Kuthekani ukuba umntwana eba izinto zabanye abantu?
Izizathu zokubangela ukuba unyana okanye intombi ikwazi ukuzisa umnxeba womnye umntu, ithoyilo, incwadi, njl. ikhaya, mhlawumbi bambalwa:
- umnqweno wokuba neento abangathengiyo;
- ithuba lokutsala ingqalelo kubazali.
Kwimeko yokuqala, kunokwenzeka ukweba umntwana wokuba, njengoko wachazela ukuba omnye umntu akakwazi ukuthathwa, kwaye usongela isohlwayo. Ngokukodwa kubalulekile xa into eyenziwa ngumntwana. Kulo mzekelo, umfundi ufuna ukuchaza ukuba imali yokuphangwa kufuneka ibuyiselwe xa iyalondolozwa, okanye isebenze. Enye into, ukuba umntwana akanakunakekelwa ngokwaneleyo, ingxoxo kuphela kunye nexesha lokubambisana liza kunceda ekujongeni le ngxaki.
Kuthekani ukuba umntwana waqala ukuba imali?
Njengomthetho, abantwana baqala ukweba imali ebusheni. Izizathu ezibakhokelela kule nto zinokuba luninzi:
- Ukungabikho kwesikhwama semali, ngaphandle kokuba abanye abantwana, umzekelo, xa beya kuma-movie, loo mali ikhutshwa;
- ukuphanga ngabantwana abadala;
- imfuneko yokuzimela, xa uthenge, izinto ezibiza;
- ukungabikho kolawulo, ingakumbi ngemali engenayo kwintsapho.
Iingcebiso zengqondo yengqondo malunga nokuba umntwana uthatha imali kubazali bakhe kukuba baqale bafumene isizathu, kwaye bazame ukufumana isisombululo kunye nomntwana ukwenzela ukuba oku kungenzeki kwakhona. Ukuba oko kukuphanga, kufuneka uhambe kumapolisa. Ukuba loo nto ingabikho kolawulo, kuba imali "ilala" kuyo yonke indawo kwaye ayinayo i-akhawunti, kunengqiqo ukuyibeka endaweni ethile, apho kungayi kuba khona ukufikelela, njl njl. Nangona kunjalo, ingxaki inzima kakhulu xa umfundi engavumi icala lakhe. Yintoni enokuyenza xa umntwana eyeba nokuxoka - ukubonisa ubungqina bokuba. Kwaye ke kuphela kunokwenzeka ukuthetha ngolwaphulo-mthetho, iikholoni zabantwana, ukuba yonke imali kufuneka inikwe. Indlela yokuchazela umntwana ukuba awukwazi ukuba ngumbuzo ophendulwa kangcono ngamabali okwenene, iifoto: ukusuka enkundleni, amabanjwa asejele, njl njll, ebonisa ukuba aba bantu banobomi, akukho mfundo, iimoto ezibiza kwaye lawula, ikamva. Nanku umzuzu wokuqonda ngumntwana kubaluleke kakhulu, ukuba omnye umntu akasoze athatyathwa, kuba oku kuya kulandelwa ngokukhawuleza ngesijeziso.