Umtshato onamandla ungumqondiso wenyunyana ehambelanayo, kwaye abantu abasondeleyo kuphela banemicimbi ekhunjulwayo njengomtshato wesafire. Kulo nyaka wokukhumbula umanyano weentliziyo ezimbini, kunokwenzeka ukuba ulungiselele umthendeleko omkhulu, uqokelele kuzo zonke izihlobo nabahlobo. Okanye uchithe okwesibini kwintsapho enqabileyo.
Umtshato waseSafira - minyaka emininzi emtshatweni?
Umtshato oneminyaka engama-45 ubudala umlando wayo omde kunye neembasa ufumana izilingo ezininzi namava amaninzi ebalulekileyo. Kwaye kungenanto engahlanjululwa ngethuba lesafire, eliqukethe i-titanium kunye neyinyithi yaba ngumqondiso walo mhla oyingqungquthela wobudlelwane obunamandla obunene ne-titanium engamashumi amane anesihlanu.
I-ruby ebomvu ebomvu igugu lokukhumbula iminyaka engama-40, njengoko ukubonakaliswa komnqweno kuthatha indawo yoluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka - isafire, eneempawu ezikhethekileyo zokuqinisa impilo, okuyimfuneko ukuba abantu abatshatileyo basesidlangalaleni. Umtshato waseSafira ngumqondiso wexesha elingenammiselo wothando kunye neminyaka emihlanu kuphela ukwahlula isi sibini kwijubane legolide lekhulu leminyaka.
Yintoni ewanikwa ngomtshato wesafire?
Amagama kunye neempawu zokukhumbula imitshato zizithetha ngesipho esifiselekayo. Ngako oko, umbuzo wento yokunikela umtshato wesafire ngokwawo uphendule impendulo, ngokwemvelo kuyisikhumbuzo esingenakulibaleka esihlotshiswe ngeli litye elihlaza okwesibhakabhaka kwaye lihlotshwe ngamathoni aluhlaza okwesibhakabhaka. Kungaba:
- iiglasi zeglasi;
- indondo yo khumbuzo;
- iindidi ze-blue roses okanye ezinye iintyatyambo;
- ikhonkco kunye nepantshi kunye nesafire;
- zobumba.
Yintoni yokwenza umtshato wesafire kubazali?
Ngokubanzi, ukukhutshwa kwezipho kuxhomekeke kwindlela abantu abasondeleyo abanenjongo yokubhiyozela umnyaka ozayo. Ngoko isipho somtshato wesafire kubazali akunakwenzeka.
- Yilungiselela abazali ukuba bafumane iholide yothando eYurophu okanye kwi- honeymoon eGrisi okanye kwiIntanary Islands. Akunakwenzeka ukuba bakwazi ukufumana uhambo olunjalo kwixesha elikude lamaSoviet, xa babhalisa umtshato wabo.
- Umbutho wesiganeko esisisigxina sinesinye esibalulekileyo kwaye sithandekile entliziyweni, enokunikezelwa kumtshato wesafire kumama noyise.
- Ividiyo yentsapho yekronological kunye nokukhethwa kwezithombe kunye neentetho zengqondo emva kweemifanekiso ziya kukhunjulwa ixesha elide.
- Ukulungiswa nokuphuculwa kwezindlu kuya kuba yinto emangalisayo yokwamkelwa kwabazali.
- Ukuzalwa komzukulu okanye umzukulu isipho, ngaphaya kwendumiso. Yintoni enokuba yinto enqwenelekayo kubantu abavuthiweyo kunokuba bakhuliswe kwaye baxhamle isizukulwana esincinane.
Ziziphi izipho zomtshato wesafire kubangani?
Kodwa yintoni enokuyinika umtshato wesafire kubahlobo, ingxaki ayinzima nje, kodwa ngezinye izihlandlo inzima.
- Isimo somtshato wesafire, umbutho wenxalenye yokuzonwabisa, iqela elidlala indima liyisipho esihle kakhulu kubahlobo abonwabileyo, enoba amaqhawe asafire ayawaxabisa.
- Ukuba abantu abatshatileyo nabahlobo banomdla wokuzonwabisa, oku kungaba yinto ethile kule ndawo:
- ukuloba;
- izitifiketi zegadi kunye negadi;
- amathikithi ekhatywayo okanye kwikhonkethi;
- uhambo oluya kumyuziyam okanye kwi-excursion;
- incwadi eyintandokazi;
- okanye nokuba ngumdlalo wepalball wokusebenza ngokukodwa.
Nangona kunjalo, "abasanda kutshata", abanomtshato wesafire kwimpumlo yabo, banokuyilungisa izipho ezifunwayo kubantu abasondeleyo. Kungaba yinto ephantsi komhlaba kunye nokusebenza. Umzekelo:
- isethi seesitya;
- isililo sokulala;
- i-albhamu yesithombe okanye i-scrapbooking;
- isiqhamo sesitya;
- ikhekhe;
- ukufudumala okufudumeleyo kubini.
Indlela yokugcina umtshato wesafire?
Umzekelo wendoda yesafire kwintsapho iya kulungiselelwa yintlokontwa yabantwana, kufuneka baqwalasele ixesha elibalulekileyo:
- Ekuqaleni kokuhlwa, i-toast enkulu ifanele isandile. Abafazi bavuyiswa ngabantwana kunye nabazukulwana.
- Ingoma yenziwa ngokuhlonipha amaqhawe. Kungcono ukukwazi kwangaphambili oko kwakukhwaza ngomtshato wabo.
- Umdaniso womtshato uvakaliswa. Ngaphambili, kuyimfuneko ukucacisa ukuba bayavuma ukuba impilo iyavuma.
- Ukunikezelwa kwezipho. Kuba oku kungcono ukubonelela ngekhefu elithile. Ukuba kukho iindwendwe ezininzi, qhekeza umkhosi kwiindlela "ezininzi".
- Ukuphucula umculo, kungcono ukhethe iingoma ukususela ngexesha lobuncinane bomfana.
- Iimpawu ezimnandi ziza kuba ziingoma ezimbalwa ezivakala ngomhla womtshato.
- Unakekele izixhobo ze-slide show, kwangaphambili wenze ividiyo encinane kwiifoto zeentlokoma zeminyaka eyahlukileyo.
- Myalelo wefoto, ukuze zonke iindwendwe zifothwe ngeentlokoma.
- Iimincintiswano kufuneka zilungele ukulungelelaniswa nommiselo wabamenywe. Imizobo emihle yabantu abatsha iya kuhambelana, kuba abantu bexesha leentlokoma-banqanda ukuzonwabisa.
- Ngabanye abavakalisi kufuneka banikwe umgangatho wokuncoma.
- Kufanelekile ukuqwalasela izinto ezithandwa ngabafazi kunye nokulalisa izitya zabo ezizithandayo kwitafile.