Sekuqaleni kweveki yama-31 yokukhulelwa, ukunyakaza komntwana kungabonakalisa ukuba abazali bexesha elizayo bayakwazi ukubona umlenze okanye umlenze kwisisu somama. Kulo xesha le nto ibhinqa libonisa umgangatho ophezulu wokusebenza kwemoto. Ukususela ngeli xesha, ibhinqa lifanele lijonge kakuhle iimvakalelo zakhe.
Ukunceda umama wesikhathi esizayo, kukho iindlela ezahlukeneyo zokubona ukuba umntwana wakho uhamba ngokuqhelekileyo. Makhe sicacise enye yazo.
D. Uvavanyo lukaPerarson malunga nokuhamba komntwana
Le ndlela ibandakanya ukubeka esweni ukuhamba komntwana ngexesha elide ukususela kwi-9 ukuya kwi-21 iiyure. Umama wesikhathi esizayo ubonisa kwitafile ekhethekileyo ngexesha lokuqala kokubala kokuphazamiseka, ukulungisa nayiphi na ijelo, ukukhaba, ukuphazamiseka komntwana - konke kodwa ukukhwabanisa; kwaye ungeze kwitafile ixesha leshumi elishukumisayo njengexesha lokuphela kwebala.
Iziphumo zivandlakanywa ngokwemiqathango elandelayo:
- ukuba phakathi kwesenzo sokuqala neseshumi sele sidlulile ngaphezu kwemizuzu engama-20 - konke ulungile, umntwana uyasebenza;
- Imizuzu engama-30-40 ukusuka ekuqaleni kokulungiswa ukuya ekupheleni - kungekhona isizathu sokukhathazeka, mhlawumbi umntwana wayelele;
- xa ixesha ukusuka kuqala ukuya kumatshini weshumi li ngaphezu kweyure, zama ukwenza uhambo oluphinda uphinde uphinde ubhale. Ukuba isiphumo ayitshintshi - jonga ugqirha ngokukhawuleza.
Iiveki ezingama-31-32 zokukhulelwa lixesha elifanelekileyo lokuvavanya ukunyakaza komntwana kunye nokwenza iimvavanyo ezifanayo. Kwakukho ngeli xesha ukuba umntwana sele esele akhiwe ngokwaneleyo, kwaye esibelethweni sisasaza kwaye sinendawo eyaneleyo yokunyakaza okusebenzayo. Emva kweiveki ezingama-36, umntwana uya kutyhutyana kwaye awuyi kukwazi ukuzivakalelwa.
Ungakulibali ukuba umlinge weentshukumo ze-fetal kwiveki yama-31 yokukhulelwa kuxhomekeke kumoya weemvuthu kunye nomoya wayo. Ukuba umntwana ushukunyiswa kakhulu, zama ukuquka umculo ozolileyo wokumnceda ukuhlalisa.