Umntwana akaguquki kwiinyanga ezi-4

Umama ngamnye onomdla kwaye onakekelayo ulindela phambili xa umntwana wakhe osanda kuzalwa efunda izakhono ezintsha. Ukongezelela, abazali abaninzi banxibelelana rhoqo kunye kwaye banenkxalabo xa unyana wabo okanye intombi engazi ukuba enze njani izinto ezithile apho oontanga be-crumb sele bajamelana ngayo ngempumelelo.

Ngoko ke, ezininzi iintsana ezineminyaka engama- 4 ziphendukile ukusuka kwinqanaba ukuya kwisisu. Esi sakhono sisoloko sivela kuzo zonke kanye kanye. Ngokuphindaphindiweyo umntwana ujika ngokungazelelwe, ezama ukufumana ithoyizi eyamthanda. Kancinci kamva, omncinci uyayiqonda indlela akwenza ngayo, kwaye uqala ukwenza ngokuqonda.

Okwangoku, kukho imeko xa umntwana engaphenduki kwicala kunye nesisu kwisithuba seenyanga ezine. Oku akufanele kube yisizathu sokutya, kuba zonke iintsana zizodwa kwaye ziphuhlise ngokungafaniyo. Ukungakwazi ukuqhubela phambili kuye kuba ngumqondiso kuye ukuba udinga uncedo oluncinane, ukwenza imihla ngemihla kunye nokuzivocavoca okulula.

Kutheni umntwana engaphenduli kwiinyanga ezine?

Ngokuqhelekileyo, imbangela yecandelo elincinci leemvumba ezivela kwiontanga zabo kukuba ubuthathaka obunzima bobunzima bakhe. Kwakhona into ebalulekileyo ingabonakaliswa yinkqubo yenzwa, ngenxa yokuba umntwana kwiinyanga ezine akufuni ukujika. Eyona nto ingabonakaliyo ingaba yintshontsho okanye iintsana ezibuthathaka.

Kuzo zombini iimeko, ungakhathazeki ngokukodwa, ngenxa yokuba ezi ngxaki zixazululwa kalula ngoncedo lothando lomama kunye nokunyamekela. Ukuba umntwana akaguquki kwiinyanga ezi-4-4.5, zama yonke imihla ukujongana nayo ngokwesi sicwangciso esilandelayo:

1. Yenza umsebenzi othile "ngebhayisikili" kaninzi.
2. Thatha imvuthu ephethe kwiintendelezo zakho kunye nokunciphisa nokuhlutha.
3. Vumela umntwana wakho athabathe izithupha zakho aze athabathe umzimba wakhe ngokuthe ngqo kuwe.
4. Faka i-back crumb back, kwaye umdlalo wakhe oyintandokazi ukhona kwicala layo kumgama omkhulu. Umlenze ochaseneyo ugobile emadolweni kunye nokubeka eceleni ithoyiyi kude kube mzuzwana, Usana aluyi kuthintela emadolweni phezulu kwetafile apho lilele khona. Ngokuqhelekileyo, eli nyathelo lilandelwa ngokukhawuleza ngokukhutshwa.
5. Ukuba i-karapuz ngokwayo izama ukugqithisa, kodwa ayiphumelelanga, inika isandla esinye ukuba ibambe, kwaye enye ibambe izithende, ibenzele inkxaso. Kwiimeko ezinjalo, umntwana uya kuba lula kwaye kulula ukugqithisa, kwaye uya kukwenza ngokukhawuleza.

Qinisekisa ukuba, ukusetyenziswa rhoqo kwendlela yokuzivocavoca kunye nokululaza "umama" kuya kunceda umntwana wakho aphumelele kwaye afunde isakhono esitsha ngexesha elifutshane kunokwenzeka.