Umntu okhulile ngumcimbi onqabileyo namhlanje. Kwaye inqaku liphela kukuba ingcamango "yenkcubeko yomntu" ifaka iimfuno ezininzi, ezithe, ngelanga, azihambelani ngamnye wethu. Makhe siqwalasele uhlobo luni lomntu onokuthiwa yinkcubeko.
Umntu wenkcubeko yanamhlanje
Okokuqala kwaye phambili, umntu onokuthiwa ngumntu okhuhliweyo, kufuneka abe nembeko kunye neendlela ezilungileyo. I-Etiquette, isiseko sokuziphatha, yintoni kanye eyenza umntu akhuliswe. Le nto ayinalo ulwazi olusisiseko lwendalo. Zifumaneka ngobudala, oku kusifundiswa ngabazali, inkulisa, isikolo. Enyanisweni, i-label isekelwe kwimithetho engenanto, engenanto engayibonakaliyo, kodwa kwisiseko esisemgangathweni yobomi kuluntu. Ubuchule bokuziphatha kakuhle buya kuphuculwa ngabo bonke abantu bexesha lenkcubeko.
Indlela yokuba ngumntu okhulile?
Yintoni enquma umxholo wenkcubeko? Kubalulekile ukuqwalasela iimpawu ezicacileyo zenkcubeko, kwaye ke siya kufunda oko kuthetha ukuthatha umntu onkcubeko. Makhe sibhale iimpawu eziphambili zomntu wenkcubeko, okumele kube yinto ebalulekileyo kuyo.
- Iimpawu zangaphandle. Badibana nomntu, njengoko besithi, kwiingubo. Impembelelo yokuqala ihlala iyinyani, ngoko ke umntu wenkcubeko uhlala ebonakala ngendlela ebonakalayo, ugqoke ngokufanelekileyo kwimeko, unentetho efanelekileyo, uyazi imigaqo yokuziphatha kunye nokuziphatha kuluntu;
- Impawu zobuntu. Iimpawu eziphambili kunye neempawu zomntu wenkcubeko, okokuthi umlingiswa wakhe kunye neempawu zobuntu zixanduva, ububele, ukuhlonipha, ukunyameka nokunyaniseka, kuya kuba namandla kunye nokukwazi ukuzilawula, ukuzithemba. Imiqondiso yenkcubeko, efunyenwe ngobudala kunye namava, ebekwe kuyo ngemfundo, kufuneka ibe nemilinganiselo yokuqonda kunye nokunyamezela, ukunyamezela, ukungabi nantlonelo, ukuhlonipha abanye, imfesane, imfesane, ukuzimisela ukunceda, ukuzinikela kunye nokuzinikela;
- Ukuzihlaziya. Oku akuwona uphawu olungabalulekanga, apho izinga lenkcubeko lomntu lichongiwe. Ukulungiswa kunye nemfundo, impucuko kunye nokwazi jikelele jikelele, ukuhlonipha ulwazi kunye nokukwazi ukuyiqonda into entle, ezi ziimpawu eziphambili zomntu ezichonga ukuba umntu onjani. Amandla okudala nokuzama ulwazi olutsha kunye nezakhono, ukuvuleka kuyo yonke into emitsha engaziwayo, ukuzimisela ukufunda kunye nomnqweno wokuzihlaziya ngokusisigxina ukuhlukanisa umntu wenkcubeko esuka kwabanye abantu.
- Ukusebenzisana nabantu. Oku kuthetha ukukwazi ukusebenzisana, ukusebenza kwiqela, ukwenza umsebenzi oqhelekileyo, unokukwazi ukuzidela ngenxa yeenjongo eziphezulu. Imiqondiso ecacisa ukuba ubani unokuqwalaselwa kwenkcubeko yintlupheko yoshishino, ukukwazi ukubeka izithandane zomntu phantsi kweenjongo kunye nokuthanda, ukuzimisela ukukunceda nokufundisa, ukwabelana ngamava abo, ulwazi
kunye nezakhono, umnqweno wokufunda nokufunda kwabanye. - Ukuzinikela kwilizwe langaphandle kunye nenkcubeko yalo. Esi sisinye isibonakaliso esibalulekileyo somntu wenkcubeko. Emva koko, umntu ongazi nto ngelizwe lakhe, imbali yayo, abantu, izithethe zesizwe azikwazi kuthiwa zenkcubeko. Lo mbandela uxhomekeka kakhulu kwimfundo nakwimfundo, kubazali kunye noluntu apho umntu akhula khona. Nangona kunjalo, umnqweno wolwazi olutsha lukwazi ukuzimela ngokuzimeleyo umntu ovela kuye.
Zonke iimpawu kunye neempawu zenkcubeko zinobunzima ukuzibala. Wonke umntu uthetha into ehlukile phantsi kwesi siganeko. Nangona kunjalo, sizame ukubonisa kuwe iinkalo eziphambili zomntu wenkcubeko, onokuphuhliswa ngokupheleleyo kwaye ufundiswe ngokwakho. Zama ukugqwesa kwaye ukhuliswe!