Isimboli samandla weenganekwane zenzelwe inyolo. Iphupha malunga nabo zihambelana ngqo nempilo yabantu. Ukubonakalisa isimo somzimba ngokubanzi kwimizimba okanye ubudlelwane emphakathini, imeko yemali, impumelelo emsebenzini okanye emisebenzini kunye nexesha elithile lomntu - into enokuphuphayo, sizame ukuchazela ngemifanekiso ekhonkco.
Kuthetha ukuthini ukuba amazinyo akho aphelelwe ukulala?
Lindela utshintsho ngokukhawuleza kwintlalo-enhle okanye ekhohlakeleyo, xa uphupha iinto. Iinguqulelo zePosstradamus amaphupha achaza ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo njengengxaki efuna ukwenza izigqibo ngokukhawuleza. Abavumbuli beenkwenkwezi baseYiputa basichaza imibono enjalo - uphawu lokufa kwabathandekayo okanye ababaziyo. Kwezinye iincwadi zokuphupha, amazinyo - afanekisela imeko jikelele yezempilo, kwaye amaphupha ebusuku adibene nokugula okuzayo.
Ukulala kwawela inyoyi ngaphandle kwentlungu kunye negazi
Kubantu abancinci okanye abatsha, ubuthongo buphuma ngaphandle kwentlungu - kuthetha ukutshintsha okulungileyo: ukuguquka ekubeni ngumdala kunye nokuzimela, ukukhula kokomoya - ukubunjwa kobuntu, uthando lokuqala. Mhlawumbi kufuneka ulahlekelwe yinto ethile - ukulahleka kwezinto okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumhlobo ngenxa yokuxabana, ukuhlukana kobudlelwane obusondeleyo, ukuxinezeleka okanye ukulahlekelwa ngumhlali wobomi. Lahla amazinyo anempilo - kukho ingozi yokungadlulanga izifo eziyinkimbinkimbi okanye ukufumana izifo ezingapheliyo. Hlaziya iziganeko ezedlulileyo, kungenzeka ukuba isalathisi sithunyelwe "ukufihla ulwimi" kwaye uhlale uthula.
Kutheni amazinyo abolileyo ewa?
Utshintsho olusisigxina lokubhekisa bhetele lubonakalisa umbono wobusuku, apho izinyo ezibolileyo zawela ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi. Iingxaki kunye nobunzima beentsuku ezidlulileyo kuya kuba semva - uza kuziva ukukhawuleza kwamandla amatsha:
- bayeke ukunxibelelana nabantu abangathandekiyo okanye abahlobo abafihlayo kuphela abazisa ukuxhatshazwa kunye nokungahambi kakuhle ebomini bakho;
- kuya kubakho utshintsho kwimisebenzi yengqesho - kuya kuba ne-offer offer has long been waiting for it will be difficult to refuse;
- ukunyundela, okwemangalelwa, kuya kubonakala - kukho isizathu kunye nobungqina bokungabamsulwa, kwaye abagwebi baya kugwetywa;
- utshintshe indawo yakho yokuhlala ngonaphakade okanye uya kwindawo ethile;
- Ubunzima kunye nobunzima buya kufakwa kwisigaba esitsha sobomi, ngokugqithiseleyo kunobungaphambili.
Amazinyo awela ngegazi ephupheni
Lindela iindaba ezimbi ezivela kwiintsapho zegazi okanye ngabahlobo abasondeleyo, ukuba ubone ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo ngegazi, iphupha elingenalo kakuhle. Uya kufuneka uve iindaba ezigulo okanye ukufa kwalabo obaziyo kakuhle. Umntu osondeleyo unokuthuthela kwenye indawo kwaye uxhumo phakathi kwakho luya kulahleka okanye imeko engalindelekanga iya kubakhokelela ekulahlekelweni kwemali okanye ekunciphiseni ngokomoya. Yiba yinto epholile, ungaphelelwa yithemba kwaye ungakhathazeki, kungekudala yonke into iya kulungiswa kwaye iya kubuya ejwayelekile.
Ngokuqhelekileyo le mibono yasebusuku iyabethusa lowo uphuphayo, kodwa akusoloko ivela kubo kubalulekile ukulinda into engekho emhlabeni jikelele. Kukhona ithuba lokuzibiza ngesimo sengqondo esingalunganga kwizinto abazibonayo - iingqondo zethu ezingenangqondo ziyazi kakuhle izimo zengqondo kunye nokwesaba okuvela ngaphandle kwaye kuzama ukuguqulela. Ukwesaba kwethu kunye nokulindela kweyona nto inakho kakhulu, ekugqibeleni, kukhokelela kwinto ekulindelwe kwinqanaba elincinci.
Iyintoni iphupha lezinyo zangaphambili?
Ubungakanani obuphakamileyo ukuba umntu uya kuphulaphula iindaba ezimbi, "ulahlekelwe ubuso", ube semeko engathandekiyo, ube neentloni okanye ungakhathazeki kwiziganeko ezenzekayo, ulahlekelwe ngumntu okhuzisayo okanye umntu ongeyamukeliyo ukuba inyosi yangaphambili iwele ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi. Ngamanye amaxesha lo mbono uba ngumqondiso othe ngqo malunga nemeko yomlomo ngomlomo wangempela-i- ejenti yezinyo ezibuthakathaka okanye i-hypersensitivity. Nika ingqalelo kwimpilo - tyelela udokotela wamazinyo.
Kutheni ndiphupha ukuba amazinyo amabini ahla?
Iingxaki ezincinci zilindeleke ukuba enye inyoyi iwile, kwaye ukuba amazinyo amabini ephupha ephupheni, iimeko ezikhoyo okanye iingxaki ezintsha zingadluka. Kunokwenzeka ukuba, ebomini akukho inkxaso nenkxaso ethembekileyo yokwenza isigqibo esinoxanduva. Ukulahlekelwa kwamazinyo ngaphandle kweentlungu kunye nokuxhatshazwa kwegazi nabantu abathile. Ukutshintshwa kweziganeko kuya kuba luncedo kwixesha elizayo, nokuba ngaba okwangoku simele senze oonxibelelwano abatsha, okuya kuthi, kubaluleke kakhulu, kuya kubaluleka kwaye kubaluleke ngakumbi kunabo badala.
Kuyathakazelisa ukwazi ukuba isitywina sezinyo esiye saphupha ephupha sinokuthi:
- ukusuka kwisigulane - ikhaya okanye ukuxabana okuncinci, inkunkuma yamanzi emva kokuqala, ngoko ungakhathazeki kakhulu malunga noko ubonile;
- ukusuka kwimpilo - ukudluliselwa kwesifo esilula, inkathazo encinci;
- abanye abantu-balindele ixesha elimnandi lomsebenzi, baya kufuneka benze umgudu omkhulu wokufezekisa injongo;
- ukugubungela isitywina sokuphosa - umzamo wokulungisa iphutha, isiphumo sokugqibela siya kuxhomekeka kwimigudu eyenziwe.
Kunokwenzeka ukuba kuya kuba nethuba lokufumana inkxaso ethembekileyo evela ngaphandle ukuba uyayifuna. Kwixesha elizayo elisondeleyo, imisebenzi yangoku iya kugqitywa ngempumelelo, isiphumo siya kukukholisa, amandla asetshenzisiweyo aya kuzisa iziqhamo ezilinde ixesha elide. Ukuba ulindele isicatshulwa, bonisa umdla - xelela malunga namava akho kunye nenkxaso yeengcinga okanye izalamane. Yiphendula, ungavali kwaye ungabonakali.
Ziyintoni na amaphupha amazinyo angamanga aphuma?
Amazinyo amanga abizwa ngokuba ngamazinyo amanga. Ukuba amazinyo anjalo aphuma ephupheni ngaphandle kwegazi, inkohliso ayifakiwe. Ukuxhalabisa ngezihlobo kuya kuba buxoki, ukuxhalabisa kuya kubonakala kungenangqiqo kwaye yonke into iya kupheliswa kakuhle, ngenxa yoko, amava angaqhelekanga aya kutshintshwa ngeemeko ezimnandi. Olunye ukhetho - abahlobo okanye isiqingatha esithandekayo baya kwenza ukhohlisayo, kwaye uya kufunda ngako - izicwangciso ezifihliweyo ziya kubhengezwa ngempumelelo.
Ukubona umfanekiso, apho amazinyo amatsha akhule khona, endaweni yabantu abadala, uya kuba namava ajabulisayo. Amazinyo amazinyo ayenayo ezindaweni zawo - ukuphakanyiswa, ukuqaphela impumelelo kwabanye, ukunikezelwa kwexesha elide, ukuphucula imeko yezemali, isimo sengqondo esifanelekileyo kunye nokwanda kwindlela yokusebenza kwamandla. Amazinyo angabonakaliyo kwaye angenasimilo - aphinde acinge ngobuhlobo bakho bobuhlobo. Qinisekisa kubantwana kwaye uhlawule ngakumbi kwiindwendwe ezindala.
Abaguquleli banamhlanje bachaza oko kuthetha ntoni ukuba amazinyo akho aphuma-ukungcola okungenamthetho kwamandla, iingxoxo ezingenanto nabantu abangabazi. Ungaphinda uthethe amazinyo akho kwabanye, okanye ungadideka ngamagama akho uze ulahlekelwe igama elihle. Musa ukuyika ukwesaba kobukumkani bukaMorpheus ngobomi bokwenene-ukukhathala kolu suku kuya kubachaphazela kakubi ukuphumla kokuhlwa kunye nombono olalayo kuya kuba ngumqondiso wokukhathala okwandayo, kunokuba kuneziganeko ezithile.