Indlela yokuxelela umntwana osemtsha malunga ngesondo?
Ewe, okokuqala, incoko kufuneka ifumaneke kwaye inyanisekile. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukulungiselela umntwana ngokutshintsha okuza kwenzeka kunye naye ngexesha lokukhulelwa. Ingqwalaselo kufuneka ihlawulwe kule miba elandelayo:
- xelela malunga nokuya esikhathini, iimveliso zokucoceka;
- kuchaza ukuba yiyiphi i-erection, i-pollution ye-nocturnal pollutions;
- kuthetha malunga noshintsho olunjengokukhula kwamabele kumantombazana, ukubonakala kweenwele ze-pubic, ukuba ilizwi labafana liphula njani;
- cacisa indlela ulwabelana ngesondo;
- qwa lasela ingxaki yezifo ezithathelwana ngesondo ;
- kuthetha ngokukhulelwa kunye nezindlela zokukhulelwa ;
- lumkise malunga neziphambeko.
Ngokuqhelekileyo iingxoxo ezinjalo ziqhutyelwa kwizigaba eziliqela, kubalulekile ukuba abazali bobabini bathatha inxaxheba. Isihloko sesini phakathi kwabafundi abaselula banomdla kakhulu, ngoko akuvunyelwanga ukuba umntwana athole olu lwazi kwimithombo engathandabuzekiyo. Ukuba abazali abaqinisekanga ukuba ezinye iimeko zingachazwa, ngoko ngoku kukho ukhetho olukhulu olujoliswe kwimfundo yesondo. Ezi ncwadi kunye namaphephancwadi awenzelwe abantwana bamaqela ahlukeneyo angakwazi ukufunda kunye nomntwana, ukuphendula imibuzo ephakamileyo.
Yintoni engenakwenziwa ngoqhagamshelwano ngesondo kunye nentsha kunye nabantwana?
Kwintetho kufuneka ulandele imithetho ethile:
- Awukwazi ukugxeka umntwana ngombuzo kwiintetho ezithandanayo okanye ngehlazo, ukuze ungaboni ukuzithemba;
- Musa ukuyikrokra kwaye ugxininise kwiingongoma ezimbi, njengoko oku kunokukhupha isimo sengqondo esingalunganga malunga nesondo kwaye kubangele iingxaki zengqondo;
- Akunakuze uphephe esi sihloko, kuba imibuzo malunga nobulili ebomini kwintsholongwane kunye nabantwana abancinci badlala indima ebalulekileyo, kuba umntwana onganelisekanga umnqweno wakhe kunye nomama noyise uya kukhangela iimpendulo kwenye imithombo;
- Musa ukwenza isifundo njengentetho kwaye ekugqibeleni ubuze uchungechunge lwemibuzo, ukhangele izinto ezifundwayo, kuba oku kungenza umntwana angafuni ukuthetha nale ntetho
Isihloko esibucayi kunye nabazali.
Ingxoxo kufuneka ibe yinto eyimfihlo, ukuze kamva umntwana unombuzo ongathandabuzekiyo waya kubazali. Ingxoxo enjalo ingasindisa ukususela ebusweni bokuqala besondo. Emva koko, oomama abaninzi banenkxalabo malunga nombuzo wokuba kutheni abantu beselula balala ngesondo. Esinye sezizathu zengcinezelo yontanga, kunye neembono ukuba ukuziphatha kobomi bezesondo kuphakamisa umfanekiso kwaye kwenza ukuba ukhule ngakumbi. Kwaye oku kungenxa yokungabikho kolwazi olujoliswe yinjongo umntwana kufuneka ayifumane kwintsapho, kungekhona kubahlobo okanye kwi-intanethi.