Abanye abantu bakholelwa ukuba amaphupha nje ngumkhiqizo womsebenzi wengqondo emva kokubonakala komhla. Abanye bayaqiniseka ukuba imifanekiso ebonwayo ifana nomlingo kwaye oku kuyinkcazelo malunga nekamva. Ukuze ubone oku, kufuneka uchaze oko ubonayo.
Kutheni ujonge malunga nokulinganisa izihlangu?
Ukuba kwakufuneka uzame izicathulo esitolo, ngoko ebomini kuya kubakho abaninzi abalandeli. Kwimeko apho kunokwenzeka ukuba ukhethe enye ibini - lo mqondiso obonakalisiweyo, obonisa ukuba ekugqibeleni uya kukwazi ukufumana umlingane womphefumlo. Siza kufumanisa ukuba yiyiphi amaphupha ukulinganisa izambatho ezintsha zowesifazane. Isicwangciso esinjalo sithembisa ukuvela kobudlelwane obutsha bokuthandana. Ebomini kukho umntu oya kuba nefuthe elinamandla ebomini. Iphupha, apho ndafuneka ndizame khona ngezicathulo zabantu, liqikelele ukuqala kwesigaba esitsha ebomini. Isitoliki sephupha sithi ikusasa linikeza ithuba lokutshintsha ubomi ngokubhetele.
Siza kuqonda ukuba kuthini ukuzama izicathulo ezingakhange zifane nobukhulu. Iphupha elinjalo libonisa ukuba kukho ukunganeliseki kwiimeko. USnyknik uthi ukuba xa wenza imizamo, ngoko imeko ingatshintshwa kwicala lakho. Ukuba kwakufuneka uzame izicathulo ezinezithende eziphakamileyo - oku kukubonakalisa ukuphakama kwabanye abantu. Kuya kuba lunomdla ukwazi ukuba ukufaneleka kwezicathulo zomntu kubani. Iphupha elinjalo kuthetha ukuba kwixesha elizayo liza kufuna inkxaso yothandekayo.
Enye into enjalo ithetha ukuba kungekudala umnini wezicathulo uya kufuneka athathe uxanduva lwakhe. Umbono ebusuku, apho umphuphi wazama khona izicathulo ezindala kunye eziqhekezayo - esi sibonakaliso esibi esilumkisa malunga nokuhlukana nomntu othandekayo okanye silindele ukuxabana okukhulu.
Siza kuqonda ukuba kunjani ukulinganisa izicathulo kwisitolo
Kutheni ndiphupha ukuzama izityambo ezintsha?
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