Umphathi weliphi na umlinganiselo akakwazi ukuqhubeka ngaphandle kokubonakala kweempawu ezikhethekileyo. Kodwa ukudibanisa kunye nokubonakaliswa kwazo zihlukeneyo kangangokuba inkcazo yobunkokeli kwinkqubo yolawulo ihlalutyiweyo ngamanani amanqaku. Kuyinto enomdla kukuba abaphandi abanakho ukuvumelana malunga nenkcazo eninzi yenkcazo, ngoko ke ukuqonda kwayo kucetyiswa ukuba uqhelane neendlela eziliqela ngelo xesha.
Iingongoma ezisibhozo zeenkokheli zolawulo
Ukusuka kumphathi kufunwa amandla okuhlanganisa imizamo yeqela labantu ukufezekisa nayiphi na injongo. Oko kukuthi, inkcazo yobunkokheli kubaphathi inokubangela umdla kwimisebenzi eyahlukeneyo. Olu hlobo lolwalamano lusekelwe ekusebenzisaneni kwezentlalo, ngokudlala indima "yabalandeli-nkokheli", akukho manzi apha, kuba abantu bayamkela ubunzima bezinye zabo zabo ngaphandle kwengcinezelo ebonakalayo.
Kukho iintlobo ezimbini zobunkokeli kulawulo:
- isiphumo esisemthethweni ngenxa yesithuba esiphumeleleyo;
- olusesikweni - isikhokelo ngenxa yobuncedo bomntu siqu.
Kukholelwa ukuba isiphumo esihle kakhulu senziwa ngokudibanisa iindlela zombini.
Ukuba ukhangele le ngxaki ukusuka kwinqanaba leembono, unokwazi ukwahlula isisiseko esisibhozo.
- Imeko . Kuquka ukutshintsha indlela, kuxhomekeke kwiimeko, ngaphandle kokubhekiselele kumhlobo womntu . Isekelwe kwingcamango yokuba nganye imeko ifom ekhethekileyo yobunkokheli iyadingeka.
- "Omkhulu . " Icacisa intsingiselo yobunkokeli ngemimiselo yezofuzo, impawu ezikhethekileyo ezifumaneka ekuzalweni.
- Iikhokelo zobunkokheli . Ukunikezela ngokusemthethweni nolawulo lwentando yeninzi, ngokweminye inguqu kukho ukugxininisa emsebenzini kunye nomntu.
- Psychoanalytic . Yenza umzobo phakathi kweendima kwintsapho nakwimpilo yoluntu. Kukholelwa ukuba indlela yokuziphatha yabazali ihambelana nezikhundla zobunkokeli, kunye nabantwana-kubalandeli.
- Ukuziphatha . Uthi inkokheli ifundiswa, ayijolise kwiimpawu, kodwa ngezenzo.
- Intsebenziswano . Ithatha ukutshintshiselana okunenzuzo phakathi kwentloko kunye nabalandeli, apho igalelo lisekelwe khona.
- Amaqela kunye neempembelelo . Ukubaluleka kwabalandeli kunye nemibutho inqatshelwe, inkokeli iba ngumlinganiselo ophakathi, ogxininisa zonke izibonelelo kunye nokudibana kwezandla.
- Utshintsho . Amandla omphathi ancike kwi- motivation yabalandeli nokuhlukana kweengcamango eziqhelekileyo phakathi kwabo. Nantsi inkokheli yileyunithi yokudala, ilungelelaniswe kwisicwangciso socwangciso.
Inkolelo nganye inikezela inkokheli ngeendlela ezininzi zokuziphatha, kodwa ngokwenza, enye yazo ayibonakali isetyenziswe ngokupheleleyo, ngokuqhelekileyo emibini okanye ngaphezulu ixutywe.