Wonke umntu uyazi ukuba umtshato uyisiganeko esibalulekileyo kwaye sivuya kakhulu kubo bonke abaselula. Yaye ukuba uthe wenza njengesityeleli, isipho sakho kufuneka sibe yinto yokuqala, iluncedo kwaye ayikhunjulwe ixesha elide.
Izipho zomtshato
Iindwendwe ezininzi zixhalabele malunga neziphi izipho zidlalwa ngomtshato? Ewe, le nto ibaluleke kakhulu, kuba zonke iindwendwe zifuna ukukholisa iimfuno zomtshakazi nomyeni. Ngoko, phambi kokuba wenze isigqibo ngesipho, kufuneka ucinge ngako, kuba isipho sifanelekile, kwaye kuya kuba ngcono ukuba usebenzise le mibuzo kubasandul 'ukutshata, bayazi ukuba baninzi kangakanani abayidingayo.
Kubalulekile ukuba uqaphele ukuba ezithandwa kakhulu yizo zikhetho zezipho ezingaba luncedo ekhaya. Kodwa apha kuyimfuneko ukuqwalasela zonke izinto ezinokuthi zenzeke-ukuba ziqalise ukuba zifumaneke: ukuba abatshabhileyo bahlala kunye nabazali babo, kwindlu yabo okanye abaqashiweyo, kwaye kuyafuneka kwakhona ukuba bakhumbule izinto ezithandwa ngabantu abancinci, ezi zinto ziya kukunceda ukhethe izipho ngokukhawuleza.
Nangona kunjalo, uninzi lwabantu aluyikuphazamisa into enokuyinika emtshatweni omtsha ixesha elide, kuba isipho esiqhelekileyo siyimali. Ngokomgaqo, imali iyisipho sisiphi na iholide. Kodwa kule meko kukho nemithetho: okokuqala: imali kufuneka ityalwe kwimvulophu emhlophe, okanye kwikharityhulam yeeholide engenakho imibhalo engadingekile, kwaye okwesibini: iibill kufuneka ukuba zintsha, kwaye mhlawumbi zikhulu.
Iintyatyambo zomtshato
Uninzi lweendwendwe ezingamava nje kuphela ngeendleko zesipho, kodwa kunye nokuba zeziphi iintyatyambo ezinikwe umtshato. Enyanisweni, kwindawo yokuqala i-bouquets of roses, kuba iirasi zifanekisela uthando nobuhle. Ukongezelela, i-bouquet kufuneka ibe yincinci kwaye ibe yimibala elula. Kwakhona kudla kakhulu izimbali, zihlotswe nge-callas ezimhlophe, iinduli kunye ne-gerberas. Ngoko ke wodwa uthatha isigqibo sokuba zeziphi iintyatyambo ezinika umtshato.
Yintoni abavame ukuyenza emtshatweni?
Ekubeni abazali bebathanda abantwana babo kwaye banwabile kakhulu kunye neentsapho zabo, basuke bezama ukunika okubalulekileyo kwaye kuyimfuneko - yindlu okanye imoto, kwaye ukuba sele sele ikhona, abazali bazama ukumangalisa abantwana babo ngohambo oluhle nolunakulibaleka. Ukongezelela, ukucinga ngombuzo: oko kunikwa abantu abasanda kutshata emtshatweni, umntu unokuthatha oku kulandelayo: ngokusekelwe kwiipolisi ezininzi ezahlukileyo, kwaziwa ukuba izidalwa zentsapho zexesha elizayo zithandwa kakhulu, kwaye ngoko abazali nabahlobo abasondeleyo banikela izitya kunye nezixhobo zendlu .
Kodwa kungakhathaliseki ukuba yintoni na, abazali bebatshangatshangelwe bamele bangakhathazeki malunga neendleko okanye ubungakanani bezipho zabo, kuba yonke into incike kuphela kwiimeko zemali. Akuyimfuneko ukumangalisa wonke umntu, ukuba angene ematyaleni amakhulu-abantu abaselula abayi kuluxabisa!
Yintoni ongayifanele uyinike emtshatweni?
Ukongeza kuzo zonke eziye zathethwa, kuyimfuneko nokuba ukwazi into engayi kunikwa umtshato.
Kwaye kuba kukho iimpawu ezimbi, ngoko ngokwemvelo kukho izinto ezintle ezibonakala ziqinisa umtshato. Ngoko, ukuze ube nolonwabo kunye nenhlanhla kwintsapho elutsha, kuyimfuneko ukunika oku kulandelayo: iisethi ezibiniweyo, iimpahla kunye nezitya kunye neempawu ezifanayo ezizithandayo, kunye nokuhlobisa ngamaparele kuthathwa njengekhuselekile.
Nantsi, ngokusemthethweni, kunye nazo zonke iimfuno ezisisiseko kwizipho zomtshato, ngoku uyazi ukuba ngumkhuba wani umtshato, ukuze isipho sakho sithande kwaye ukhunjulwe.