Nangona inyaniso yokuba ezininzi izibini zanamhlanje zikhetha ukungabonakali ubudlelwane babo ngokusemthethweni kwaye zihlala emtshatweni womtshato iminyaka emininzi, kungekudala kamva umfazi ngamnye ucinga ngengubo yomtshato. Usuku lomtshato ungenye yeentsuku ezibaluleke kakhulu ebomini nasiphi na isondo esifanelekileyo. Ngaloo mini, uyaqiniseka ukuba wakhethayo uya kuba naye ubomi bakhe bonke, kwaye inyunyano yentsapho iya kuba yinde kwaye ihlale ihlala. Nangona kunjalo, ukunyaniseka kubonakala kunzima kwaye imitshato iyahlukana. Ngokwezibalo, le ngxaki iyilungiselelwe ngaphezu kwe-40% yezibini. Nangona umtshato kunye nenkqubo ebuhlungu kakhulu, emva kwexeshana abaninzi abasetyhini banokuthatha isigqibo malunga nomtshato wesibini.
Kwaye umtshato wokuqala kunye nowesibili ngowomfazi ngowamava akhe obomi, okwenza ubulumko. Emtshatweni wesibini, ubuninzi bezesondo ezingafanelekanga abavumelanga iimpazamo ezifanayo kwaye abahlaseli i-rake efanayo. Nangona kunjalo, umtshato wesibini kumntu kunye nomfazi uyisigqibo esinoxanduva. Kwaye ngaphambi kokuyifumana kwindoda ezayo, kukho imibuzo emininzi.
Umtshato wesibini nomtshato
Kwabaninzi abasetyhini abagqiba ukutshata kwakhona, ingxaki enkulu kukuphinda bawubhiyozele umtshato. Ngokuqhelekileyo ukutsalwa okugqwesileyo kushiywe ngumtshato wokuqala - ukugqoka, ukudweba, ivenkile, iindwendwe ezininzi. Xa utshatile okwesibini, umfazi ufuna into ekhethekileyo, kodwa akufanele uphinde uphinde ujonge amava akho angaphambili. Ukulahlekelwa kwimeko yangaphambili, loo mfazi ubeka ingozi ekubuyiseni ixesha elidlulileyo, kwaye la mava akwenzeki nxamnye nomhla obalulekileyo.
Phantse i-30% yezibini ezithatha umtshato okwesihlandlo sesibini, lawula ipeyinti ethobekileyo kwi-ofisi yokubhalisa kunye nombhiyozo omncinci wokubhiyozela kwisangqa sahlobo kunye nezihlobo ezifutshane. Ukuba olu khetho lufanelana nabafazi abatshatileyo, ngoko kuya kuthethwa ngokufanelekileyo.
Nangona kunjalo, abaninzi abasetyhini bakuthola kunzima ukuyeka isilingo sokubeka ingubo yomtshato kwakhona kwaye bazive njengomtshakazi. Kulo mnqweno akukho nto iphosakeleyo, ngakumbi xa siqwalasela umnqweno wamabhinqa wethu wokuhlala ekhangayo. Emva kokubonisa konke ukucinga kwakhe, ummeli wobulili onokuzikhethela unokukhetha umgqatswa womtshato obalaseleyo umtshato wakhe wesibini. Imigqobo yomtshato yomtshato wesibini ayikwazi ukuhlukana nayiphi na indlela ukusuka kwimpahla yomtshato wokuqala. Kubalulekile ukuba ibhinqa alizami ukuphinda liphinda ilanga lokuqala lomtshato kwaye ayikulindelanga amava afanayo.
Umtshato wesibini nabantwana
Ingxaki yabantwana ayiyona nto ibaluleke ngaphezu kombandela wokwenza ubuhlobo kunye nomyeni omtsha. Abasetyhini abaninzi, abangena emtshatweni wesibili, sele benabantwana kwaye bafuna ngokunyanisekileyo,
Ngomyeni wesibini, abaninzi abafazi banquma ngomntwana wesibini. Kule meko, umyeni wesibini kunye nomntwana wesibini akufanele agxothise amazibulo, mhlawumbi uya kuziziva ekhunjulwe kwaye enqatshelwe.
Ukuba umyeni wesibini ufuna umntwana, kuba besetyhini abaninzi lo mbuzo uba ngumngcipheko, ingakumbi ukuba umntwana sele ekhona. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, iingcali zengqondo zincoma ukuba zingathandabuzeki kwaye zikhulelwe, njengabantwana abadibeneyo benza ukuba abatshatileyo bajabule, nangomtshato wesibini. Ukuba intsapho inomdla obumnandi neyothando, ngoko abantwana abasuka kumtshato wesibini bahamba kakuhle kunye nabantwana abasuka kumtshato wokuqala.
Ngokubhekiselele kwicala lomthetho, umfazi kufuneka azi ukuba umtshato wesibini awusisizathu sokuphelisa intlawulo ye-alimony kumyeni wakhe wokuqala. Kwakhona, umyeni owayengumyeni uqhubeka nokuhlawula umlinganiso emtshatweni wesibili kumntwana wakhe kumtshato wokuqala. Isixa singahlaziywa kuphela ukuba umlingane owayesakuba nomntwana unomntwana kumtshato wakhe omtsha.