Ukuhamba kokuqala komntwana omnandi. Ithinta wonke umntu ojikeleze kwaye ufuna ukuphulaphula kwakhona. Kodwa akusiwo wonke umama owaziyo okubangela ukuba izandi ziveze xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba kunye nokuba uyothuka xa umntwana engazange ahambe. Izandi zokuqala ziyindawo ebalulekileyo ekuphuhlisweni komntwana, kokubili amazwi kunye nemvakalelo.
Okokuqala, siya kugqiba ukuhamba komntwana, indlela yokuyiqonda, xa umntwana eqala ukuhamba kunye nendlela yokuhlukanisa ukuhamba ukusuka kwezinye iintlobo ze-onomatopoeia. Kuyathakazelisa ukuba abantwana abavela kumaqela eelwimi ezahlukeneyo baqala ukuthetha ngezandi ezifanayo. Olu hlobo lento yokuthetha njengento yokuqhayisa, ibizwa ngokuba ngenxa yokufana nokuhamba kwejuba. Ingane iqala ukwenza izandi zomsindo, ngoko kuvela intetho yomlomo. Emva kokuba umntwana echaza ngokucacileyo "a", "o", "y", "e", "u", "s", uya kuqala ukudibanisa izandi kwi "aga-ha", "guu", " njalo njalo. Esi senzo siyamvuyisa, kuba "idlala" ngomlomo, emqaleni nangolwimi.
Ngaliphi ixesha umntwana aqala ukuhamba?
Ngethuba lokuzalwa kwezakhono zokuqala zokuthetha, intsana sele ifundile ukulungelelanisa nehlabathi elingaphandle, iyabaxelela abanye, iphendule ngokumomotheka xa ithetha. Intsana kufuneka inikwe ingqwalasela enkulu, yathetha, kwaye ingabi yinyamekela. Umntwana udinga ukuphendula kakuhle kwabantu abadala kwizandi azenzayo, ngoko uhambo luya kuphinda luphindwe kaninzi. Ungalungiselela iingxoxo zangempela kunye nosana, uxoxela izandi kwaye ugxininise kwimimiselo yomlomo, khuphela ngaphandle ulwimi. Umntwana uqaphelisisa abantu abadala, kwaye kungekudala amakhophi abo. Oogqirha bezilwanyana kunye neengcaphephe ezincinci zengcali zakha ixesha elilawulayo, apho imisebenzi yobuchopho ikhula, ejongene nokuqala kolwimi oluthethiweyo, ikhulile. Ngaloo ndlela, ukuphefumula komntwana kubonakala kwiminyaka engama-2-3, xa umntwana ethemba intloko , uyamamatheka. Eli nqanaba elibalulekileyo ekubunjweni kwentetho lihlala lide kwiinyanga ezintlanu ukuya kwezixhenxe.
Indlela yokufundisa umntwana ukuba ahambe?
Nazi a ma nyathelo aza kunceda abazali ukuba basombulule umba:
- unxibelelwano lwengqondo kunye nomntwana rhoqo;
- ukuphuhlisa izakhono zezithuthi (zombini mncinci kunye nenkulu): makumthinte umntwana achukumise izinto ezahlukeneyo ngokuma kunye nokuthungwa. Ungesabi ukhuseleko lomntwana - mane kube khona kwaye ulandele izenzo zalo;
- funda izibongo, iincwadi, amahlaya, funda ambalwa "ama-pestles" kwaye uhlabelele kumntwana;
- ukudlala imidlalo apho kufuneka khona i-gesticulation, njenge-crow-crow, ladushki, imidlalo yeminwe;
- uthetha ngokuchanekileyo, ungaphambukisi amagama, ungamlumli umntwana.
Kutheni umntwana engazange ahambe?
Kubalulekile ukuqinisekisa abo bazali abathi, xa befunda le miqathango yesikhashana, bangethusa: ngamnye umntwana ukhula ngokuzimeleyo, kwaye i-lag okanye iphambili ngokwemiqathango ecetywayo yokuphuhlisa iyinto evamile. Ngokungathandabuzekiyo, ukuba akukho zongezeleleko ezongezelelekileyo kwiimeko apho umntwana engazange ahambe khona okanye ahambe ngokukhawuleza ukuba ahambe, okanye aqale ukuhamba emva kweenyanga ezisixhenxe. Ngamanye amazwi, ukuba umntwana wakho unempilo, uyathokoza, uqikelele kakuhle, uyasabela kummandla, kodwa akahambanga kakhulu-umntwana ulungile, lo ngumntu oqhelekileyo, ongathinteli uphuhliso jikelele. Ukufumanisa ukuphulwa okukhulu ekuphuhlisweni kwentetho, uvavanyo olucwangcisiweyo kunye nolunyanzeliso lwe-infant e-ofisi ye-otolaryngologist lucwangciswe. Ugqirha uya kukwazi ukubona isizathu sokuphulwa kwezinto zokufunda okanye zokuthetha kunye nokuphendula imibuzo yabazali abaxhalabileyo ukuba kutheni umntwana engazange ahambe.
Kutheni umntwana ayeke ukuhamba?
Ukuba akukho zizathu zinjongo, kwaye umntwana uyeke ukuhamba, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukumkhupha ukuba athethe. Abazali (okokuqala, unina) kufuneka aqhubeke "agukat", bhengeze izandi ezipapashiweyo, zixhase ngokunyanisekileyo umntwana ngeengxoxo zengqondo, nangona engathuli okanye engancinci ukuhamba.
Indlela edibeneyo yophuhliso ibalulekile kunoma yimuphi umntwana. Ngoko ukubunjwa kwentetho, ukukhula ngokomzimba kunye neemeko zengqondo apho umntwana ekhula khona kubalulekile. Ukuba uzele kwaye uyonwabile - ke ukuqala ukuhamba ngokusebenzayo ufuna nje ukumnceda.