Phakathi kwezona zizathu eziqhelekileyo zokuba kutheni umntwana wakho engalali kakuhle, unokufumanisa intlungu yesisu eyenzeka emva kokuzalwa malunga neveki ezimbini. Uninzi lwabantwana lunokuphuculwa ngeenyanga ezimbini, kwaye umntu uya kubafumana kwiinyanga ezintlanu.
Esinye isizathu sokuthi umntwana uyakhala ebusuku aze alele kakubi, mhlawumbi, kukungabikho komzimba kwi-salicylates eziqulethwe kwizidakamizwa (aspirin, njl njl.) Kunye nezinye izityalo kunye nemifuno (izithelo zezilwanyana, utamatisi). Ukutya okufanayo kwiintsuku ezimbalwa kuya kulungisa imeko. Kwaye ukugcinwa kwayo kuya kukuvumela ukulibala malunga nesi sizathu sokulala komntwana, kwaye uya kulala kangcono. Into ephambili kukubonisana nodokotela ngaphambili.
Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abazali abakwazi ukuqonda ukuba kutheni umntwana wabo elele kakhulu emini. Kwaye ekugqibeleni oko kubonakala ukuba bona ngokwabo banetyala le, kuba beyakha zonke iimeko zokuphulwa komntwana. Ukuphepha iimeko ezinjalo, zihambelana nemithetho emininzi.
Umntwana unyaka o-1
Kucacile ukuba ebusuku umama akayi kuvusa umntwana ngokwakhe ukuze atye. Kodwa oku akunakwenziwa kwimihla. Amanyathelo anjalo angakhokelela ekuphumeni komntwana. Emva kwakho konke, ukuzama ukumvusa, ulwaphulo lwakhe lololoji. Ngenxa yoko, umntwana angakwazi ukuqala ukukhala, kwaye emva koko ukulala okubi, okuchaphazela kakubi intsingiselo yakhe yemihla ngemihla.
Uyenze ntoni xa umntwana wakho engalali kakuhle? Uninzi kunokwenzeka, uhamba ngeenxa zonke kwindlu, uthabathe ngentshontsho. Ndingathini ngeTV? Konke oku akunakwenziwa. Ukususela ebuntwaneni, kuyimfuneko ukufundisa umntwana ukuba alala phantsi kweemeko. Kwaye nangona ukhathazekile kukuba umntwana omncinci kakhulu ulala kakhulu, kholwani, uhlale ucebile, awuyi kuphucula ubuthongo bakhe. Kodwa mnike nje umkhwa ukuba xa elele, akufuneki kubekho izandi ezingadingekile.
Njengomthetho, umntwana ulala kakhulu emini. Uyakwazi ukuvuka kwizinto afuna ukuyidla. Ukondla umntwana emini kufuneka kuvuyiswe. Unokucula iingoma, kunye nokudlala nomntwana. Ngale ndlela uza "kulukhupha", kwaye ngokufanelekileyo umntwana uya kulala ngokukhawuleza.
Kwiinyanga ezililishumi zentsana, unokuqala ukumkhupha ukusondla ebusuku. Ekuqaleni, kunokunceda ukuba umntwana alele ebuthongweni obubi, kwaye nokuba yinto encinci. Iimeko ziya kutshintsha emva ezine (mhlawumbi ezintlanu) ebusuku.
Umntwana emva konyaka omnye
Ukususela kunyaka omnye, imigaqo yokubeka umntwana ukulala ingatshintsha. Makube nokuthi, ubizwa ngokuba ngumxolelana, oko kukuthi, into yokudlala eya kunciphisa ukwahlukana komntwana kunye nabazali. Kwakhona, kunokukunceda ukuba umntwana osesikhaleni akalali kakuhle. Uya kwenza "njengesiqinisekiso", esithi umntwana ukhusele.
Esinye isizathu sokuba umntwana alele ngokungahambi kakuhle yizinto ezihlukahlukeneyo. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, abazali bahlala bekhawuleza kwintsana xa eqala ukusila. Kule meko, kucetyiswa ukuba ulinde kancane. Uninzi lwa bantwana luyeke ukukhala, uze ulale.
Umntwana angakwazi ukulala kakubi kwisitrato ukuba akanakukhathazeka kwisigxina. Ngoko ke, kuyafaneleka ukukhetha okufanelekileyo. Abantwana bakhula ngokukhawuleza, kwaye umthendeleli, owawufanele umntwana oneminyaka ezintandathu ubudala, akayi kudala iimeko ezilungeleyo ukuba umntwana alale unyaka omnye. Yaye ukuba unenkxalabo yokuba ngexesha lemini ngexesha lokuhamba komntwana ulala ebunini, kungcono ukuthenga umqhubi omtsha ongayi kuzisa nantoni na.
Kwimeko nayiphi na into, musa ukuvumela umntwana wakho ukuba afike kwisigqibo sokuba ukungafuni ukulala kunye nemizwelo kule sihlandlo kunyanzela abazali ukuba bamncede nangaliphi ixesha lomhla. Ukuba umntwana wakho akalala kakuhle, kuyimfuneko ukulwa nale nto kuphela nge "kroti" indlela, kodwa ungayikhohlwa "ngesibhobho".