Nangona umfazi wanamhlanje ekho myalelo, usenomhla owenziwe kwiinkxalabo kunye nokukhathazeka: ukunyamekela umntwana, ukulungiselela ukutya kwentsapho, ukucoca nokunyamekela izihlobo nazo ziyimfuneko. Kodwa nantsi indlela yokulawula yonke into, kuba umntwana, ngakumbi umntwana, udinga phantse lonke ixesha nomzali wakhe? Kodwa kukho indlela yokuphuma: ukuncedisa oomama wadalwa isistim esikhethekileyo - ukubetha. Ngokuqinisekileyo uvile ngako, kulungile, kuyaziwa ngoku kwaye kulula ukuyifumana ukuthenga, kwiimeko ezimbi kakhulu, zenzele. Nangona kunjalo, ukuhlaziywa ngokugqoka iintsana ezisanda kuzalwa kwi-sling zihlukeneyo: abanye abantu bacinga ukuba ukhuselekile ngokupheleleyo kwimpilo yabantwana. Kodwa kukho iimbono malunga neengozi zale ngxaki. Siza kukuxelela yonke inyaniso, kwaye kukuya kuwe ukugqiba nokuba usebenzisa isilingi okanye cha.
Umntwana kwisikhwama: ipros
Ngokuqhelekileyo, ukubethelwa ngendwangu yengubo kunye nobubanzi be-70-90 cm kunye nobude be-2 ukuya kwi-6 m. Le fowuni kufuneka iphonswe phezu kwegxininiso ngendlela ethile ngokusebenzisa iifom okanye iindandatho. Kwi-sling, ucinezela emzimbeni wakho, unokuthwala umntwana kude kube neminyaka emithathu ubudala. Yaye intsana iziva ikhululekile, kuba ithatha indawo yendalo kwaye icinezelwe kumama wakhe othandekayo. Oku mhlawumbi inzuzo enkulu ekusebenziseni isalathisi.
Ukongezelela, ukulungelelaniswa kwesixhobo sokuthwala umntwana kubandakanya ithuba lokuhambisa umama ngezo ndawo apho ihlalo leemoto okanye umqhubi akuhambelani, umzekelo, kwizithuthi zikawonkewonke.
Ngendlela, ukuthanda ukubethelwa kuthiwa, nangaliphi na umzuzu umama angalondla umntwana othandekayo ngesifuba, angabi lihlazo lokuba abantu abangaziwa baya kubona - abayi kubona.
Kwakhona, ukuxhamla kwesi sixhobo kungabizwa ngokuqinisekileyo ukuba ukugqoka umthwalo osithandayo oyithandayo kukulula kunokuba kusezandleni. Ngaphezu koko, izandla zihlala zikhululekile, kwaye umama unethuba lokuthwala isikhwama, ukuhlawula ukuthenga.
Unganqikazi, ukubethela okukhethiweyo ngokufanelekileyo kuya kuba yinto efanelekileyo kakhulu kwaye iya kuncedisa isitayela sakho-ngoku abavelisi banikezela ukhetho olukhulu lokusebenza: zombini imibala kunye nezinto eziphathekayo.
Umntwana kwisibethe: iingxabano "ngokumelene"
Ngelishwa, nangona iimeko ezintle zomngcongolo womntwana, kukho, njengoko bethetha, ukulahla kwetata emgqonyeni wobusi.
Okokuqala, ukubeka umntwana kwisiringi akulula-kulula ukudideka. Kufuneka usebenzise idoli, ukuze kuphume ngokukhawuleza nangokuchanekileyo.
Okwesibini, kwisibetho esivela ekuqhagamshelaneni rhoqo nomama uphupha umntwana. Kwaye ehlotyeni, kwimali eshushu, yintlekele, ke zombini iyancitywa, nangona iimeko zendalo.
Okwesithathu, izixhobo ezinjalo zokugqoka umntwana azincinci. Kwaye ixabiso leemveliso zentengiso "lide". Ukongezelela, abavelisi bahlala behambisa iintlobo ezahlukeneyo zeesekeli - ukubetha iibhasi, iingubo okanye iibheki zeeselingi, ukufakwa okukhethekileyo ngexesha lokubanda, njl njl.
Kodwa kukho enye ingxabano ebalulekileyo engathethiyo ekuthandeni umntwana othandekayo kwi-sling. Ukuba umntwana ubekwe kwicala elingalunganga, uxinzelelo kwicandelo elincinci lomthunzi lwenzeka, okubangela ukuba kubonakale ukubonakala kwakhe. Oku, akunakwenzeka kodwa kuthintela i-posture post. Kukho ingozi kwimpilo nobomi bentsana kuze kufike kwiinyanga ezi-4 xa ugqitywe kwisalathisi kwisikhundla seC (okanye "sokulala"). Ukuba inkunzi iphendulela isifuba sayo kwisifuba sikamama, ukufikelela kwi-oksijeni kuvaliwe, kwaye mhlawumbi ukuxilwa ngenxa yokuntuleka kwe-oksijeni.
Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba ukubethelwa kufuneka kushiywe ngokupheleleyo. Ngokulandela iziphakamiso, unokuphelisa imiphumo emibi:
- Umntwana oneminyaka engaphantsi kweenyanga ezi-5 ugqoke kwisikhundla se "frog" - umntwana unxininiswe ngokunyanisekileyo emzimbeni kamama ngokuzenzekelayo, kwaye imilenze yakhe iphakanyisiwe kwaye isasazeka ngamacala.
- Isikhundla "sesisu" sisetyenziswe kangcono ekunceliseni.
- Njalo ugqoke iimvumba xa ugqoba isalathisi.
- Qalisa ukuthwala umntwana kwisalathisi imizuzu emi-5 ngosuku, ngokunyuka ukwandisa ngeli xesha.