Xa umntwana usuphelile ixesha lokutyelela i-kindergarten okanye isikolo, abazali bajamelana nombuzo wokuba uthumele umntwana ehlobo ukuphumla. Ekubeni umntwana uninzi lwexesha elikhululekile ehlobo, kukho amathuba amaninzi kunokuba athathe umntwana ehlobo.
Ngaphambi kokuba uqale ukukhetha indawo yokuphumla kwabantwana, kufuneka unqume indlela kwaye ufuna ukuyisebenzisa njani ihlobo kunye nomntwana wakho: kunye kunye okanye ngokwahlukileyo.
Kuphi ukubeka umntwana ehlobo?
Inketho enkulu kunazo zonke kumntwana oneminyaka engama-5 ubudala yinkampu yempilo yabantwana. Phakathi koontanga lwabo, umntwana unokunandipha ukuxhamla, ukukhupha kunye nokuphumla.
Xa kungabikho kwamathuba emali ukuthumela umntwana ekampini, unokuluhlela ikhefu lakhe kwidolophana nogogo wakhe. Umntwana e-dacha akayi kufumana kuphela umrhumo we-vivacity, inani elikhulu lamavithamini, kodwa uya kukwazi ukufumana abahlobo abatsha.
Kuphi ukuphumla nomntwana wakho ehlobo?
Uninzi lwabazali bazama ukuthatha abantwana baphume elwandle ehlobo. Kule meko, uhambo kufuneka ludlule ubuncinane iintsuku ezingama-21, ukwenzela ukuba inyama yomntwana ikwazi ukuvuselela kunye nokuhambelana nemimandla eyahlukileyo. Ukunyamekela izinto eziyimfuneko kwintsana, kunye nekiti yokunceda yokuqala kumntwana olwandle .
Ukuba ngaba abazali banquma ukuhlala ekhaya kwaye bangayi eholide, ke umbuzo uvela, apho ukubeka umntwana ehlotyeni, ukuze angabi nantlungu. Ekubeni uninzi lwabahlobo abasuka kwindawo yokudlala bavele baye kwiindawo zokuphumla, umntwana ngezinye iinkhathi akanakho umntu ohamba naye. Kule meko, amaqela achaphazelekayo acwangcisiweyo, ahlelwe ngokusekelwe kwiPalamente yobuCala kunye neNdlu yeNkcubeko, apho, ngaphezu kokuxoxisana noontanga, umntwana angenza izinto awazithandayo: umzekelo, uye kwi-studio ye-iso, umdaniso okanye uhadi.
Abazali bafanele bakhumbule ukuba nayiphi na iholide abayikhethayo, xa kuthatha isigqibo sokuya kwindawo ehlobo kunye nomntwana kubalulekile ukuba acinge ngoluvo lwakhe, kuba naye, njengathi, unelungelo lakhe
Kuyinto enqwenelekayo kumntwana nanini na ubudala ehlotyeni ukuqinisekisa ukutshintsha kwimeko. Ukususela kuwo wonke unyaka wayesezindaweni ezivaliweyo-iqela kwi-kindergarten okanye kwiindonga zesikolo. Imithwalo engqongqoyo emzimbeni womntwana igcina umntwana ngetoni eqhubekayo, kwaye ukuzola, ukukhululeka, ukukhululeka kweholide kuya kunceda ukugcina inkokhelo ye-vivacity kunyaka ozayo kunye nokuqinisa imfutho.