Ngokuqinisekileyo yonke intlekele ukuya esikolweni ijonge phambili ehlobo - ieholide zesikolo ezide kakhulu, xa unokuzonwabisa kwaye uphumule, ngenxa yokuba unokufumana ixesha elingaphezulu. Nangona kunjalo, abazali abaninzi, xa uqala ukuvuyela umntwana othandekayo, unokubuza malunga nento yokwenza ehlobo, ukuze angalandeli "angalindelanga" okanye adideke nenkampani embi. Umama noTata bafanele bacinge ngokucophelela ngokuzonwabisa kwabo abantwana baze bahlele imisebenzi yokuzonwabisa kunye nohambo. Ukongezelela, mhlawumbi umntwana wakho ufuna ukufezekisa ezinye zezicwangciso zakhe, ayeliphuphayo ngexesha lonyaka wesikolo. Umsebenzi womzali ngamnye kukunyusa kwaye, ukuba kunokwenzeka, kunceda umntwana ekuphunyezweni kwesi cwangciso, kwaye uncede ukuchitha imali yehlobo ezuzisayo.
Izicwangciso zasehlotyeni zabaselula
Wena, kunye nomntwana, unokucwangcisa iholide, okuqinisekileyo, eya kumfundisa indlela yokulungelelanisa ixesha lakhe lokuphumla nokulihambisa. Kungcono ukubhala yonke into kwisiqephu sephepha. Sinikeza iingcebiso ezininzi ezinokukunceda wenze isicwangciso sendlela yokuchitha ihlobo kwintsholongwane.
- Qinisekisa ukuba uxoxe ngeendlela zokuphucula umzimba womntwana emva kwesikolo esikolweni. Ngokubhekiselele kwindawo yokuya kwintsholongwane ehlotyeni, ke kukho iindlela ezininzi - inkampu yabantwana elwandle, i-cottage yelizwe, isikhungo sezokhenketho, isitulo, njl njl.
- Musa ukulibala ngemidlalo. Xoxa kunye naluphi uhlobo lomdlalo okhatywayo ngumntwana wakho, uze naye kumacandelo okuhlola. Kungadingeka ukuba uhambe kumacandelo amaninzi, ukuze umntwana anqume ngokukhetha.
- Ukucinga malunga nendawo yokuphumla intombazana ehlobo, ungakhohlwa ukumvumela ukuba athawule kwaye asuse ilanga elunxwemeni lolwandle lwengingqi - umlambo, ilitye, indawo. Sebenzisa imali yeentsapho ngeenxa zonke kummandla ohlala kuyo, wenze iipickiki , ukuhamba.
- Kwiholide, umntwana ozithandayo unokufumanisa umdlalo omtsha okanye uthakazeliso: amantombazana - funda indlela yokugubha, ukudibanisa, ukukhwabanisa, amakhwenkwe - yakha indawo yakho, funda iprogram entsha, uphumelele kumdlalo wekhompyutha. Zininzi iindlela zokukhetha: ulwimi lwangaphandle, ukuqokelela iimali, iifomati, ukudlala igitare, umculo, ukucula, njl.
- Ihlobo lixesha apho ufuna ukunyamekela uphuhliso lwentlalo lomntwana: mema ukuba a tyelele iimyuziyam, i-cinema, ikhonkethi, umboniso okanye ithala lezemidlalo. Ngomhla okhunileyo umfana osemtsha unokuhlala ekhaya ukuze afunde. Ngaphezu koko, ootitshala besikolo kwimihla ngemihla banika uluhlu lweencwadi ezifuneka zifundwe kwiholide.
- Kwiintsuku zeeholide ezidibeneyo kufuneka ufumane ixesha lokufunda. Kwimihla ngemihla yesantombazana ehlobo, kufuneka kube nomnyaka owodwa kwezi zikolo zezikolo ezenza ukuba kubekho ukungena kwiyunivesiti okanye ukuba umntwana unayo "imisila".
- Qinisekisa ukukhuthaza umnqweno womntwana wokufumana imali eyongezelelweyo. Oku kuya kumkhusela kwiinkampani ezibi kunye nobudenge, ukumfundisa ngokuxanduva, ukunyaniseka nokunceda ukwazi ixabiso lemali. Ukuba unenkxalabo malunga nokusebenza kwintsholongwane ehlotyeni, ungaqhagamshelana neofisi yengqesho, amaphephandaba kunye namasayithi e-ad kunye nalo mbuzo. Ngokuqhelekileyo, abafundi banikwa izikhundla zesikhuthazo sesikhashana
Iipasitrakethi okanye ezitalatweni, kwicandelo leenkonzo zezindlu kunye noluntu. Abantwana bathatyathwa ukulungiswa komhlaba kunye nokuphuculwa kweendawo zokuhlala, ukubeka iintengiso. Unokufaka isicelo esikolweni sakho, apho kwiinyanga zasehlobo ziza kulungiselela ithala leencwadi, ikampu yesikolo yomcebisi okanye iqela lokulungisa. Ingcaciso elula yokufumana umntwana osemva ehlobo, inokuthi i-Intanethi. Ukufumana ulwazi lokufunda nokubhala nokukwazi ukuveza iingcamango, umntwana uya kuzuza ngokubhala okanye ukuhlaziya amanqaku.
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