibanisa umkhwekazi kunye nomalokazana onokumthanda
iindidi okanye imishanguzo. - Dumisani ngokuqinisekileyo umama-mkhwenkwe phambi kwabanye abantu, ubonise ukuba unecala elihle. "I-radio ye-Sarafannoe" ngokuqinisekileyo iya kuhambisa amahemuhemu kwisihlobo, ngubani oya kuvuya ukufunda malunga nokubonakaliswa kothando.
Ekugqibeleni, ndifuna ukuthetha ukuba kufuneka uziphatha ngokuqhelekileyo, ubonise iimpawu zakho ezilungileyo, kuba kukuthi uthandane nomyeni wakho, oku kuthetha ukuba umama wakho uya kubabona ngokukhawuleza okanye kamva.