Kuhlala kunokwenzeka ukuhlala ngendlela efanelekileyo. Ukuze umntu afunde ukuxabisa okulungileyo, impumelelo kunye nolonwabo, iingxaki kunye neengxaki ziza kuye. Iimeko ezinzima "zinzima". Into ephambili kukuba sikwazi ukuphuma lula kubo.
Ungesabi ubunzima kwaye ungalokothi ushiye - ngoko uya kukwazi ukuphepha ukunyuka, ukunganakwa nokunciphisa umoya. Siza kuthetha ngezizathu kunye neempawu zokunganakwa namhlanje.
Uwuphi umehluko?
Ukunganakwa kunye nokudandatheka kunezinto ezininzi ezahlukahlukeneyo. Ingxaki yengqondo, ngamanye amaxesha ihamba neengxaki zempilo yenyama, yinto kuphela edibanisa.
Iimeko zokunganakwa ziboniswa ukungakhathaleli kuyo yonke into eyenzekayo. Umntu akanomdla kwihlabathi elikujikelezile, abantu, emsebenzini, ekhaya. Ngokukhawuleza, yonke into ilahleka imibala yayo kunye nomtsalane wayo. Ngenxa yoko, ukunganakwa rhoqo kungaholela ekungabinandaba nokuphila komntu.
Okumangalisa kukuba into enjalo isenokuhlaselwa esaneleyo, ephumelelayo, ibe nomntu kunye nosapho lomntu. Kuya kubonakala, kutheni ungahlali ngokuthula kwaye unganeliseki ngazo zonke iintsikelelo onakho? Hayi, ayisebenzi. Umntu uba ngumthinjana wengxaki yakhe, kwaye ukuphuma kweli lizwe kunokuba nzima kakhulu.
Ukuxinezeleka kwakhona kuyinkinga yengqondo. Ngokungafani nokunganakwa, akukhona malunga nokungakhathaleli, kodwa ngoxinzelelo, inzondo, injabulo kunye nazo zonke iintlobo zamava. Ukuxinezeleka kuthetha ukucinezeleka okukhulu .
Ngokukhawuleza, emva kokudandatheka okude, ukungaxhaswa kwemvakalelo kunokulandela. Xa umntu engenawo amandla okuva nokuziva uxolo kuye ngokwakhe, ukhululekile ngokomzwelo kwaye uzalisekise ukungabandakanyeli. Kule meko, enye enye ingathathi indawo
Ndingayifumana njani?
Ukungakhathaleli akufiki ngokukhawuleza. Makhe sibone ukuba yiyiphi i-precursors yelizwe lokungakhathaleli, ziphi iimpawu.
- ukhathala nobuthathaka. Kubonakala ngathi umntu ukhathele kakhulu emsebenzini, ufuna ukuphumla nokuthula. Ukutshintsha imeko, ikhefu lexesha elide kunye nekhwalithi, mhlawumbi, liya kunceda ukukhusela ukuphuhliswa kokunganakwa;
- kulala. Eli lizwe libuye "lugxininiso lwenkathazo". Ukuba unika ixesha elaneleyo lokulala, kodwa uvakalelwa kukuba awufumani ukulala ngokwaneleyo, qhubeka uhlolisisa ngokwakho;
- ubuvila kunye nokungabikho kwamanyathelo. Ukuba ngaphambi kokuziqhayisa ukuba rhoqo kwaye yonke indawo yayingowokuqala, ibonisa iimpawu zobunkokheli, ngoko ukunganakwa kwenza ukuba wenze ngendlela echaseneyo;
- buhlungu. Ngokuqhelekileyo uziva utyhafile kwaye uhlungu ngenxa yesizathu esithile, awufuni nto, akukho minqweno;
- ukungakhathaleli. Njengoko sele kukhankanywe, le yimiqondiso ebalulekileyo yenyani yokuba wahlaselwa ukunganakwa;
- intetho engaqondanga. Ithoni ephosakeleyo yeemeko zakho kunye nokungafuni ukuthatha inxaxheba kwiingxoxo;
- kubodwa. Uyaziphendulela ngokwakho;
- umnqweno wokuhlala wedwa. Uzama ukuhlala wodwa kwaye ugweme nayiphi na inkampani enomsindo. Akunjalo ukuba abantu bakucaphukise, abayithandi nje.
Ngubani omele uxanduva?
Izizathu eziphambili zokunganakwa zibandakanya oku kulandelayo:
- uxinzelelo. Ingxabano enkulu nomntu othandekayo , ukufa komntu othandekayo, ukulahlekelwa ngumsebenzi kunye nokutshintsha indawo yokuhlala - zonke ezi ziimvavanyo ezinamandla kunene nawuphi na kuthi. Ukuba amava ayomelele, ayenomntu ombi, ngoko konke oku ngasentla kunokukhokelela ekunganakwa;
- ukungabi nemali. Umsebenzi omdala kunye nenkani, ukungabi nako kwemali rhoqo, amatyala kunye nokungabi namandla okwanelisa iimfuno zakho kubangela ukuba impi iphelile, izandla ziyawa. Umntu ulahlekelwa ngumdla kwaye uhamba ngokunyaniseka kwinyani.
Gwema iingxabano uze uzame ukwenza ubomi bakho bube mnandi kwaye butyebi.