Xa intombazana ijika iminyaka elilishumi elinesibhozo ubudala, kubonakala ngathi ubomi bayo buguquka. Kanye kunye nokuza kwamalungelo amasha kunye nemisebenzi emitsha, kuza kufuneka kukhunjulwe, kwaye kubaluleke kakhulu - uxanduva. Eli lixesha lucatshangelwa ngokufanelekileyo kunzima, likhangeleka, kuba ngoku umfana osemtsha uzimisele ukungena kwisigaba esitsha sobomi. Yaye ke, umcimbi onjalo kufuneka uqaphele kwizinga elikhulu! Ngoko makhe sicinge ngendlela onokubhiyozela ngayo iminyaka eyi-18 le ntombazana.
Uphi intombazana ukugubha iminyaka eyi-18?
Enye yezinto ezibaluleke kakhulu ekulungiseleleni iholide yindawo yokubamba kwayo. Apha, ngokuqinisekileyo, simele siqwalasele imozulu kunye nezinto ezikhethwa ngabantu. Ukubhiyozela ukuzalwa kwentombazana engama-18 ebusika - umbuzo onempendulo elula: unokwenza i-party yenkukhu kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo kwigumbi elingenalutho okanye indlu-inxaxheba yokuphumelela kwintombazana eninzi! Unako ukuthabatha izikhwama okanye i-skis uze uhambo oluhle lokubusika. Kwimimandla efudumalayo, kunokwenzeka ukuba udlulisele umbhiyozo ogwini lomlambo okanye nje ezitrato zesixeko.
Uwubhiyozela njani usuku lokuzalwa lwe-18 le ntombazana?
Sihlolisise indawo ezibalaseleyo zokubhiyozela kunye neengcamango zeeholide ebusika. Kodwa indlela yokubhiyozela i-18 yokuzalwa kwentombazana ehlobo, yiziphi iingcamango ezinokuthi zibe khona? Imozulu yehlobo linika ithuba lokucinga. Kuza kuba yiholide enkulu xa uhamba ebhankini lomlambo, echibi okanye elwandle! Unokuthatha i- shish kebabs kunye nekhamera, kunye nemifuno kunye ne-sausages, ukuze uzifake kwi-grill. Musa ukulibala ngomculo; unokwazi ukuthabatha isiginci - kuya kunika umoya okhethekileyo, ngakumbi ngokufutshane nobusuku.
Ngokuqinisekileyo, amantombazana amaninzi aya kufuneka athabathe kwaye ahambe ngokuthandana nomyeni wakho othandekayo. Imozulu evuthayo iya kuba ngexesha nje: unokulungiselela ukuhlwada kwiphahla, uhambo olukhombeni okanye kwisikhephe, ukuba i-permit permit, nangaphezulu. Uvavanyo kunye nolwazi olukhethiweyo-ilanga lomoya, ukudala umoya oyingqayizivele wothando.
Iminyaka eyi-18 ngokuqinisekileyo iholide evuyobileyo, evula iphepha elitsha ebomini nganye intombazana. Omnye ukhetha ukugubhazela kwiqela, umntu-ukulungiselela ilungu elincinci kunye nabahlobo abasondeleyo, kwaye umntu wenza ukhetho olusetyhini - ibhodi ye- bachelorette ngokuxela inceba ... Nangona kunjalo, kubalulekile ukuba ungalokothi uphelelwe iholide ebalulekileyo! Ngoko ke, simema onke amantombazana amancinci ukuba acinge ngento ekhethekileyo kwaye ahlele umcimbi oya kukhunjulwa ngabo kunye nabahlobo babo ixesha elide, mhlawumbi - njani ukwazi? - naphakade.