Ngokuqhelekileyo siva ukuba bonke abafazi bangabathakathi. Asazi ukuba wonke umntu ungubani, kodwa baninzi kakhulu abangathandabuzekiyo.
Ungayiqonda njani ukuba ungumlumbi?
Iimpawu zobugqirha banamhlanje zihluke kancinci kwiimpawu zobugqirha ngokubanzi, ngaphandle kokuba ngumbuzo wabalinganiswa beefeksi abanomhlaza, i-stupa, indlu emilenzeni yenkukhu kunye nekati emnyama. Siza kuqwalasela iimpawu eziqhelekileyo zobugqwirha, kwaye ngexesha elifanayo sizithelekise ukuze sifumane ukuba sinakho naziphi iimpawu esazange sikhankanywe ngazo.
- Iingcali ziphepha iinkampani ezinomsindo, abanalo abahlobo abaninzi kwaye ukhetha ukuhlala wedwa. Kodwa ulwalamano lwakhe lubaluleke kakhulu kwaye, ngokusemthethweni, basondele kwaye banamandla.
- Indlela yokufumanisa ukuba ngaba umfazi ungumlusi unokunceda loo mqondiso ukuba ubukeka. Ngokuqhelekileyo, umlusi unesibindi nesiso evulekileyo kwiso, esoloko engahlaziyiyo, kuba kubonakala ngathi umntu ubheka ngqo emphefumlweni kwaye uyazi zonke iingcamango zethu.
- Abagqwirha banomdla kwaye banomdla. Ukongeza kwidatha yangaphandle, abafazi abanjalo bane-magnetism yangaphakathi kwaye benziwa lula kubo. Nangona kunjalo, kukho phakathi kwabagqwirisi kunye neigundane ezimpunga, ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa ziphethe amandla angaphakathi, ezingenakuqatshelwa ngokukhawuleza.
- Ngokungafani nabantu abangenaso isipho sogqirha, umlumbi akalokothi abonakalise ukungalunganga njengabantu abaninzi. Ukongezelela, akayi kuba nomona , ahlambulule okanye ahlaziye inhlebo. Ngokuchasene noko, loo mfazi uthanda uxolo kunye nokuguquguquka, okwenza kube nzima ukuqonda kuye lowo ubeka isohlwayo kuyo yonke into eyingozi kunye neengxaki eziye zawa phantsi kwintsapho.
- Qonda ukuba le ntombazana ingumlumbi kunye nendlela aphatha ngayo icawa. Ukuba umntu uziphatha ngokungaqhelekanga ngaphakathi kweendonga zecawa njengokungathi akakwazi ukukhululeka, ubukho bokuba nesipho buyanda. Nangona abanye abatrobi bevalela iimvakalelo zabo neemvakalelo zabo ngokuhlonela uThixo,
ukwenzela ukuba ungangqatshulwa. - Kuqhelekile ukuba izilwanyana ziwabona kakubi abo abanesipho somlingo namandla anamandla. Enyanisweni, yonke into iyafani. Izilwanyana, ukungathandeki kumfokazi, kunye nabathakathi baziphatha ngokuthula, ngokuthula nangokulula. Kwanabantwana abangenasitabane, banqatshelwe kwaye banqatshelwe ukuba badibanise nabantu abangabaziyo, kunye noogqirha bavula kwaye baxoxe ngokukhululekile. Oku kuchazwa yinyaniso yokuba abantwana ngokwemvelo yabo banamandla obuthathaka, ngokunjalo kwinqanaba elincinci, bathatyathwa kwabo banamandla.