Ukunyundela abantwana

Ngamanye amaxesha kwenzeka ukuba abazali, bengena egumbini, bafumana umntwana wabo edlala kunye nezitho zabo zesini. Ukuqala kwabo, ngokuqinisekileyo, kuya kutshatyalaliswa. Kodwa, xa ebuyela, naluphi na ungeke ukwazi ukumemeza kumntwana, ukudonsa nokubetha izandla. Masiqonde ngokuzenzekelayo indlela yokuziphatha kunye nento enokuyenza ngokukhenkcoza kwabantwana.

Ubuntwini bonyundo - yintoni na?

Okokuqala, masiqonde into eyenziwa ngumntanakho.

Ukuba ubanjwe emva kwentsuku enomhlaza yentsana yokuqala kwiminyaka emibini yobomi, ke le yinto eqhelekileyo yokufuna ukwazi umntwana. Akasazi ukuba kukho indawo engavumelekanga emzimbeni. Kule meko, kufuneka nje ukutshintsha ingqalelo yomntwana kwenye into, ngaphandle kokugxila kulo msebenzi. Emva koko, ingcamango yobumnandi besithelo esinqatshelwe, kwanaxa eselula kakhulu.

Kodwa ukuba umntwana sele ekhulile, isakhiwo somzimba wakhe siye safunda kwaye saqhubeka sinyanzelisa izandla, kwaye abazali kufuneka bacinge ngokucokisekileyo. Ekubeni lo msebenzi womntwana, unokuba ngumqondiso malunga neengxaki zengqondo.

Iimbangela zokukhwabanisa umntwana

Kutheni abantwana bebandakanya i-masturbation? Ngokuqhelekileyo kwenzeka ukuba abazali ngokwabo baxanduva loku. Nalu uluhlu lweephene eziphambili zomzali:

1. Okokuqala, ukunqongophala kwe-caress, ukunakekelwa kwabazali, ukuthatha inxaxheba. Umntwana uqala ukuhoxisa kuye kwaye ufuna ukukhupha. Kule meko, i-masturbation iba "ukukhutshwa".
2. Ukunyaniseka kwabazali ngokweqile, imfundo engalunganga. Kwiintsapho ezinjalo, umntwana uzizwa enesizungu kwaye engathandwa. Ewe, uyayidla, kwaye uzama ukuphazamiseka. Apha oku kuqala kunokwenzeka, ukuba ngokukhawuleza ngexesha lokuphazamisa umntwana uvakalelwa kukuba ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kuletha uvuyo, kunciphisa uxhalaba, ngoko unokuqhubeka nokukwenza. Kodwa sele sele uqaphele kwaye ngokuzithandela.
3. Naluphi na uxinzelelo olusisiseko lwabantwana kunye noxinzelelo olunokubangela ukuba umntwana ahlanganyele ekuhlaleni umzimba.

Le yoluhlu lweengxaki zengqondo zobuntwabuntwana. Ngoku masiqhubekele emzimbeni:

1. Ngokugqithiseleyo babone ukucoceka kwabantwana, izambatho ezinxibeleleyo - ezi zinto zikhokelela ekubonakaleni kokubamba kunye ne-intertrigo kwindawo engasenanto.
2. Ukondla ngamandla. Ummandla womlomo udibene ngqo kwindawo yesini. Ngethuba lokutya ngokuthanda kwakhe, abantwana abazive banelisekile ukutya. Kwaye ngeli xesha umgama wentsholongwane uyavuyiswa kwinqanaba leengqondo. Ngokwemvelo, umntwana uya kuqala ukuchukumisa izitho zangasese.
3. Iingxowa zomntwana kwipapa kunye nezinye izigwebo zomzimba zikhupha igalelo legazi kwingingqi ye-groin, ibe negalelo kulomntwana.

Indlela yokujongana nokukhenkcoza umntwana?

Ukujonga kwiingongoma zomntwana ukuhlaziya i-masturbation, umntu unokufumana izigqibo ezilandelayo:

• kunika umntwana ingqwalasela enkulu njengoko ayifunayo;
• sigcina ucoceko;
• siyalibala ngale ndlela yemfundo, njengesijeziso;
• sondla umntwana ngokusemandleni akhe.

Kwakulungele ukubukela umntwana ngaphambi kokulala, kungcono ukumfundisa ukuba alale ecaleni lakhe, iintendelezo phantsi kwesihlathi ukuze kungabi nasilingo.

Ingxaki ayifuni

Ukuba uqaphela ukuba uneminyaka engama-10 umntwana akayeki ukwenza i-masturbation, ngoko kuyimfuneko ukubonisana nodokotela wezesondo kunye nomntwana wengqondo. Umntwana wakho unokunyusa ukuxhatshazwa koxhatshazo, okanye ukuphuhliswa kwengqondo kokuqala kwengqondo. Nangona kunjalo, uncedo lweengcali aluyi kuba lukhulu, kuba abantwana abaninzi abakwazi ukujamelana nale nkinga ngokwabo. Yaye nemiphumo yokuphonyula ebuntwaneni ingakhokelela kwiingxaki zengqondo kwixesha elizayo, zombini kwiintlobano zesini esahlukileyo kunye nokuzithemba.

Ukuvavanya ngokucacileyo imeko yangoku. Qonda ukuba ukuhlaziya i-masturbation kukunceda kuphela ukucima nokuphumula, ngoko jonga uphinde ubhubhise iimbangela zeengxabano zesifo kumntwana wakho.