Ukunyamekela usana olutsha (nangona inkwenkwe, nokuba intombazana) ihlala ihlaziya umama. Emva kwayo yonke into, yena, mhlawumbi, akakaze abhekane nale nkqubo ngaphambili, kwaye akazi into enokuyenza kwaye ayikwazi ukuyenza. Ngaphezu koko, kukho uluvo lokuba ucoceko lwenkwenkwe elusandul 'ukuzalwa luyinto eyahlukileyo, kwintleko yentombazana. Emva kokubonisana nabahlobo okanye umama, umama omncinci, njengomthetho, udibanisa zonke iingcamango zakhe entloko, kwaye akaqondi ukuba ngubani othe tye kunye nendlela yokunyamekela umntwana osandula. Ngako oko, sichaza ukuba iimammies ezizayo kunye nezikhoyo ziyaziqhelanisa nezinto eziphambili zokunyamekela iindlalifa zabo.
Indlela yokuhlamba umntwana osandula?
Phantse wonke umama oselula unomdla kulo mbuzo. Kwaye abaninzi babo bakholelwa ukuba kukho ukuma kwiinkqubo zokuhlamba umntwana kunye nentombazana esanda kuzalwa. Kufuneka kuqatshelwe ukuba umama uyaqiniseka ukuba amakhwenkwe namantombazana bayahlamba ngeendlela ezahlukeneyo, ngoko mhlawumbi le ngcamango yamiselwa ngu-ugogo (okanye nakhulu-nakhulu) osana olutsha. Ngaliphi indlela isizukulwana esidala sibona umehluko ekuhlambeni iintsana ezahlukeneyo zesini? Ukwahlukana, njengommiselo, ngenye. Bakholelwa ukuba ngexesha lokuhlamba inkwenkwe encinci kufuneka ifune ukutshintshisa ijwabu kwaye uhlambe intloko ye-penis. Ngokuqhelekileyo esi sihlandlo sichazwa yinto yokuba ukungcola kuqokelela phantsi kweqhumba, oku kunokukhokelela ekuvukeni, kunye nezifo.
Kwaye makhe sicinge ngokuchanekileyo. Kutheni i-nature ifuna ukudala inkwenkwe esanda kuzalwa inentloko evaliweyo yepenisi? Mhlawumbi kwakukho loo nto ngaphambi kokuba kungabikho i-germs kunye nococa? Kwaye ndigxotha ikhumba kwaye ndihlamba intloko, umama wangena apho ezincinci ezincinci! Nangona izandla zakhe zingenakunqanda (okungaze zenzeke) kwaye yenza le nkqubo ngenamanzi abilisiwe (okukude okungafanelekanga).
Mhlawumbi abanye oomama baya kugxeka ukuba ngaphantsi kweqhenqa liqokelela ngokwenene ukungcola, abaye babona ngamehlo abo. Kodwa oku, kubonisa ukuba umama ngokwayo uncedisa ekufakweni kwodaka phantsi kwesibindi. Emva kwakho konke, xa evula ikhanda okokuqala, ngoko akayi kubona nayiphi na impawu ye-excretion, ukungcola okanye obomvu. Zonke ezi nkxwaleko zivela kwixesha lesibini (lesihlanu, leshumi, nekhulu), xa ulusu luhamba, kwaye akukho zithintelo zokungena kwamagqabhanki angaphandle.
Bonke oogqirha banamhlanje abacebisi ukuchukumisa ijwabu. Ukuba ungathandabuzeki okanye ukhononda, kungcono ukubona ugqirha, kwaye ungabonakali nantoni na.
Indlela yokuhlamba kakuhle umntwana osandula?
Kwaye kulo mbandela akukho mvelaphi ecacileyo-inkwenkwe phambi kwakho okanye intombazana. Geza intsana nganye kunye noshintsho lwe-diaper nganye. Lapha umbuzo uvela ngokucacileyo, kodwa kutheni le nkwenkwe kufuneka ihendwe? Oku kwenziwa ngamanzi aqhelekileyo asebenzayo, iqondo lokushisa elinokulingana nelingana nokushisa komzimba. Kodwa oku akuthethi ukuba kufuneka uhlolisise ukushisa nge-thermometer. Kwanele ukuba wena uvakalelwe kukuba iqondo lokushisa likhululekile.
Amakhwenkwe kunye neentambo
Ukuthetha ngamakhwenkwe amakhwenkwe, umbuzo wobubi beentlanzi zivuselela. Kwakhona, into yokuba amakhwenkwe awakwazi ukusebenzisa i-diapers, ungathethi oogqirha, kodwa uyazi bonke oogogo bale nkwenkwana. Kodwa ekubeni uluvo lukagogo esele saziyo, kufuneka sifunde enye imbono.
Oogqirha abaqwalasele ingxaki yokuba "amakhwenkwe kunye nabapompers" banelungelo lokuqwalaselwa nantoni na. Bavuma ukuba ukushisa kwesikhumba phantsi kwe-diaper kunene kakhulu kunobushushu besikhumba ngaphandle kwalo. Kodwa umahluko u-2 degrees kuphela! Oku akuyona nto ibonakaliso ebalulekileyo. Kwaye ukuba uthelekisa into ebonakalayo eyingozi kwimpilo yindoda, ekhutshwe yi-diapers, kunye neengozi ezilethwa ngokulala emanzini amanzi-ke okokuqala akungabazeki!