Ukunyanzeliswa yimeko apho umntu ehlangabezana nosizi olunzulu okanye nje umoya ophantsi. Oku kwenzeka kwaye ihambelana neziganeko ezingathandekiyo, kwaye ngenxa nje yemozulu embi. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu akaziqondi apho kuvela khona intlungu yokudakumba, kwaye emva koko uqonda ukuba kungenxa yokungqubuzana okungaphendulwanga okanye ukungaxilongo kwimvelaphi yeemeko.
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- Ukwamukelwa kwamacandelo amnyama. Abanye abantu bavame ukungena ekudakaleni kwengqondo malunga nokuba yintoni na imeko eyenziwe ngokumelene nentando yabo. Kufanelekile ukuba samkele ukuba ebomini kunemibala emnyama nemhlophe, kwaye ngaphandle kweengxaki ezincinane awunakukwazi ukuyivuyela ngokupheleleyo impumelelo. Ngamanye amaxesha iingcinga malunga nale nto zibuyisela isimo esibusisiweyo somoya, kuba kuza ukuqonda ukuba oku okwethutyana!
- Abahlobo kunye nobudlelwano. Ngamanye amaxesha umntu unomzimba obomkhulu kunye noxinzelelo, emva koko kuvela ukuba akanalo uvuyo ebomini. Ukuba ngaba kunjalo lakho, thabatha ixesha lokuba uhlangane nabahlobo abonwabileyo kwaye ube nexesha elihle. Ngamanye amaxesha le nto iyona nto ibonelela kakhulu.
- Ezemidlalo kunye nokuzonwabisa okusebenzayo. Ngethuba lethu, ukungasebenzi ngokusemthethweni akusikho ukuxilongwa, kodwa indlela yobomi beninzi ininzi labantu basezidolophini. Kungenxa yokuhamba okuphantsi kwendoda ngamanye amaxesha ukuphazamiseka kwengcinezelo. A ndi kholelwa? Fumana ukubhalisa kwiklabhu yokuzimelela okanye uthathe umgaqo wokufudumala okanye ukudansa ngeeveki ngeveki. Uya kumangaliswa ukuba uzakufumana ngokukhawuleza iziphumo.
- Utshintsha imeko. Ukuba ubona ukuba amanyathelo alula akunakunceda, zama ukutyelela, okanye nje ukuhamba ngokude ngaphandle kwesixeko. Ukutshintsha kakhulu imeko, ukuba kungekhona iintsuku ezimbalwa, koko ubuncinane iiyure ezimbalwa! Yilokho okuya kukuvumela ukuba ukhulule kwimimiselo yansuku zonke kwaye uzive uvuyo kwaye ujabule.
- Into eyithandayo. Ngelishwa, akusiwo wonke umntu onomdla wokuzonwabisa, kodwa le ndlela yindlela engcono yokuphazamiseka kwaye uzikhohlwe. Nangona kunjalo, abantu bokudala
bayakufumana lula into eyithandayo: umntu oza kudweba, umntu uya kubhala indinyana, umntu uzakudlala igitare. Abo bangakhange bafumane, unokunikela ngokubukela i-movie oyikhonzile, ukufunda okude kulindeleke kweencwadi, njl njl. Thatha ixesha lokuba ubeke ixesha elide!
Ngamanye amaxesha ukucindezeleka kokuziphatha kuqhubeka kwaye kuzisa iingxaki ezininzi. Kule meko, kuyimfuneko ukulila i-alamu kwaye ufumane indlela yokulahla le ntliziyo, ukuze ingabi yixinzelelo epheleleyo. Kwaye ngokuthintela, ungakulibali ukuzinikela ixesha lakho kunye neminqweno yakho - kwaye ukuxinezeleka akuyikukukhathaza!