Ubani ongqingiliyo-okokuthi u-homophobia kuthetha ntoni, izizathu zayo, indlela yokulwa nokulahla?

Ngubani ongabandlululo - iingcamango malunga nale ngxaki zahlula phakathi kweengqondo zengqondo. UZ. Freud uchazwa ngokucacileyo ngexesha lakhe lokuzithemba ngokobuhlanga njengongqingili, kodwa kungekhona njalo. I-Homophobes nazo zibizwa ngokuba ngabantu abangafuni ukuwabelana ngesini ngokwesini.

Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba "u-homophobe"?

I-Homophobia - yintoni na? Ekuguquleleni ukusuka kwisiGrike, i-ὁμός ifana, kwaye i-φόβος ingoyiko. I-Homophobia yimeko apho kubakho ukwesaba okungenangqiqo kweengcamango zesini, ukuziphatha, iimvakalelo, abantu abangaqhelekanga. Ngubani ongabandlululo, imiqondiso:

• Gwema oonxibelelwano nabantu abangaqhelekanga ngokuqhelekileyo;
• soyika ukuqonda ubungqingili bakhe;
• ifuna ukuthatha inxaxheba kwimiboniso echasene neentlalo ze-LGBT;
• Ukuvakalisa kakubi malunga nabasini basini, usebenzisa ulwimi oluhlaselayo;
• ebizwa ngokuba yinkolo;
• ukunyanzela kunye nolawulo.

Izizathu zokuhlala

Ngaba i-homophobia isifo okanye akunjalo? Eli gama lifana negama lesi sifo, kodwa akunjalo, kwaye i-homophobes ngokwabo ayiboni ukuba imeko yabo idinga ukulungiswa ngandlela-thile. Izizathu apho kukho ukuhlaselwa ngabantu:

• zobundlobongela;
• ukungazi;
• ukunamathela kwimimiselo eqinileyo yoluntu;
• yonqulo.

Psychology of homophobia

Uphononongo lwe-homophobia ngoncedo lwe-psychoanalysis lunceda ukufumanisa isizathu sokuba umntu unalo mqathango. Abahlali beengqondo abanako ukuhlala bethola umgca phakathi kwesimo sengqondo esingaqhelekanga somntu ngokulingana ngesini nesini kunye nokunyaniseka kwabantu kwaye ukuba okokuqala kuhambelana nokuziphatha kunye nokuzinza okuthe ngqo kwintlalo, ukuzondwa kwabantu ngokuhlala kubakho ukwesaba ngokukhawuleza, ukunyaniseka nokuxhalaba ekufumaneni ubungqingili . I-Homophobes isaba ukuba ngumlingani.

I-Homophobia kwi-Psychiatry

Unyango lwama-homophobia njengesibonakaliso sekliniki alukho, kwaye nangona ulwalamano lubonisa ukwesaba, kunokuba yinto yentlalo kunye nobudlova kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwabantu , ukwesaba okungenangqondo okuvela emehlweni abantu "abangafani nam" kwaye babonakaliswe yimvakalelo ecacileyo: umsindo, ukunyaniseka, ukunyeliswa, ukuhamba kunye nokuziphatha kakubi kwabantu bokuzibulala.

I-Homophobia ehlabathini

Kulo lonke ihlabathi, i-homophobes ekubonweni kweempawu zobungqingili zijongene nesimo sengqondo esibi. Ifulegi yama-homophobes yifani yefowuni yecala lesigxina, kodwa u-rainbow uphuphulwa ngumgca omnyama omnyama kwisangqa. Kwilizwe lamaSilamsi, amanye amazwe ase-Afrika, ubungqingili bohlwaywa ngokufa, ngoko ke amazwe afana ne-Iran, Afghanistan, Pakistan, eYemen, eUganda zibhekwa njengezona zintsholongwane kwaye ziyingozi kubantu abathandanayo nabasemagunyeni .

I-Homophobia e-US

Umhla wokulwa nokuzimela kwabantu e-United States, njengamazwe amaninzi, uqala ngomzuzu wokuthulisa umntu oshonile kwi-AIDS, okanye amaxhoba abulawe ezandleni zabantu abangenayo ingxaki malunga nabalingqingili. I-United States yindawo ekhutheleyo neyomeleleyo eneendlela zobomi zanamhlanje, kodwa nakubha banqatshelwe ngokutsha umtshato wesini omnye, uthando, kodwa ngoku kwiindawo ezininzi akukho zithintelo ezinjalo, nangona ama-homophobes aqhubeka nokuphatha i-gays ngokunyelisa. Amazwe apho kuthethwa khona abantu:

• Nebraska;
• ETexas;
• Buffalo;
• ENew York;
• Louisiana.

I-Homophobia eRashiya

Ingxaki yokuhlala kwabantu baseRashiya ayithathwa njengengxaki nganye, iRashiya yilizwe elinemveli yemveli yokuphila kwaye nayiphi na inguqu kwizithethe zentsapho ayimkelekile. Ngomnyaka ka-2013, umthetho wawususwe ukuvinjelwa inkohlakalo yobufanasini, ngoko umbutho weqhayiya kunye nezenzo zithandwayo, akunjalo, njengemitshatweni phakathi kwabantu besini esinye. Abasebenzi be-LGBT bazama ukwenza ukuzingca ngengqingili eMoscow ngo-2006 nakwiSt. Petersburg ngo-2010, okwakuchukumisa intukuthelo phakathi kwabemi bendawo, ngokukhwaza ngamatye, amaqanda kunye neebhotile kwisihlwele. Emazweni aseNtshona, iRashiya ibizwa ngokuba yi-hotbed ye-homophobia.

Iindibano zaseYurophu

Usuku lwaMazwe ngamazwe olubhekiselele ekuHongeni kwabantu lubhiyozelwa ngabazingeli be-gay ngoMeyi 17, ekukhunjweni kokukhutshwa kwimiqathango yezifo zengqondo zesini zobungqingili, njengento ephosakeleyo. Eli holide libizwa ngokungekho mthethweni ngokuthi "usuku lokuzicwasa abantu", zonke izenzo, iimfesane okanye iimballi eziye zadlulelwa kulolu suku zibangele ukugqithisa okubukhali be-homophobes ezimbi kuluntu. EYurophu, ngenxa yocwaningo lwe-ILGA - inhlangano yokukhusela amalungelo oluncinci lwezesondo, yabonakala ukuba izinga lokuzilahla kwabantu lihlala liphezulu:

• I-26% yabasetyhini nabasetyhini abaphenduliweyo bahlaselwa kwaye bahlaziswa ngabafundi bezithethe;
• I-20% yabalingqingili kunye ne-29% yabesini esithandana nabo babecalucalulelwa xa beqesha okanye sele bekhona kwindawo yokusebenzela.

Indlela yokujongana nomntu ohlala ekhaya?

Indlela yokukrazula ukuzithiba kwabantu ngumbuzo onzima ovela kwizinga likarhulumente kunye nomntu ngamnye ngamnye. Ukuba sithatha umzabalazo woluntu ngokuzithengisa abantu, ngokuthe ngcembe kuqaliswa kwinkqubo ngokuphuhliswa kokunyamezela. Umntu ongatshatanga, xa ebhekene nokuhlukumeza abantu, kubalulekile ukuqonda izizathu zokubangela ukuba kubekho ukungalunganga okunjalo kumntu ongqingiliyo: akukho nto yamkelekileyo yobungqingili okanye akukho ukuqonda ukuba bonke abantu bahluke, kwaye uthando lokwabelana ngesondo olufanayo lunelungelo lokuhlala.

Iinkwenkwezi zokuzilalisa abantu

Naluphi na uphuhliso lwentlalo luhlulwe phakathi kwabo "abo" kunye nalabo "abachasene" kunye nothando lokwabelana ngesondo, ubuhlobo bezesondo ezincinci zivame ukubabangela ukuba abantu babe nokuzithiba, kunokuvuma ukuba wonke umntu uhlukile. Phakathi kwabantu abadumileyo abajikelezayo kwimihlaba yokudala baninzi baninzi, nangona bengakhange bavule ngokucacileyo ukuba uyazonda abantu abathandana nabo, kodwa babonisa ukungathandi kwabo. Ama-homophobes

1. Eminem . I-rapper eyaziwayo ngokuphindaphindiweyo yathetha ngamabhinqa kunye nama-lesbians kwiingoma zakhe.
2. Mel Gibson . Umdlali uyaziwa ngokuzinikela kwakhe nangokwenyaniso ixesha elide ukuchitha ubuhlobo bakhe nomzalwana wakhe ongumfana, kwaye ngenxa yeenkcazo ezihlazo malunga neentlobano zesini zincinci ezininzi.
3. Chris Brown . Umntu owayengumfana kaRihanna akayithandi igayidi kwaye usebenzisa igama elithi "gay" njengento yokuthuka.
4. Paris Hilton . Ngokuqhelekileyo kufumana kwiimeko ezingathandekiyo ngenxa yokuba ebhokisini yakhe uyabacasula ama-homosexuals, abanike igama lesidlaliso "iinkunzi kunye nabalingqingili" xa yakhe ingxoxo yomnxeba ebhalwa ngumqhubi weteksi abadayisi be-gay bafika kumajelo eendaba, umbutho womzabalazo wamalungelo esini- Abancinci babefuna ukuba iParis ixolise ngamazwi akhe.
5. UAlec Baldwin . Umdlali we-actor uyaziwa ngabantu abathandwayo bokuzicwaba kwabantu ngabomapolitiko abanokwenziwa kobugcisa bendabuko.

Iifilimu malunga nokuhlala kwabantu

Ipropaganda yokuzimela abantu ngabanye kumazwe ahlukeneyo yintlangano yezopolitiko ehleliweyo ngenjongo yokudala okanye ukugcina unobuncatshulwa obubukhali kubantu abangaqhelekanga ngokuqhelekileyo , ngokugqithiseleyo bewela yonke imida. Kwiziphi iifilimu onokuzibona ngayo into yokuzimela abantu:

1. «I- Dallas abathengi Club ». Ifilimu isekelwe kwiziganeko zangempela. URon Woodruff, umbane waseTexas uthanda abesifazana kwaye uyakuthanda abantu abangqingili. Ngokukhawuleza uRon ungena esibhedlele kwaye uhlalutyo lwegazi lakhe lubonisa ukuba uyagula nge-AIDS. URon unxunguphekile, ngenxa yokuba wayekholelwa ukuba i-AIDS sisifo kuphela sabantu abathandana nabo, abahlobo bajika kuye. URon wenza isigqibo sokulwa nokufuna iindlela ezingenakuvakalayo zokulondoloza ubomi, uyaziqhelana ne-Rayon ehamba phambili kwaye baququzelela iqela labathengi, behambisa izidakamizwa ezingabonakaliyo, kodwa ezingavumelekanga ukulwa noGawulayo.
2. " Brokeback Intaba ". Ibali lothando phakathi kwama-cowboys amabini libonakala kwiindawo ezintle ze-Wyoming, lwenzeka kuma-60s. Inkulungwane ye-XX, xa ukuxhamla phakathi kwendoda nendoda kunokuhlala kubakho ubudlova, ukuzondla abantu kuluntu luqinileyo, kwaye uthando lokwabelana ngesondo olufanayo lubhekwa njengesicatshulwa esifanelekileyo sokufa.
3. " IParade ". ESerbia. Abahlobo ababini baseMarco noRadmilo abathandwayo baphoqeleka ukufihla ubudlelwane babo kuluntu, kunye ne-homophobes enkulu, kodwa zonke iingxaki zixhasayo uMarco noRadmila ukuba baququzelele i-parade ye-gay kweli lizwe, beqonda ukuba oku kungabangela ukufa kwabo.
4. " UKarol / uCarol ." ENew York, kuma-50. Inkulungwane ye-XX., UCarol unento yonke, isikhundla esiphakamileyo kuluntu, umyeni wakhe, intombi, kodwa akanakuvuyela. Ngenye imini, uCarol uhamba esitolo efuna isipho intombi yakhe aze adibana nomthengisi omncinci uTerez, utshaya luvutha phakathi kwabafazi. Ifilimu ngokuthandana ngokwesini esifanayo, ubandlululo kunye nenkohlakalo yoluntu.

Iincwadi ngokuphathelele ukuhlaselwa ngabantu

Isifo sengqondo esingumSwitzerland uZ. Freud malunga nokuzithemba abantu besithi le nto ibonakaliso yongqingili obusondeleyo okanye obunqamlekileyo: unamandla ngakumbi xa umntu ebona inzondo kubangqingili, unamandla okukhanga kwakhe. Ngubani ongumntu ongatshatanga nantoni kwaye kutheni abaninzi baninzi ngento engathandekiyo malunga nothando lwe-unisex unokufunda kule ncwadi elandelayo:

1. " Ukuhlala ekhaya: Ngaba ndiyaziyika? "UMnu Sabunaeva. Inyaniso eyaziwayo kukuba uluntu luchaza imigaqo nemigangatho yalo, kunzima kubantu abanokuqhelana nezoveli ngokwenyama ukuba bamkele ukuhluka kwabo. Incwadi ijoliswe kubantu abaziva bekhanga kwizondo zabo, kodwa abazivumelanga ngokwabo.
2. " Ubuso kunye nemisongo yothando lofana ngesini." Ukukhanya kweNyanga kwintambama "I. Kon. Umsebenzi uya kuba luncedo ekufundeni kweengqondo zeengqondo, izabelo zesini, abazali be-adolescents abaye bafumana iimpawu zobungqingili.
3. " Ukuthanda Umbala Wasezulwini " I. Kon. Umlobi, isazi senzululwazi eyaziwayo yaseRussia kunye nefilosofi, eqokelelwe kwaye ehlaziywe kwingcaciso yolwazi kwimbali, imithombo yenkcubeko malunga nobudlelwane bobulili obufanayo, izizathu zentshutshiso kunye nenzondo ye-sodomites (homophobia).
4. " Psychotherapy. Isikhokelo sokusebenza nabancinci bezesondo "D. Dominic. Ukuba umntu oqhelana ngesondo kunye noxinzelelo lwabantu besini kunye neengcinezelo, ngoko-ke abameli bezesondo abancinci banenkinga yokungaqondi, bafumana uxinzelelo lwentlalo kumazwe amaninzi, ngoko kukho ezininzi i-neurotics. Le ncwadi isikhokelo sokusebenza nabantu abathandanayo.
5. " Ubungqingili. Imbali Yendalo • F. Mondimor. Indlela yokuqonda uthando olufanayo lwesini, kutheni namhlanje emphakathini akukho nto yamkelwayo, ngubani onokuthi unomdla wokuzibandakanya kunye nokuthandana kwabantu besini na? Iimbali ezinomdla kwimbali yamandulo, i-biology.