Okwangoku, ixesha lokulinda umntwana asisizathu sokuyeka izinto eziqhelekileyo zokuzonwabisa kunye nezinto ezinonwabo. Kule nqaku, siya kuzama ukufumanisa ukuba kunokwenzeka ukuba siphile ngobomi besondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, nokuba ngaba ubudlelwane obusondeleyo babazali bokamva bangalimaza umntwana ongakazalwa.
Ngaba kunokwenzeka ukukholisa ubomi besondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa?
Enyanisweni, ubomi besondo ngexesha lokukhulelwa akuyinto engavunyelwe. Iqiniso lokuba abazali bexesha elizayo bayaqhubeka bebonisa uthando, nangona ubukho bombindi esibelethweni, akukho nto iphosakeleyo. Ngaphezu koko, i-spermatozoa engena emzimbeni womama ozayo ngexesha lesondo iprotheni ephezulu enezondlo kunye nokwakha izinto eziyimfuneko ekuphuhliseni umntwana.
Yingakho oogqirha abaninzi bancomela ukuba abafazi baqhubeke nobudlelwane obusondeleyo ngexesha lokukhulelwa, kodwa kuphela kwimeko yokuba le ntokazi ayinalo ingozi yokuphazamiseka. Ngaphandle koko, ukulala ngesondo, ngokukodwa kakhulu, kunokuba nefuthe elibi kakhulu kwimeko yengane engakazalwa kwaye kubangele imiphumo ebuhlungu, njengokwenziwa komzimba okanye ukuzalwa kwangaphambi kokuzalwa.
Ukungabikho kokuphikisana, ubomi bobulili kwiimpawu zokuqala zokukhulelwa akufani nhlobo neentsebenziswano ezithandana naye ngaphambi kokuqala kokukhulelwa. Ngokuchasene noko, abatshatileyo ngeli xesha banokuphumla kwaye bafumane uvuyo lokuthetha nabanye ngaphandle kokukhathazeka ngesidingo sokukhulelwa.
Ngokuphuhlisa okuqhubekayo kokukhulelwa kunye nokukhula kwesisu esiswini lwabazali bexesha elizayo, kukho ukunciphisa. Oku akuthethi ukuba esi sibini siya kufuneka silahleke oonxibelelwano abasondeleyo, nangona kunjalo, utshintsho olunye kwinkqubo yobomi bezesondo kufuneka lwenziwe, kukhetha ukunyamezela xa indoda isemva.
Ekugqibeleni, iiveki ezingama-2-3 phambi kokunikezelwa okucetywayo, oogqirha bancomeka ixesha elithile ukuba bayeke umsebenzi wesondo. Ngeli xesha, intloko yomntwana ongakazalwa isondele kakhulu ekuphumeni komlomo wesibeleko, ngoko ke ukunyakaza kungakhathazeki. Ukongezelela, ngeli xesha kunokwenzeka ukuba uvuselele ukuzalwa ngaphambi kokuzalwa, ngoko umama nobafanele balinde kancane.