Mhlawumbi yonke intombazana, ephupha ngomtshato, icinga iholide enhle - igqoke le-chic, i-limousine, ukubukeka kwabazali bayo kunye nabafana abancinci abancinci, iholo edibeneyo ehlotshisiwe kunye neentlobo ezintle. Kodwa indlela yokwenza umtshato ococekileyo, bambalwa bethu bacinga, ngoko ukulungiselela isiganeko esonwabileyo kwenza abantu abaninzi baveke.
Umtshato ogqibeleleyo
Esinye sezikhubekiso zesibini sibini ukhetho lomhla womtshato. Makhe sibone iindlela eziliqela zokukhetha umtshato opheleleyo.
- Indlela yokuqala iyona elula. Kufuneka nje ufune ukuba yeyiphi ixesha othanda ngayo bobabini. Ngokomzekelo, ngaba nina bobabini abalandeli bentwasahlobo? Emva koko nawuphi na iintsuku ezi-3 zeli xesha elimangalisayo lonyaka lixesha elifanelekileyo lomtshato wakho. Khawukhumbule nje ukuba ngokwemiqondiso eninzi, kufuneka udlale umtshato ngeCawa okanye ngoLwesihlanu, kodwa uLwesibini kunye neLwesithathu alona khetho olufanelekileyo.
- Abantu abaninzi bafuna ukubona "umhle" umhla kwisiqinisekiso somtshato: 20.12.2012, 13.10.13, njl. Kodwa ukusuka kumbono wokubala ngamanani okukhetha unokuba yingozi. Udibaniso lwamanani lubamba amandla okutshatyalaliswa, kwaye ngoko umtshato ungabangela ingxaki.
- Abo bahlonela i-Astrology bangabhala i-portrait ye-astrological (ye-wabo kunye nekamva) kunye nokubala umhla olungele umtshato. Ukuba ngenxa yezizathu ezithile oku akunakwenzeka, ngoko ubuncinane ujonge ikhalenda yenyanga. Kwi-3-5, 8-9, 12-14 kunye no-19-20 iintsuku zenyanga zomtshato azikwazi ukudlalwa.
- Kuba abaloli beembali, nabo banendlela yabo yokukhetha umtshato onobuhle. Kubalulekile ukongeza yonke imihla yokuzalwa ngamnye komntu oza kutshata, kunye nokudibanisa kufuneka kuqhutywe de kubekho inamba enye. Emva koko, ezi zibini ziphumo zifuna ukuba zifakwe, umphumo wokuba uya kuba ngumhla wokuqala womtshato.
Indlela yokulungiselela umtshato ogqibeleleyo?
Emva komhla womtshato uthathe isigqibo, unokuqala ukulungiselela iholide. Masithethe ngeengongoma eziphambili zokulungiselela.
- Indawo epheleleyo yomtshato. Kukho ezininzi iindlela zokukhetha ukhula ngaphandle kwexesha, zama ukubona yonke imifanekiso yomtshato wakho. Emva koko, khangela indawo ehlangabezana neminqweno yakho kwaye ifikeleleke. Musa ukuphelelwa ngumnqweno, ucinga ukuba ukusebenza kwakhe kubi kakhulu. Ukuba unqwenela, nokuba igumbi lokutya eliqhelekileyo lingaguqukela kwiholo ye-medieval castle. Musa ukulibala malunga nenani leendwendwe kunye nemithetho yokuziphatha kwigumbi oqeshisayo.
- Musa ukugxila kwizinto ezincinci, konke akunakwenzeka ukubonela phambili. Ewe, kwaye zibonakala zibukhali kuphela ngexesha lokulungiselela, kwaye ukuba umtshato wakho awuyi kuhlolwa ngendaba, ngoko kulungile ukuba umbala we-napkins uza kuhluke kancinane kumthunzi wendwangu yesitya.
- Ungesabi ukuhlaziywa. Ukuba kukho into engalunganga, le nhlekelele ayiyi kwenzeka. Akukho mntu ngaphandle kokuba uyayazi into ekhangeleka ngayo, kwaye ke ukuhlaziywa okuncinci kuya kuba neendwendwe ukuba zilawule.
- Ngokuqinisekileyo, uvuyo ngalolu suku aluphepheki, kodwa kuyafaneleka ukuba uzame ukuphumla kwaye ujabulele iholide yakho. Yenza into oyifunayo, kwaye ungayithobeli imfuno yoluntu. Into eyona nto kukuba wena kunye nentanda yakho yintsapho yintsapho kwaye le nyaniso ayikwazi ukuphazamisa okanye ukutshintsha nantoni na.
Isipho somtshato esipheleleyo
Kodwa injabulo ayikho nje yabasanda kutshata, iindwendwe zabo umtshato wesikhathi esizayo, naye, uphonsa umsebenzi onzima. Kufuneka ukhethe ingubo efanelekileyo yeeholide, kwaye ucinge malunga nokokunika intsapho entsha. Ewe, umtshato ogqibeleleyo udinga isipho esihle . Ngoko, ingaba yintoni na?
- Kwibini elithile eliqala ukuhlala kunye kwaye lingakafiki ixesha lokufumana zonke eziyimfuneko, zonke iintlobo zemihla ngemihla "i-utility" ziya kuhambelana. Oku kunokuba izitya, ukulala, izinto zangaphakathi nezinto zobugcisa. Inyaniso kunye neengongoma ezibini zokugqibela kufuneka uzinyamekele, kukho ithuba lokuba ungacingi ngokukhetha kwazo kwilungiselelo lakho.
- Abo bangenayo ingxaki ngempahla yasendlini, unokwenza umonwabo, umonakalo. Ingaba izatifikethi kwi-SPA-salon, amathikithi ekhonsathi yomculi ozithandayo, indiza yebhaluni, njl.
- Nangona kunjalo, uhlobo oluqhelekileyo lwesipho yimali. Zingaboniswa kwimvulophu, okanye unokudibanisa imbali kunye nokwakha umthi wemali okanye imali yemali, ukupakisha iindleko ngefomese kwaye uzibeke kwipipi elihle.
Umtshato ovuyayo kuwe, izipho ezinkulu kunye neendwendwe ezilungileyo!