Iminyaka emininzi igqibezela enye kwaye iqalise elinye iqela leminyaka libizwa ngokuba yiminyaka yenguqu. Kwimantombazana namakhwenkwe, zihamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo. Kule nqaku siza kuthetha ngaziphi iimpawu zenkqubela yexesha lokuguquka kumakhwenkwe. Eli lixesha elinzima kakhulu kubazali kunye nabantwana. Ngaloo xesha, ukukhulelwa kubakho, kuhamba kunye nemveliso enkulu ye-hormone, ekhokelela kuzo zonke iinguqu (kokubili ngokomzimba kunye nengqondo) kwintsholongwane. Ngako oko, ukuze ungabhubhisi ulwalamano lwentsapho kwaye uncede umntwana wakho, umzali ngamnye kufuneka azi izibonakaliso, ingqondo kunye nantoni na ithuba lokuguquka kwamakhwenkwe kubafana.
Iimpawu zoLutsha kuBafana
Inkwenkwana nganye inexesha lesiguqu ngexesha layo: enye ngaphambili (ukusuka kwiminyaka eyi-9-10), enye emva koko (ukususela kwiminyaka eyi-15). Kuxhomekeka kwizinto eziliqela: indlela yokuphila, imithwalo, ubuhlanga kunye nobuzwe. Kodwa ngokuqhelekileyo lihlala kwiminyaka eyi-11 ukuya kwe-15.
Ixesha lesiguqulelo linokumiselwa ngolu hlobo lutshintsho lomzimba:
- ukukhula okukhulu;
- ukubunjwa kwempawu zesondo zesibini (utshintsho kumbala we-scrotum, ukwanda kwimizimba yesini, ukubonakala kweenwele);
- utshintsho lwezwi, oko kuthiwa "ukuphula" kwelizwi - kuba lubi kakhulu;
- ukuphuhliswa kwamathambo, imisipha, ngokukodwa kwindawo yomda;
- Ukubonakala kancinci kweenwele ezimnyama esifubeni, iingalo, imilenze, izibopho, ngaphezu komlomo ophezulu (phantsi);
- i-acne icneous face.
Phakathi kweenkcukacha zengqondo ezi zilandelayo:
- ukuyeka ukucoceka, ungalandeli ukubonakala kwazo, ukungahoywa iinkqubo zezempilo.
- ukwanda kweentloni, iintloni, ubungozi kunye nokungabi nantembelo;
- kukho umnqweno wokwenza izenzo "zendoda", ukuba zizimeleyo;
- ukubonakaliswa kobuqhetseba, ukusetyenziswa kwamatshini, ukuphikisana okuqhubekayo phakathi kwabantu abadala kunye nemithetho emiselweyo;
- ukubonakalisa ukucaphukisa nokukhuseleka, xa into engasebenzi.
Zonke ezi tshintsho zisesigxina kwaye ekupheleni kwenguqu yenguqu kumakhwenkwe, ngokuqhelekileyo ziyahamba.
Iingxaki zobuntutsha kwi-Boys
Zonke iingxaki eziphakanyiswayo ngeli xesha zibangelwa kukuba umntwana akanako ukugqiba isigqibo sokuba aziphathe njani, ngenxa yokuphakama kwama-maximalism akhulayo kuzo zonke iintsholongwane.
- I-acne - yinkinga yexesha lesiguqu kumabini namantombazana. Emva kokuba kuphele ixesha lokufikisa, ngenxa yoko, akuyi kuba nemiphumo (izikrakra kunye nezikrakra), umsebenzi wabazali ukulungiselela isondlo esifanelekileyo yentombazana, ukubonelela ngeendlela ezikhethekileyo zokunakekelwa kwesikhumba nokulawula imeko yesikhumba ukuze ube nexesha lokubonisana nengcali ngexesha elifanelekileyo.
- Ukuvakalelwa kwexhala - ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubangelwa ukunganeliseki ngokubonakala kwabo, ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi kunye nokungavamile kokuvakalelwa okubandakanyekayo nokuvusa isondo. Bazali, utata ongcono, kufuneka silungiselele ingxoxo yokulungiselela malunga nokutshintsha okuzayo kumzimba wale nkwenkwe, ngoko umntwana uya kuwuphatha ngokukhululekileyo.
- Ukunyaniseka, ukusetyenziswa kwesigama esilahlayo - ngokuqhelekileyo oku kubangelwa ukungabikho kokuthintana noyise okanye ukuvela kumbambano kunye naye. Yonke intukuthelo eqokelelweyo, ukwesaba, intombazana igalela kumabhinqa osapho (umama, ugogo okanye udade) ngendlela yokunyaniseka ekujonganeni nabo. Kule meko, kuyimfuneko ukuseka ubudlelwane phakathi kwonyana kunye noyise okanye ukufuna uncedo kwi-psychologist eya kunceda abazali ukuba bakhe umgangatho wokuziphatha.
Kubaluleke kakhulu kwiminyaka yokutshintsha ukuxhasa ngokusisigxina, ukuzola, ukuphulaphula inkwenkwe, uxoxe naye kuyo yonke into efunayo. Kwaye umntwana okhulayo uya kukhula umntu ophumelelayo kunye onokuzithemba.