Njengomthetho, ekupheleni konyaka wesikolo, ootitshala notitshala baxoxisana nabazali ngesihloko sokwenza ntoni ehlobo. Kodwa ukuba ngesizathu esithile ulahlekile inkulumo, siya kukunika iingcamango ezinomdla wokulungiselela ukuzonwabisa kwezingane.
Kutheni uthatha umntwana ehlotyeni kwisixeko?
Ukuhlala ekuthunjweni kweedolophu, unokufumana ixesha elifanelekileyo. Ngoko, makhe sicinge ngento enokuyenza ngayo nomntwana ehlotyeni kwisixeko. Amabhishi, iipaki zedolophu, iindawo zemidlalo, indawo yezemidlalo - akudingeki ukuba uthi ehlobo, umntwana kufuneka achithe ixesha elininzi ngangokunokwenzeka emoyeni omtsha.
Nokuba ngaba abazali baphoqelelwe ukuba bachithe lonke usuku emsebenzini, ngokuhlwa kwaye ngeveki kufuneka uhambe ukuhamba okanye ipikiniki. Ukuba uhlala kufuphi nedonki okanye umlambo, qiniseka ukuba uye kwindawo elwandle ngokuhlwa. Ngomhla, amanzi aya kufudumala kakuhle, kwaye ilanga aliyi kuba litshisa. Ngamafutshane, zonke iimeko, ukwenzela ukuba inkunzi ibe neeninzi zokubhukuda kunye nexesha elihle kunye nabazali bayo.
Ukuba uhamba elunxwemeni akunakwenzeka, ungazibamba kwindawo epakini okanye kwindawo yokudlala. Kwaye ngoko ukuba akudingeki ukuba "udibanise ubuchopho bakho", kunokuba uthathe umntwana ukuhamba ehlobo, thabatha kunye neemfuno zokudlala zezingane eziyimfuneko.
Abaqhubi, i-scooter, ibhasikidi, i-badminton ngabancedisi abathembekileyo kubazali kwintlangano yokuzilibazisa okwenkcenkceshe kwintsana nayiphi na inqanaba leminyaka. Kubahlali basezidolophini ezinkulu, umbuzo unzima kunokuba uthathe abantwana ngaphandle kwehlobo, kuba kungekho rhoqo kwindlu ongayifumana indawo yokudlala yabantwana okanye ipaki. Kwiimeko ezinjalo kucetyiswa ukuba kubuze malunga nobukho bamaziko obumnandi bendalo kunye nobuchule.
Ngempelasonto, inkqubo yokuzonwabisa iyahlukahluka ngokuya ehlathini, uhambo oluya e-zoo. Kule meko, umbuzo wento oyenzayo nabantwana kwindalo ehlotyeni ibonisa ezininzi iimpendulo. Yonke into incike kwiingcamango zabazali kunye neemeko zemozulu. Unokwazi ukubukela izilwanyana kwiziqhewu zasehlobo, xelela intsana malunga nezityalo ezizungezile, udwebe imephu yokuhamba, ekupheleni apho umntwana uya kulindela.
Ngoku ukuba siye sahluma ngokuhlwa nokuhamba ngeveki, siya kuthintela kwenye, kungekho isihloko esivuthayo kunokuba sithathe abantwana kwihlobo lehlobo. Kucacile, xa abazali basebenza, abantwana babo bashiywe bona. Ngokuqinisekileyo uqaphele ukuba abanye abantwana besikolo, naphezu kokushisa kunye nemimozulu embi, bachithe iintsuku kwiidi kwiibhodi, kanti abanye bachitha ubusuku kwiikhomputha zabo. Ukuba akukho nxalenye yokuqala okanye yesibini kuwe, malunga nabazali abanenkathalo nabaxanduva bayamkeleka, shiya ezimbalwa "ezibaluleke kakhulu" zihamba imihla ngemihla kumntwana. Unokuphinda udibanise ubomi bemihla ngemihla ebantwini besikolo ngokufunda iincwadi ezinomdla. Musa ukulibala malunga neenkampu zasehlotyeni zasebantwini ezikolweni - oku akuyona inketho embi kakhulu, ubuncinci ngaphandle kolawulo kunye nezoshishino, umntwana akayi kuhlala.
Kunokuba bathathe abantwana kwindawo yokuhlala ehlobo ehlala ehlobo?
I-Dacha ayiyona nje imifuno yendlu kunye neziqhamo, kodwa nayo inethuba elihle lokuba neeholide ejongene nokuzonwabisa kwaye iluncedo. Ngendlela, abaninzi bezilwanyana banethemba lokuba indlu yelizwe yindawo efanelekileyo yokubuyisela umntwana. Ukuphendula umbuzo, kunokuba uthathe abantwana kweli lizwe ehlobo, unokunika abazali:
- ukubandakanyeka ekuvuneni, kungekhona nje ukulondolozwa, kodwa kunye nezobugcisa;
- ukufakwa kunye nomntwana, umyezo wakhe omncinci. Vumela i-crumb ikhule apho izityalo kunye neentyatyambo ezikhula ngokukhawuleza, ngokuqinisekileyo umsebenzi ololo hlobo uya kumnika umonwabelo omkhulu;
- ukhethe usuku kwaye uhambe ukuloba okanye ipikiniki;
- ukuba unamathele umntwana kumzobo wokufotela, kwaye ekupheleni kwexesha lehlobo lokwenza i-collage yesithombe;
- njalo ngeveki ukulungiselela amacandelo abantwana abantwana, ngokuqinisekileyo kunokwenzeka, ukuba umntwana sele sele ebenabo nabahlobo bakhe "kwi-dacha."