Akuyena wonke umntu okanye isibini sinalo ithuba lokuba nabantwana babo. Kwiimeko ezininzi, abantu abanjalo kufuneka bacinge ngokuthatha umntwana ukusuka kwintsana. Kwabaninzi, oku akusiyo isigqibo esilula, kwaye ngaphambi kokuba uthathe isinyathelo esinjalo sinoxanduva kufuneka uqikelele ubuchule kunye neentlungu.
Iingxaki zokumkelwa komntwana kwindlu yintsana
Ukongezelela ubunzima obunobulungisa kunye nezezimali, uhlangothi lwengqondo lwengxaki ludlala indima ebalulekileyo. Abazali abakwazi ukubona ukuba ubuhlobo nomntwana buya kukhula njani, abaninzi banokwesaba i-genetic heredity, enokuzibonakalisa ngokudala. Kukho umngcipheko omkhulu ukuba zonke izihlobo azamkeli umntwana njengabo, kwaye emva koko ziza kubonisa isimo sengqondo esingalunganga kumntwana. Kwenzeka, xa kungekhona nje izihlobo ezinxamnye nelo nyathelo, kodwa nenye yeziqabane. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, akudingekile ukukhawuleza. Kancinci kwaye ngokungahambi kakuhle, kuyimfuneko ukuqinisekisa ukuba zonke izalamane, ngakumbi ngakumbi abasondeleyo, ziyavuma ukuthatha umntwana ekhaya. Okokuqala, unokwenzela izihlobo zancedise ikhaya lomntwana, umzekelo, ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimicimbi yezobubele, kwiziganeko zabantwana. Mhlawumbi, xa beqhagamshelana nabantwana, izalamane ziza kutshintsha isimo sabo sengqondo sokuthatha umntwana. Ngamanye amaxesha, ukuze banqobe ukuxhatshazwa kwabathandekayo, abafazi kufuneka bahambe ekukhohliseni baze baxelise ukukhulelwa. Kodwa oku kunokwenzeka kuphela ukuba ukutholwa komntwana kulungiselelwe umntwana. Xa umntwana uwamkelwa unyaka, unokufumana imvume yokutshintsha umhla wokuzalwa kwisiqinisekiso, esinokukunceda ukuba izalamane zifihla imvelaphi yentsana.
Ingxaki efanayo kukuba iintsapho ezininzi zifuna umntwana omncinci kwaye unempilo, kwaye umgca wabantwana abanjalo ungobukhulu kunabo abantwana abadala okanye abahluphekileyo ziphi na izifo. Ukwamukelwa komntwana osandul 'usana ovela kwintsana kuyinkathazo, kuba umthetho weliphi na ilizwe libeka ubuncinci bexesha elivela kuyo. E-Ukraine, umzekelo, eli lidala liinyanga ezi-2 ukususela ngomhla wokuzalwa.
Inkqubo yokwamkelwa komntwana ukusuka kwintsana
Okokuqala, kuyimfuneko ukufunda imithetho ephathelene nokuthotyelwa. Abaviwa kubazali abathobelayo akufanele bazi nje kuphela amalungelo abo kunye neemfanelo zabo, kodwa kunye namagunya ogciniweyo, ibhodi yabaphathiswa okanye abagcini. Imithetho yokwamkelwa komntwana kwindlu yomntwana ingafumaneka kwinkonzo yabantwana. Okokuqala, kuya kufuneka ukuba uqokelele amaxwebhu ukuba amkelwe umntwana. Kufuneka kukhunjulwe ingqalelo ukuba ixwebhu ngalinye linalo ixesha elifanelekileyo, kwaye ukuba ngexesha lokumkelwa komhla wexesha lokuphelelwa kwaloo nawaphi na amaxwebhu aphelelwa yisikhathi, kuya kufuneka kuveliswe kwakhona. Ngoko ke, kungcono ukuba ufunde ngokukhawuleza zonke iinkcukacha, misela inkqubo yokukhupha amaxwebhu uze uqhubeke nesenzo. Kwi-arhente yokugcina unako ukufumana ulwazi olongezelelweyo malunga nenkqubo yokwamkelwa kwindawo ethile, kunye nedilesi yezindlu zentsana. Ngamanye amaxesha kunyanzelekile ukuba kuphume isikolo sabazali abasamkelayo, kodwa oku kugqitywe ngabanye. Ezinye i-arhenteti arhenti kunye nemibutho yokuncedisa ingathumela ulwazi lwe-intanethi kunye neefoto zabantwana abasuka kwindlu yabantwana kunye nezikolo zokubhoda. Oku kwenziwayo ukuzisa abazali abanokuba ngabazali abangabantwana abafuna intsapho. Kodwa loo mibutho ayinalo ilungelo lokusebenza njengabahambeli.
Ukuthatha umntwana kumntwana akunako wonke umntu kwaye kungekhona yonke intsapho. Ukuze ukhusele abantwana, kukho iimfuno eziqinileyo zabazali abangabantwana, kwaye ngamanye amaxesha ezi zithintelo zineempembelelo ezingafaniyo. Kodwa, nangona kukho ubunzima, amakhulu eminyaka ngamnye ngonyaka afumana ithuba lokufumana ubomi obonwabileyo kwintsapho enothando, kwaye abazali abaninzi banethuba lokufunda uvuyo lobazali kunye nobazali.